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I'm not going to lie to you darling, I found all that very very hard to follow because it just sounds like a big mess to me. I can tell you right away that this isn't a healthy relationship and in the end it's not going to do you any good being with this guy and him being with you. If you're constantly breaking up and making up then it's not worth the heart ache in the end. The only thing I can suggest is that you take a little time away from each other to think about what you really want and wo…

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Hello, Can i just say that there's nothing 'wrong' with you, the committment issues come to different people. It's a good sign that you did break up with that girl because your heart just wasn't into it. And let me tell you that is so much better than you string her along in the hope you did feel something for her. However, we still have the issue of you fearing committment. I guess the only answer will come to you hen you ask yourself why you fear it. It can be something to do with family life …

I know this is a bit late but the best thing to get a girlt hat you like is to know what she wants. Easy things like chocolates can be a backup present if you're having trouble with finding what she likes. Perfume is a good option but it can be hard to find the right one. Seriously, there's nothing better than a nice surprise so just go with your instincts!!!!!

Hey Rhi, My my what a pickle that's happened... I'm really sorry you've been affected the way that you have. First off can I just say that you was a great friend to G, being really concerned about her safety and helping her about it is a sign of a great friendship. However, I wish I could help you about your friend...If she is willing to lie about rape, pregnancy, miscarriages and abortion then she doesn't deserve to be your friend at all. They are the 4 things that a women shouldn't lie about a…

Oh Gizmo... harming yourself isn't the answer. It really isn't. In the end you're going to just look back at the scars and marks and just feel worse that you're making your beautiful body. Try to take your anger and stresses out on other things. I know people who listen to music to calm themselves down while others paint or draw or write their feelings out artitically. Just something else that will take away the desire to harm yourself because I speak from experience... It's really not worth it.…

^ age doesn't mean anything in this situation. The only thing that I can advise is that you talk to her about it, but i must warn you she might be upset you're thinking about it. The way you said "I think i love her" is a big indication that it may not work out because you do need a strong bond with no doubt. You can visit each other if you need to, but it does take a lot of hard work and dedication to make a long distance relationship work. Good luck yeah? MuchLove_x

What a lovely thought! I understand that you want to give her something, and you're not sure if she will feel the same etc etc, but there's no point in hiding away if you really want to show her that you do like her. Now... I personally think that flowers are a bit... much. Especially if you're not with her yet and you're just wanting to give her something. Paying for her ticket it a good idea as is like buying her popcorn/sweet etc, but instead of flowers why not buy her some chocolates? Or fin…

There is no right place to meet a partner, so there can't be a right or wrong answer in this case darling. However, there are good places that you can try to meet someone. These include places like school, work, whereever you do your hobbies etc. Meeting a partner doesn't always happen over night, it can take time to build a friendship and then a relationship. I understand that you're feeling pressure because of your studies, but don't be worrying about getting a girl when your degree is there t…

Irene, I'm not going to tell you you're too young to feel love, nor am I going to say that you won't understand what he's going to with schooling because I don't want to underestimate what you've been through in life. However, and I'm sorry to have to tell you this, but I think it's over between you two. Mainly because of the signs. If he's deleting you off facebook and blocking (i suspect) on msn, then my only guess is that he may have met someone else. Now, please don't take my advice as if it…

I agree with Sarah... It really does suck, and I'm sorry for the pain you're feeling, but time is the best healer. I know you feel like after a year that you're never going to get over her... It will happen darling. You just have to do things that takes your mind of her. Hanging out with friends is a great one because you have fun and you forget your troubles, but the best one to fully get over a girl is to move on and try to find someone else to focus this great loving energy that you have. Any…

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Hey Sarah, First off I just want to let you know that you shouldn't fear opening yourself up to someone that you have feelngs for. Especially if the person hasn't expereinced it before and isn't as understanding as you may want them to be. I'm going to try and help you ok? Like the poster above me has said... You should try and talk to him about why you act the way you do sometimes when you feel awkward and uncomfortable. I understand that this includes you opening up to this guy... And I won't …

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Extroverted (E) 78.13% Introverted (I) 21.88% Sensing (S) 56.82% Intuitive (N) 43.18% Feeling (F) 57.14% Thinking (T) 42.86% Judging (J) 65.71% Perceiving (P) 34.29% Your type is: [SIZE=+3]ESFJ[/SIZE] ESFJ - "Seller". Most sociable of all types. Nurturer of harmony. Outstanding host or hostesses. 12.3% of total population. Free Jung Personality Test

Unfortunatly you can't make a person fall in love in you... It's the ahrd truth but you may have to accept that he may not see you in that way. However, there are ways which you can open his eyes to see what a great person you are. Things like hanging out/talking a lot more usually do the trick so that he can get to know you better and vise versa. Ask him if he'd like to sit with you at lunch, or hang out after school to do homework. It doesn't have to be just you and him, get friends together a…

The best thing in these situations is to just downright ask about the truth. Whether it's from him, although you've said that he won't talk about it, it's your right to know if something is going on with your boyfriend and your friend. If you can't talk to him about it, go to your friend. Like I said, you deserve the truth as he is your boyfriend. You're not in the wrong for feeling unsure and it annoying you... it's human nature. But you certainly don't deserve to be messed about with by your f…

Aww hun I'm so sorry that you missed your chance with this girl, it is a shame to not get with the person you like... But it is possible to get over her. I promise First off, if you truly believe that you can't get back with her, do keep her friendship. Let her know that you'll be there for her if she needs help with problems with her new bf of just life in general. Plus it's always good to keep the friendship in case sdhe does become available again. As for getting over her... there is no right…

Hello Brandon, Well the first thing that came to mind when reading your story is to confront this girl. It's not fair that she has been treating you badly, whether it's out of fear or just our of spite. Although ignoring someone who is extremely rude is generally the best poilcy in these situations, I understand that there is only so much a persona can take. Because when being shouted at for no reason, humans feel down and start to get angry with others and themselves. And that shouldn't happen …