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I know it's going to be hard for you to do, but honestly telling your cousin what happened and why you did it is the best way out of this. Perhaps say something like, "I called you a whore because of some of the things you did...I'm sorry, I know I shouldn't have judged you like that. I hope you can forgive me." Let her know, you know it was wrong of you to say that, and how you feel about it. Then, after that is done, telling your friend and her boyfriend you're sorry and that you came clean wi…

Honestly, I think you just need to sit down and talk with your friend who is pissed at you. Ask him "Why would I do that?" Say how you're his friend, and would never do anything to hurt him, and tell him how hurt you are that he would think that. If he doesn't believe you, then only thing is to let time heal the wound, things should settle down a bit, and when they do you can try talking to him again. Right now he's just mad, and he's going to react the way he feels he should. After trying to ta…

As the other Jenna said, talking to her is the only way to solve this problem. I don't mean to repeat what she's said, but I just want to say this to reassure you it needs to be done. Talking to her is the only way you'll know for sure. I'm sure if she loves you attraction isn't the problem. That wouldn't be a problem in general if her feelings for you are that strong, so I don't think you have to worry about that. But again, just sit down with her, and ask her about it. Ask if she's ready or if…

Cry. Let it out. Listen to a sad song and let the tears fall. Anastasia is right. Right now your stressed, and your emotions need to take over for a while. There's nothing wrong with that. And perhaps when you're feeling a little better, calmer, you can tell us what's so stressful, and maybe we could help. Though in times like this, sometimes it does just take a good cry and then it's a matter of picking yourself up.

Now why would money be the thing to hold you back? There is no happiness in money. Yeah, cliche, but refer to bottom right of my sig. What dusk meant was, if you're going to die, die while trying to overcome your disease, and not let it limit you. I'd agree, but I don't know what your disease is so I can't say much about that. Man, you're so smart, except when it comes to girls. You're smart in the sense that you know at this age you shouldn't be looking for "the one", but not smart enough to kn…

just start talking to him on facebook then. Get a conversation going and try and be friends first. don't show you like him just yet, because he'll get the idea eventually. by doing this first, you'll see if he's interested in you too, and if you have things in common. it's also private and it can avoid all the drama that formed with the first guy.

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Hey, no one thinks you're looking for attention. You're just looking for some help, be cause you don't want to end your life this way, and that's a plus right there. You know that it's a crappy way to end everything, so let's try and look at a few things before we start jumping off of bridges shall we? First of all, theunknownthunder made a great post about how you can speak out more. The speech class is a wonderful idea as well. In my opinion, listening to both posts could help you greatly. I t…

hey, well you say you have a better chance with this guy? Well great. First off, let's think about the past issue, which can still bite you in the ass later. You say he's never alone to talk, do you have him on facebook or his cell to text? AIM, MSN, something? The note system is too much drama. Other people can see them, and there's no privacy. My suggestion, don't use them again even with this new fellow. Anyway, if you can get a hold of him outside of school, just talk to him and explain the …

Jenna is absolutely right. People drift apart at some points because they have no common interests anymore. In elementary school, our lives were so restricted to lunch, recess and what was on tv that afternoon. Now is the time where we come into our own, and for the most part separate from our own friends, because think about it, back then anyone could get along with anyone because they had everything in common. Now we don't. What are you interested in? As has been said, extra curricular activit…

You seem to show signs of liking him. And that thing where you're not really all there I think shows some uncertainty. That's a bit normal at times. You say you seem to go crazy when you're around him, but that you get bored at times? Well is it that because at the time he's saying something you're not that interested in? Just because you can't stay focused on someone and what they're saying doesn't mean that you don't like him, just perhaps not as strongly. But if your personality is more of so…

Your Brain is Sensitive You are very keyed in to the world around you. You are in tune with every feeling. You understand your own emotions well. You integrate them into your thinking process. You are very thoughtful and expressive. You are good at conveying your ideas. You like being around other people but never in a superficial way. You like your interactions to have meaning.

I'm kinda leaning toward that she likes you, but that comment a friend made about her feeling sorry she lead you on is what's keeping me from being sure. She's being shy around you, she's looking at you, her actions, even though drunk she said she liked you, are all signs, but then that comment...how can you confirm it? Can you find out if she told that friend? Or if they're just guessing by the way she was acting? Just talk to her about it, mention how she used to like you, and see how she reac…

I know it's been said, but guess what, it's true. Time Time Time Time. Think it's cliche? Refer to the bottom right of my signature. Now, I just got out of one that long too. It's still killing me a bit. Think about it, that's over a year, you thought about him, you spent time with him, and he was a big part of your life for a long period of time which just ended. Things to think about are why it ended. Also think about the future, how someone else is out there for you, that this isn't the last …

You'll regret not saying yes in my opinion, but school is more important *as I procrastinate doing my homework right now*. Anyway, as has been said, just let him know you have school work to do before you two can do anything. Perhaps ask for help, and work on things together. "Study date"? Then after you two finish you can go hang out for real. But yeah, it's high school, he's gonna have work too. If you have self discipline and make sure you set time aside for your studies, you should be good.

Try not to just hug him. Make the hug long, and then just stay there, give him the hint you want him to kiss you. If he doesn't get it, then just go for it. I know it may be hard, but just close your eyes and let it happen. I'm sure you won't regret it. For getting over shyness, it's quite hard. It's like getting over being shy in general, except it's worse because you really care about the person you're being shy with. I had this problem big time. I honestly never solved it, but I improved on i…

Tell your sister what this is doing to you. She needs to see that by being in this relationship she is not only hurting herself, but it's adding a lot of stress on you. Ask her if she loves him more than you. Get her thinking, then tell her how alone she's made you feel by being with him, tell her how this is affecting you so much. Make it seem like you are a victim in this as well as she is, the only difference is she's not realizing it. Sadly, calling the cops in a situation like this doesn't …

I would normally say talk to them, but it seems you've tried to do so already. Conditions in your home seem a bit rough, and a bit over the top. I wouldn't say give up per say, but abiding by their rules without argument for a while may cause them to give you a little more slack. Act like the perfect kid they want, and then they'll see that you're not who they think you are. I think you are correct. You made one mistake, okay, let's not go overboard with it. I think you've learned your lesson? T…

you said in another thread you think you're ugly and not popular....

I'd like to be nice here, but in my opinion you are being a bit optimistic. At the moment it may seem like you have things planned out, but it's like when you said you'd get an abortion, it's different when you actually are. It's going to be different when the baby is really there and the baby really needs care, and you want to do things with your life, you can't do. Your boyfriend has a say in this also. He's only 20, and the way he's acting, he's confused. He's not ready to be a father right n…