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I have in the past but not anymore, even if im angry. Its disrespectful.

Quote from silverarrowgriffin: “So I've just graduated High School last month and I'm going to be in college soon. I really really want to take up Filming but my parents had decided that I'm going to Med School. The thing is, I'm fine with Med School but what I really want to take up is Filming and my parents would never listen to me when i try to convince them in letting me study in a Film School. Sometimes I cry about it because my dream of being a filmmaker started when i was 9 and i just fin…

You are exhibiting mild forms of depression due to the fact (as you explained) that you feel lonely. I dont think you need anti-depressants. What I see more appropriate here is that you learn how to express yourself and communicate. It seems like you have those friends because they came and talked to you. The good thing is that you seem to be a nice and charming person that when people come and talk to you you dont behave inappropriately or tell them to get lost. You are a likable person once so…

I would call it more of a perversion. Somehow in your thoughts you are fantasizing about this really young girl. Is this the first time this has happened? What exactly do you find attractive about this child? It will get you in a lot of trouble to act on your desires so I suggest you dont talk or get near her again. You might want to talk to a mental health practitioner to help you see what is happening with this.

For me both are important. I could like someone with good looks but if the personality sucks it wont work out. By the same token, he can have a great personality but if im not attracted to him physically it wont work either. So both are of importance to me.

Quote from danielbutel: “ why do i keep letting him back in why do i keep trusting him ” Thats a good question that only you can answer. Try to answer it. It can give you clues as to why you trust him after he betrays your trust. Until you figure that out, what we might tell you will not be of much help.

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Sounds like he knows you love him very much and he is trying to put pressure on you into fulfilling his sexual needs. Dont give in to him. You have in your mind that you want it to be special. Then let it be special dont let anyone pressure you onto doing what they like. Your needs count too you know! I think he is going around trying girls sexually and once he does he moves on to the next he hasnt yet had sex with. I think he still tells you that "he loves you in his mind" and all that bull cra…

Quote from Suicide Season: “First off, I'm not looking for attention, I'm looking for help. About a month ago I asked the girl that I've liked for the past four years to prom. Last Monday she dumped me without any warning at all, saying that we were having problems and it wasn't working out. I had no idea that any of this was going to happen. I already had my tux paid for to match her dress. It completely shocked me. Then she started spreading lies and rumors around the school about me of how I …

Yes, you show a lot of signs of clinical depression. Feeling down constantly and wishing you were dead are manifestation of acute depression. Lack of motivation to go out and 'hang out' with friends. Your parents probably don't understand it or don't want to be faced with the fact that you are depressed. They are hoping you will magically snap out of it. Unfortunately it doesn't work that way in real life. I would suggest that you ask them to take you to see a counselor to rule out a chemical im…

Quote from rainydays: “Okay, so this is a different situation. There's this guy that I've been talking to on FB and we never really talk in person. So, after we've been talking a while, he suggests that we go out for ice cream sometime. Then a little later, he tells me that he had a crush on me last year. Then when asked by someone else, the boy tells them that he doesn't like me. Tell me, please, someone, what is the point of this? I don't understand...” It could be that he feels embarrassed wh…

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Quote from Aannddyy: “It also looks cool.” What could possibly be so cool about scaring your body. Its not smart at all to cut. So be smart and don't cut. Now that is cool. :cool:

Ok, one thing I keep seeing and it doesn't have to be that way is the people when they fall in love they want to "make the other person love me". I think that is counter-productive. We should not expect to "make someone love me". This is a thinking error. We can never "make" anyone do anything specially when it comes to feelings and thoughts. When one goes into this type of behavior in trying to constantly trying to impress someone to "make" them like us, we are being deceitful. Rather than dece…

Thank you for venting. I know its something that is upsetting you a great deal. You cant lose hope because it will come to you. You cant and wont be the "only person in the planet" who wont have a gf and just have friends... Organgrinder makes a very good point. Maybe you are looking so hard that you are blind in a sense. When it comes it comes and you will know. You seem to be having a feeling of being used. I know that is upsetting to anyone. Be patient and optimistic. You will gain nothing bu…

How come you isolate yourself? Is it a communication issue? Do you need to learn communication skills? What is that distance for? It serves a purpose to you thats why you do it. I think its that you are either shy, feel awkward, or that you really are not that skilled at talking with others (communicating) or a combination of all. I also think you are afraid of rejection by your peers hence why you chose to isolate and distance yourself from people. If so I suggest you read online since you are …

Quote from williamtellsdeath: “Idk I just a people pleader I guess. I find myself unable to say no” There is a problem there then... You probably feel inadequate and the only way for you to feel adequate is by getting the approval of others. That is unproductive since we cant please everyone. It becomes a problem. Quote from DREAM3R: “no your not a whore, whores get paid.” Lmao!!! :rofl:

Ah ok. Hmm you are in a tough spot. The other thing you can do is maybe when she starts to get that way, can you get out for a walk? Can you lock yourself in your room? If she cant be helped that way then you would have to make changes with you, I know you mentioned you cant move out yet, maybe when you see her not being herself again maybe go out or lock yourself so that you wont have to deal with her problems. Dont internalize things. Although she might tell you its your fault its trully not, …

I see. Yeah we can only change ourselves. She drinks to relax? It sounds like she gets the opposite effect. Is she aware of that? Is she sober at any point in the day? You said she is taking antidepressants, well alcohol is a depressant so those pills are not doing anything for her if she is drinking. But if she is taking antidepressants that means she is seeing a psychiatrist. Can you talk to her psychiatrist about her drinking problem? She doesn't see her alcoholism as a problem so she is in d…

Quote from Ikouze: “So I ride the city bus home everyday from school. Every once in a while, I see this girl who looks about 19 or 20 ride the bus. She is really pretty and stares at me a lot. Once I even looked her straight in the eyes and she looked away quickly. My friend even says she looks at me when I'm turned away sometimes. Is she interested in me or does she just think I'm weird? I wanted to talk to her last time I saw her to see if I could get her phone number but I chickened out. Next…