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  • Re: shy

    Trillium - - Dating and Relationship Advice

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    Shyness is very hard to work through. How I do it, is I just take a deep breath, then say what I want to be said. If it's a text, I type out what I want to say to the person, and close my eyes and hit send. Then it's done. I can't take it back, and as a keep doing that, I feel more comfortable texting that one person more. Now when in class, try asking her about things other than biology. "So do you play any sports in school?" "What other classes are you taking?" "When's your lunch period?" (You…

  • Re: Money?

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  • I kinda agree here, I think your mother is only looking out for what may be best for you, and from the sounds of this girl, she's not that great. But that's only going by what you've said about her, I personally just don't like the idea of a 16 year old smoking, where she lives really doesn't have any affect on my opinion though. Well that's my two cents on the matter. Now, for advice, if you like her, and she likes you where's the problem other than your mother? Age doesn't really matter that m…

  • Re: I feel lost

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    Do you think you can talk to your father about this situation? Let him know that he's losing you because of this woman and that he's going to have to choose between you and her. Really get to him, ask him if he's really willing to lose his child for some woman who's ruined his/your life. Tell him that if he's a good father, he'd do what's best for you, and not himself. Let him know that right now you need him. If that doesn't work, the next best thing is to keep looking for that job. It may take…

  • You're right, she's not ready for a serious relationship. If she's that quick to change who she "loves" then I don't believe she's mature enough for a real relationship like the type you want. She's still lying to you about things, such as how long she talked to this Mike fellow, and you seem to see that she hasn't changed like she claims. I'm not sure what you're asking, because I didn't read a question, but it seems you understand completely what is going on with her. She's not ready for a ser…

  • Sorry to say, for getting over someone time is the only answer. There's not quick fix. As said, cut communication with him. Trying to contact him and not get a response will make things worse for you. Try to keep yourself busy, and not think about him. If you do start to think about him, just think about all the bad things about him. He was using you, he tried to hook up with other girls when he was with you. Overall, he just didn't care about you. Just keep those things in mind, and after a whi…

  • Sadly, there's nothing you can do. People fight, that's what happens in relationships, marriages, and between parents. You can't stop them from fighting all the time, or change the way they feel about each other. You say you want them to feel the love, but what if there is no love anymore? If they are going to get a divorce, that is between them, and only them. Sure you are their child, and you're a part of what will happen, but their marriage is between them. If they choose to get a divorce, it…

  • He's not a bad guy to his friends, that's for sure. So he's a social person, a lot of good and bad people are. As far as what he's done with the police, and organizing that entire illegal party, not so much. But the bad things he's done as far as the law does not make him a "bad guy", it just means that he has no respect for the law. Just because it doesn't make him a bad guy, doesn't make him a "good" guy either, but I think a bad influence on you and other people perhaps. I don't really know h…

  • Re: grad photos

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    I agree with Patrick in the sense of explaining why you didn't want him in the photo. Just tell him, that it's for your group of friends only because of how you've all been through so much together, and you want this to be just for you guys. It's something special, and to be honest he wasn't there, and it would take away from the meaning of the photo. I disagree that you should let him take the photo with you though...call me selfish, but this is your senior year, and this is the last thing you …

  • As dusk said, the best you can do is go up to the guy, and set everything strait. Tell him you have no idea why your friend would says something like that, but you just want it to be known it's not true, and you're tired of the lie. That's really the only, and best way to solve that issue. As for your friend, you have every right to be mad at her. She lied about your virginity. That's bad enough, but saying it to a guy you like, is even worse. True, it will create drama, but that's what happens …

  • Re: f*ck this :(

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    Everyone's pretty much hit the nail on the head. He has no right to tell you if you can hang out with your old ex. It obviously shows some jealousy on his part, but he still should control it. He's your best friend right? Well, as such, you should be able to talk to him about these things. Tell him you don't like that he's been ignoring you, and that he has no right to be upset over this. And if he ignores it, well then he just needs to get his feelings sorted out is all, and that may take a whi…

  • You seem very set on the fact she doesn't like you. As Jenna said, not everyone shows they like someone the way everyone else does. But, if you've tried to make contact with her, and there's no response, then I would say she's either lost interest in you, or unable to communicate with you for some reason. I say ask her about it. There's nothing wrong with it. And when I say ask her, I mean call her and say, "Hey what's up with you ignoring me for the past three weeks?" You'll get your answer the…

  • Your Mind is NC-17 Rated You're mind is so filthy... you should should be washing every part of you out with soap. If your thoughts can go dirty, they do. Almost everything is NC-17 to you!

  • I agree, the breakup could be causing some of the feelings you're having. Even though you are over it, the way you reacted may be what is causing you to lose friends. You may have started to act differently perhaps? That's just an idea, why do you think you're losing friends? If there's anything else going on in your life, tell us. They could very well be the cause of the way you're feeling as well.

  • Re: Please Help Me....

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    Well it is hard to leave something you've done for such a long time, and invested so much money into. I think your parents are in the right in wanting to protect you, because street racing is both illegal and dangerous. They just don't want anything to happen to you, and you need to understand that. Anyway, for what you can do to convince them, just tell them all you have supporting why you should be allowed to race. It's your track, so the danger is decreased, and say what safety measures you'v…

  • If it bothers you, then it should. Honestly it would bother the hell out of me. As said, your family, and mother are supposed to love you no matter what. Saying happy birthday is a part of that. Her actions toward you, and going to another party were also way out of line as well. For my birthday, my mother clears her schedule. It's just something she does because she loves me. Even my father, would do the same. You have every right to feel upset about how your mother acted, and that she didn't w…

  • Quote from Number Juan: “Suicide is never justified. It's the cowardly way out. Nothing positive comes out of it. People that suicide just give up every opportunity they had/would have in their lives and they just harm people around them. "Oh! I feel bad. I am going to kill myself." Should never be the case. Sure, they might have some pretty bad circumstances. But with hard work things always get better. So IMO it is sad, tragic, pathethic , too young but never justifiable. Just saw a video at m…

  • When you start to back out, and the thoughts of what bad may happen start to come into your head, just push them out by thinking of all the good that could. Cancel out each bad thought in your mind. It's like making a list of pros and cons, only focus on making those pros, because you know you want to date the girl.

  • My mom and step mom figured it out before i told them. When I finally told them my mom said: "Okay, let's go visit him" My dad was like...you've had a 19 year old boyfriend in another state for five months..? oh sh*t! But for strict parents, try not to lie. The truth comes out eventually. Just make sure you tell them about the good aspects of him, that will win them over. What good does he do? Tell them how kind he is to you, perhaps a good influence, some things he's involved with (clubs, sport…

  • Well what do you normally do to get girls?