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Well, you don't call it verbal abuse, but swearing, insulting and everything IS verbal abuse. Perhaps staying with a relative would snap your mom out of it? Yes, I'm going to say talk to her first, because you don't want to take action without warning. It's just so you can fall back on it saying "I tried talking to you, but you didn't do anything about it". Just to cover yourself. But it can also really help. A parent should normally respond when their kid says "I need you to do this to help me"…

It seems you know exactly what to do. You know what your father is, and how he acts. You know you don't want that kind of behavior around your little girl. You've already talked to your boyfriend about it, and you've both already made a good choice. Now, the next step is telling your father your choice. You need to tell him. It may be hard, but it has to be done. I agree with you that it would be bad to have someone like that around your daughter, whether he's your father or not. He may get mad,…

Your Road is Paved With Determination You are a person of substance. You believe that character is important, and you work hard to do the right thing. You don't mind doing what needs to be done. In fact, you tend to relish responsibilities and work. You are tough. You don't complain, even when you are dealt an unfair hand. You deal with life's ups and downs like a champ. Even if you have to pedal uphill for a while, you know it will be a sweet ride down the hill!

You both made a choice, that he doesn't seem to be respecting, which means he's not respecting you in my opinion. (Unless you think different, of course you know him better than I do.) This is just my first reaction. If you think it's ruining your friendship, then talk to him about it. Actually, talk to him no matter what. Bring your decision to him and if it's that you don't want to go any further with him, then make sure it's clear to him that no means no, and him touching and kissing you isn'…

Your parents need to understand that this is your childhood, and it's not up to them who your friends are. You say you've talked to them about it, so I doubt me saying to do it again would do you any good. So, all I can say for that matter is that you shouldn't let your parents decide your friends. They can argue with you, they can say to you that you can't be friends, but the fact of the matter is that when you go to school, you decide who you sit with at lunch. Sure after school may be an issu…

Psychologist & Psychiatrist <--- There is a difference For those of you afraid to visit a doctor or shrink due to the possibility of being placed on certain medications, read this for clarification. There are a variety of options and treatments to help you, here’s a few of them: Some options: Psychiatrist: These doctors specialize in medication, and they will find a medication that is best suited for you. Honesty is an important policy with your doctor, always being informative about your medica…

Some of the things seem to be flirting, the touching, smiling, trying to get your attention ect. To be sure, try doing some of the things to her. Flirt with her. Talk to her more. Give her your attention like she wants and as you do, she'll start to get more "daring" in her attempts to flirt if she really is interested. As you talk to her you should be able to get an idea of whether or not she is interested in you. Then if you're interested in her as well, then ask her to hang out. But talking t…

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The site is banned from the computer and he hasn't been on it for a while? Well that seems like a good thing. I'm not saying long distance/online relationships are bad, because their not. It just sounds like that guy was not who he says he was as you said. I think if he's not active for a long time, and eventually doesn't come back things will calm down in time. Possibly a lot of time. I know you've already tried talking to her, so I'm not going to suggest it again. If you want to keep trying, g…

I've been through that. Sit down with your mom and tell her something like this. She needs to realize that you're 16. It's your time to grow up. She knew this day was coming when she gave birth to you. Kids grow up, and they eventually get to the age where they need to start driving. And yes, driving is expensive at first. Insurence is expensive at first because teens rates are very high. But the fact of it is, you deserve the chance. Driving is a privilege, not a right, BUT you deserve that pri…

As everyone said, all you can do is ignore her. I hate school drama just for this reason. Now, there is something you can do about being partners with them. All you have to do is stay after class and tell your teacher "So and so and I are not on good terms, and for the future, I'd prefer if there is a class assignment in which we need partners, we are not together." Explain that it would be better for everyone, and things would not be as productive if you were together. Teachers are usually good…

Well, you went a long time without having one right? Who says you can't do it again? I don't have the same problem you have, but I have depression. I get depressive episodes which can last weeks to months. I count the days they last, and I count the days I don't feel depressed. The days in between, are starting to last longer than before, so perhaps that's what you need to look for. You were happy before, hopeful, so you know you can feel that. There's no reason why you can't again. Are you seei…

I think it's fine that you're attracted to older guys, but that age difference is a bit much. I'm not saying it's wrong, because there are plenty of relationships that are like that and true. It's just this one that seems a little... Now, let's have a good look at what happened. -He invited you to meet him. Not too bad. -You invited him in for coffee. That's kinda the sign that you want to have sex -He kissed you. You guys just met, you said it felt wrong, but you liked it. Of course you did, th…

If you two are that comfortable around each other, go for it. He seems to like you as you said, so I can't see why you should let height stand in the way. Looks don't matter, just like the way you said the way he dresses is just a bonus, so should looks. Height goes under the classification of looks, because it is a physical feature. My thoughts? Don't let the height hold you back.

There's a 39% Chance You'll Be Rich No doubt about it, you really love money. You just love spending it more than making it. You have expensive tastes, and it takes a lot of dough to bankroll you. You'd love to be rich, but it's not going to happen unless you start saving some of your hard earned money. Try to sock away some funds for a rainy day. That's how normal folks get started on becoming rich.

hey. you can talk to me if you want. I'm not sure if I can make any suggestions how to help your situation, because you're in a different country and how I got help with this sort of thing was with organizations in the U.S. What I can suggest is talk to your friends if you can. That's what they're there for. To help you, and not judge you. Explain to them you need to talk to them about something, but you don't want it to change how they are with you. You need to do something for yourself. But, m…

Cheap things to do are always problems for some. There are a few things I can think of off hand, as well as a quick google search. -You can invite her to your place, and make her dinner and watch a movie together. -The park or beach are good ideas. Perhaps bring lunch. -Ask if she'd be interested in you showing her how to shoot an airsoft gun. -Go to a local high school, college or university event together, such as a homecoming game, art show or musical event. -Is there anywhere nearby known fo…

Well, I think you should think of what you want to say. We shouldn't tell you. It's your mother. Not ours. Think of questions, talk to her about your life and what's been going on and maybe why you decided to contact her. Otherwise, say what you feel. Try writing it out and make a list of what you think you might want to say to her, and take some time to have a good think about it. Then, if it does happen to be her, you can say those things, see if she wants to be in your life, and possibly poin…

Quite a lot. But I'm glad your thoughts were well organized. Well, first off it seems you've never been "friends" with them. At first I was going to say, you don't need a lot in common to be friends, as my old best friend and I were nothing alike, but from what you say, you're more annoyed about being in the situation you're in. You don't feel accepted, and left out. I don't really think that's a good feeling, and it's not a feeling friends would give you. Sadly, gossip is what some groups do. B…