Search Results

You should try and explain your situation to R. Tell her that you really like her, but you're worried that you still have some feelings for M. Being honest is always the best way to handle things. If you do tell R your situation, just tell her that you want to be with her, and that through time, you'll get over M completely. I'm sure if you explain it all, she'll understand. If not, the worst is she'll say she wants to wait until you are completely over M.

You should stay with R. M seems to be a very inconsistant girlfriend. You may feel that you still love her, but it's probably that you just got attached to her through time. I know that's how I was, and am, right now. My ex and I were together for 7 months, and then we broke up because of some complications. I still think about her alot, and I miss her, and sometimes it feels like I love her, but it's actually that I was just attached to her. As soon as I start talking to her again, I would real…

Maybe you're afraid of commitment? And if that's so, you just have to jump in and let him ask you, or you ask him. Everyone has something about them that others don't necessarily like, but you work around that. Small things shouldn't matter if the overall person is great, you know? If you're afraid of him asking you, you should ask him instead. That might also help with the situation. Either way, good luck. =)

I don't know what happened, but suicide definantly isn't the answer. People would care if you were dead. I'm a complete stranger, but I'm worried about you. And it's because I know that you're a good person. If you want to explain what happened, I can probably try and help more. Feel free to message me or add me to MSN if you don't want to talk about it openly. I'd be more than glad to listen and try and help. =)

Hmm.. Try talking to the one who's not talking to you. Maybe she's waiting for you to approach her and talk to her. Just talk to her and say you were worried because you two haven't been talking much lately. Show that you care. Hopefully that will help mend your relationship. If you aren't sure if she's ready to date, wait a bit to see if she makes a move. After a few weeks, if you think she's ready and she hasn't asked you yet, you should ask her.

I wouldn't say turn it into rage.. Because being angry makes you lose control. You shouldn't feel negative. Try and use the pain by realizing how bad it can get, and use that knowledge to help others. You can understand others who have gone through the same situation, and you can probably help them.

If you like both girls, then asking either out might put you in a tough situation. However, if you really like one of them and want to have a relationship with her, then talk to her. You've asked her before and she said no, correct? Maybe this time she'll say yes. Just don't be too obsessive about it. Also, if it's been two weeks, it might be a little soon.. It depends on how she's taking it. You'll have to judge that for yourself.

Don't worry about the city. I personally have lived in my town my whole life (It's a small city, about 16,000 people), so I can't give you much advice regarding this subject. But my sister moved to Chicago about a year ago, after living in my town with me, and she said she's having tons of fun. I really think it just depends on the type of person you are. Good luck adapting to the changes. I hope you enjoy the city life. =)

o.o;;.. Yeah.. Don't use crisco next time. Use something like Baby Oil or Vasoline, if you can't afford a store bought lubricant. If you're using a condom durring anal, then do NOT use Vasoline or Baby Oil, as they are likely to weaken Latex Condoms. As for your girlfriends problem.. As others have said, she has probably torn her rectum some. It's nothing to panic about. It should heal in a few days. If her feces were black, I would be more concerned, because that means that it's internal bleedi…

I think you should go for it, if you're academically safe. If this would be your first time being late, there should be no worries. Good luck. =)

I'm homeschooled now, but back when I went to a public school, I used to be a sort of class clown. I played the penis game alot, for one. That was tons of fun when people would be eating lunch, and I shout PENIS, and everyone looks over at you. The teachers, however, were completely clueless to who did it. My English 1 class was a ton of fun because the teacher liked me, and we used to kid about alot of things. One time she was mad because I didn't want to sit down in my desk, so she said she wa…

It's tough losing both friends and your love at the same time. But the fact that you posted here means you don't want to end your life. You just want to stop the pain. And that's good. Being able to accept help is the first step to recovery. It's important to get back up after you've been knocked down. Try and talk to your friends and girl, and be honest with them. If they don't listen, or just don't accept it, then you're better off with different friends anyways. You sound like a good person, …

Quote from Angro88: “Why is marijuana not a good idea? He is getting a prescription from a clinic in a few days. Marijuana is natural... the pain medications are powerful and addictive.” It might not be a good idea because the doctor may have a medicine regime already planned, and adding marijuana before the doctor prescribes it could complicate matters. It's best to listen to the doctor word for word, or at least inform the doctor of what changes you would like to make prior to doing so. That w…

You should keep up with what you're doing. Just being a good friend can go far in helping. Just show that you care about him and his father. Try and be involved by asking how he is. On a side note, I don't know if giving him marijuana is a good idea, unless it was prescribed by the doctor. It could have negative effects on his recovery. Good luck, and keep us posted on any future information. =)

I'm not sure, but it probably varies from person to person. The vagina is more loose when it's wet, so it may be true. However the opposite may also be true. When you're on your period, your hormones act up. And hormones can do tons of things to your body, including swelling of the genitalia. So you may be tighter durring your period, too. I hope I could be of some help, but I would definantly wait until others reply, too, because this subject isn't exactly my forte.

Yikes. It sounds like you did make a mistake. And depending on what type of person he is, he may not ever return to the guy you remember after something like that. However there is always hope for your relationship, especially since he took you back again. You need to rebuild the trust that you once had. Be completely honest with him. Don't try to cover up your mistakes. I know that I personally would rather have my hypothetical girlfriend tell me the truth instead of act like nothing happened, …

SimpleGirl is absolutely right. You should go for it. At worst, he'll say no, but at least you'll know the answer. From the way you described it, he obviously has feelings for you. The fact that he ignores your friends when they ask means that he doesn't want to say no. Just pull him aside and ask him to go out and do something. You don't have to ask him on a date, just ask him to go to the park with you, or the movies. Anything with just the two of you. Good luck!

TheFunkyBunch is right. Smoking is not a good habit. However, that is not what you asked advice for, so I'll leave it at that and get on topic.. Simply put, if she doesn't want to smoke, she should say so. Ask her if she really wants to, and tell her that there is no pressure if she doesn't. You should show her that you don't care if she smokes or not. That way, if she doesn't smoke, she won't lie by saying she does just so you don't get mad. And if she does smoke, she'll take up the offer.

I would NOT recommend kissing her at random. This girl seems like the type who just wants to collect guys, not have a relationship. You should try and talk to her, and find out if she really is interested in you, or if she is just trying to add you to her collection. Of course, don't say it that way. Try something like.. "I really like you, and I want to know how you feel about me." About hurting yourself.. It's not good to do that. I myself had cut when I was depressed, and I regret it now. Cut…

You should probably talk to him about this. Ask him what happened, but don't be offensive about it. He could have had something happen and have to leave on short notice. You never know. If he acts rude, or freaks out on you, then you shouldn't want to be his friend. If that happens, don't retaliate or anything, just ignore him. Find a friend who won't ditch you or yell at you for talking to them about an issue.