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Hey Kenzie I understand what you're going through. I get angry when I hear stories about scum bags like (insert name here) harassing girls like you. I think the reason the you feel guilty isn't really guilt. I think maybe it's more of regret. You could be wishing that you had never said anything, because apparently it didn't accomplish anything. You lost your best firend when it could have possibly been avoided, and that is giving you feelings very much like guilt. Other people want you to feel …

Don't worry about it, your just now getting to the age when real relationships start. Sure people get boyfriends and girlfriends much earlier, but it rarely lasts very long. Just let it come to you, and you'll be allright. Just remember to have confidence in yourself, and to have respect for any girls you go out with. Good luck, and I'm sure you'll meet someone soon.

I have to disagree with maximus on this one. I don't think that kissing him is a good idea because not only is he not showing you the respect that you deserve, but your also not respecting yourself by letting him. Sure now it's just a kiss, but as you get older it will be other stuff, and you need to respect yourself enough to say no. Right now I just don't see how kissing him will help you. If he always gets what he wants he'll never stop treating people like objects, or names on his list. If y…

Quote from Claire1: “I go to boarding school & this year I decided to leave. Ive had this crush for the entire year, & it was really serious, as in my crush was really deep, at first i liked him for his looks but then i liked him for his personality so letting go of what is perfect to me (including the fact that my standars r way too high) was beyond hard...i have no words to explain it. when i said goodbye my heart broke & I cried for quiet a while afterwards. It's been 2 days, i know its still…

There really isn't a need to shave/trim down there. Oh and if your young enough to worry about your parents finding out then you should't be too worried about what girls like either.

It's really not a great habbit, so I will have to refrain from giving you this kind of advice.

Your still very young, so don't worry too much about it right now. As you mature you will develope a more definite sexuality. I understand that you are confused right now, but I would recommend not asking other people to tell you what your sexuality is. Only you can really know for sure, and you have some control over what it is. Just try to relax, because stressing over it won't help.

Quote from ThisIsNotMyReality: “Because we always have before, that's why I'm confused! lol. He never had a problem with it before, and now he does.” Well maybe he's ready for a real relationship, and if you don't want to be in one with him that's why he would stop. He wouldn't want other girls to think you two were together and whatnot, but that's just a guess. If you really want to know you could just talk to him about it. Guessing can only get you so far, but talking in person might get you t…

Ok everyone, this thread was started a long time ago, and the OP hasn't used it recently so please let old threads die. If not the forum will just get cluttered up.

Forth quarter close game who is everyone going for? Celtics all the way for me!!!!!!!

Make sure it's true, and then don't hesitate to let her go. You're all 14 and she's off having sex with random guys? You don't want to be with that kind of person, and it'd be best to end it now. She has no right to be upset with you either, becuase she has basically already broken up with you by cheating. In this case think about yourself first, and the group of friends you have will be close again later.

Yeah I can understand how you could be attracted to her, but inside you know that it just isn't right. Just make sure that you don't do anything unnecessary, like telling her/a family member who might freak out. Don't act on it and it'll go away on its own, and try not to fantasize about her either. It would really help if you had someone esle you could think about whenever she pops into your head. Hope you get it all worked out.

No don't try to change who you are, especially because some guy who hardly knows you thinks you're similar to your friends. Trying to change for seemingly no reason will just make you unhappy. Be proud of who you are, and don't change unless it's 100% for the better, which in this case I don't think it is.

Try not to let it worry you so much, there's absolutely no need to be embarassed about not having relationship experience. The guys around your age care a lot about trying to find the hottest girl possible, but whats the point in that unless they're after sex etc. So basically, the guys will start to mature up, and you'll find somebody right for you soon. If the guys care about you, it won't matter if you don't have experience. Just don't rush into anything, when you meet the right guy you won't…

I would decline. Porn isn't something that should be encouraged, and if you're trying to quit then it won't help you. It's not really a very good addiction to have, so you should do your best to at least be in control of it.

Quote from lizayolie: “@ Alex- but would you give it a shot if you met a girl online whom you think you like a lot? You can find ways to meet up in the future, but for the mean time that you can't, would you settle for online relationships? ” I would consider it in a rare circumstance I suppose, but I think that I would have to at least move on to phone conversations at some point. On the internet you have too much time to think about what to say, and it's hard to get a good feel for what they'r…

Quote from ThisIsNotMyReality: “Why were we kissing with his gf in the picture? - Obviously he wasn't happy with her and I don't really care, it's not like they were going to get married. I wouldn't date him,, right now, I'm not dating anyone, It's summer and I just want to have fun. lol. He's kissed me with my parents around before, I just don't know why last night was different.” If he's not your boyfriend then why do you expect him to kiss you? He might not feel the same as you do about just …

I think that it's allright to meet online, but at some point meeting face to face is necessary. You can always use the internet to find people near where you live though.

I wish I could help, but I am not familiar with european sizes.

Well to be honest unless your mate is gay/bi then asking him to be sexual with you would be quite an awkward spot to be in. Yes feel free to make your own choice to experiment, but don't pressure your friend into something he's uncomfortable with. I'm sure there are pleanty of other guys who would be open to this, but I don't want to see you mess with a good friendship. As for your gf, if you really love her then postpone your temptations. Breaking up with her to experiment might really hurt her…