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I have a very hard time believing that not a single person would have sex with said virgin due to race, and you seem to be really grasping on straws. The fact of the matter is, your choices define your life and what happens in your life. Sure, what happens in your life may be the outcome of what others choose to do with or choose to not do with you, but those choices of others are reflections of the choices you've made as well (so pretty much everything ultimately comes back to being your choice…

If someone cannot find a partner that works with them simply because of race then they have some serious issues...

Quote from Neal: “My fundamental point - not all virgins are virgins because they 'chose' to stay virgins.” And if you don't choose to stay a virgin then...well...I elaborated that on the rest of my post. So I still fail to see your point on how it's a choice between two people and not one person. We decide who we are and what we're like, other people do not decide for us. If someone is unhappy with who they are then it is within their means to change the type of person they are. It all comes do…

Heard of it, seen a couple of episodes. Not much into it though.

Quote from Neal: “Is it a personal choice if 1 has never been given the opportunity for it? Something between 2 people would be a personal choice between 2 people. No such thing is possible for 1 person.” What are you talking about? You are able to make the choice to stay a virgin. No one else should make that choice for you, and if they do then it's rape (in which case a lot of people don't classify that as a loss of virginity anyway). If you're unhappy being a virgin and have been unable to fi…

I don't really get what you mean because you type horribly, but that's besides the point. Trying to claim that "a lot of people don't abide by the current laws" isn't a reason to not attempt to change laws so that we agree with them. Giving up is not the way to go, and that's a pretty daft perception that you have. If you break the law, mod your car, and cause an accident then you never get to drive again. That sounds reasonable to me. Sure, people are going to break the law, but people murder a…

Quote from ilovecola: “I don't mean to sound harsh but being 21+ and a virgin springs the question to mind do you even try? or are you ''waiting for the true love'' which i think is bollocks tbh.” I'm apt to agree, although I don't like to push to issue since it is a personal choice. Although, I can't say that I'd feel comfortable dating someone 21+ who is a virgin. Luckily I haven't crossed that path, and hopefully never will.

Quote from Loopy_Loo: “u do get the odd numpty who thrashs it where ever they go but there is nothing we could do. only way they will learn is when they are pulled or the inevitable happens” There definitely are things that could be done about it, but it would take a lot of work and a lot of effort, and it typically isn't worth it in most cases to fight for stronger laws or different laws or certain fines when there isn't an accident involved (and I'm sure that insurance companies are happy to f…

Quote from Loopy_Loo: “to them its cool but to most its just rediculous , each to their own i say!” If it were your son or daughter riding in the car you may change your tune. Basically, it all boils down to this: which is more important legally: the freedom for people to make choices based on their personal taste, or the safety of supposedly innocent people?

I kind of like the friends thing. Plus, story-wise, it gives her someone to confide in, so the reader has a way of knowing other things about the character. I kind of just like the idea of two people knowing each other and being friends for a little bit, then trying out dating. But I suppose that could be boring since it's so "normal".

I just feel like that's such a cliche.

Quote from DamnImGood: “Home: 447424383.png” Damn, I'd just stay at work.

Gosh, I remember games like that. Anyone else remember when Outwar was the big thing?

I voted: "be friends" and "a year" / "+years" (I wasn't sure if it would be better for them to have a slightly newer friendship, or one that spanned through their whole childhood, as each has pros and cons and can add to the story in different ways).

I think that H&M has some good men's clothing.

If you move out, then I can assure you that you will keep much less than 40% of your paychecks. If using your earned money to pay bills is getting you down and demotivates you then moving out is definitely not the wise choice, especially at such a young age when you are barely making more than minimum wage. A lot of your stresses really do seem to simply stem from being under your mother's wing for so long. Have you thought about moving away to go to Uni or school? It's much easier to do that th…

Given a Hickey? Yes Had a one night stand? Yes Made someone cry? Yes Opened your Christmas presents early? Yes Been online for more than 10 hours in a row? Yes Pretended to be someone you weren't online? Yes Eaten food that fell on the floor? Yes Been caught cheating? Yes Made out with someone of the same sex? Yes Made out with more than one person in a night? Yes Been caught naked? No Flashed someone? No Fallen going UP the stairs? Yes Kissed a stranger? Yes Met a celebrity? Yes Been in a limo?…

Ok, so I voted three times. I cheated!

I've said some very similar things that she's said, and basically that's my way of "letting someone down easily". The way I figure, if I tell someone that I still have feelings, but that they're not as strong, that they'll take that better than "I don't have feelings for you anymore and want to break up". Then again, your girlfriend is not me, and she's the only one who really understands what she wants or doesn't want. Most girls that I know, when they claim something happened "overnight", it's…

Sometimes it just takes time. I know that that seems like such a cliche, but it's really true. Being active in your life, joining clubs, taking up hobbies, those will give you other things to focus on besides this person, and will probably help you realize that you can enjoy your life without this person (and thus will diminish your desire). I cannot say for sure that you will 100% stop desiring this person (and as humans we do have a nack for desiring what we cannot have), but I can with all as…