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  • Re: LeBron James

    Raylan Givens - - Sports

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    It's a business choice at the end of the day, fans can't understand that because they're so clingy. Personally I don't believe James would have won a Championship in Cleveland anytime soon, they would've had to add pieces to the puzzle. Now that he's with the Heat and has Bosh and Wade on both sides, they're going to be monsters. I expect them to win a Championship in the next few years. However, I do think LeBron made a poor choice as far as how he handled the situation. Regardless of being a f…

  • It's understandable, you need to clear the air with him. I can see why he was a little set back by that comment too. The best thing you can is explain your situation to him, help him realize that it's not as simple as just saying the words. You're not going to be able to just tear down the barrier you've put up due to past abuse and situations. Honesty is the best route you can take under circumstances such as these, it's important to share your emotions with him. As long as you let him know you…

  • Relationships are built on a foundation of trust, if you don't have that foundation everything comes crumbling down. Understandably, your trust towards him has taken a serious blow. What I've learned is that adversity sometimes makes a couple stronger, regardless of the circumstances, sometimes it tears them apart also. I know things are extremely complicated right now and you're immensely confused. Time is the only thing that's going to clear your judgment from this current cloud of emotions yo…

  • Usually, people who are suicidal have been dealing with a burden of emotions for more than just a little time, by trying to help these people and clear their judgment, that's not being selfish. Having to deal with such pain isn't easy it clouds your thought process, it makes you approach situations differently. Sometimes these people just need a push back in the right direction, someone who can help them prioritize their thoughts and clear away some of that fog. Some people think death is the be…

  • Nobody can really tell you what to say or how to say it, but based off how you're feeling at the time you do it, your words will be formed from that. Regardless of what you say to her and how you approach the situation just make sure you're honest. When it comes down to it, don't be too afraid to speak up. Good luck though, hope it works out for you.

  • Definitely not stalker like at all bro, if you've had conversations in the past through text messaging, it's okay to text her when you please. Just be simple and start off a conversation as you normally would, don't over think such a small process. Honestly, the only circumstances you shouldn't text her under is if she ask you not to. Just be yourself and don't worry about looking like a stalker, if anything you look interested.

  • Eye contact, it's as simple as that. After you've locked in eye contact with someone who's checked you out or has been checking you out, that's a green light. As far as telling you what to say, that's up to you. Just be smooth with your words, even if you start off a normal conversation, if they pick it up, they're clearly interested.

  • Usually, people who are closer with each other can get away with that type of behavior, I wouldn't think twice about it with some of my friends, it happens. However, there are some strings attached here, you've both had mutual feelings for each other at one point and you've cut it close to starting a relationship, if it wasn't for the circumstances. This situation currently seems virtually harmless yet, it has potential to take a turn in the wrong direction. You're starting to have your concerns…

  • You can't cast out individuals over the antics of a majority. I know it may be hard to believe but there are a lot of guys who are intrigued by things other than sexual relations, it just takes a little more time to find those guys, because I agree, a lot of males just want sex. Don't let your frustrations overpower your better judgment.

  • Starting off a conversation with someone who's virtually a complete stranger is always the hardest, all you can do is be yourself and hope for the best. I understand breaking away from your shell is not simple, it doesn't happen at the snap of your fingers. It's a process and as you continue to start conversations on a regular basis, things will become less awkward. Once you put forth the effort you will get a better feel of how to carry on a conversation and what type of person he is. Remember …

  • Honesty helps everything, especially when you're laying the foundation for a relationship. You've made a few mistakes and you've started off on the wrong foot, it's not to late to fix it. Obviously she has no idea of the truth, you're going to need to inform her of it. However, there is a beauty to this situation, you can be honest but leave some of the details out and nobody will be hurt. I advise you tell her there's not another girl. Ultimately, this will peak her curiosity and she'll most li…

  • Re: Yes i need help

    Raylan Givens - - General Advice

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    You're a female and this is a guy, I highly doubt he's going to put his hands on you, especially in a public place. Violence is not the answer, the best thing you can do is speak to a higher authority about this situation, tell them the details and inform them of what has been said. Especially at school, you could tell just about anyone there that you felt threatened. The best thing you can do is show this guy zero attention and let someone know, don't take matters into your own hands, physicall…

  • I can understand that it's distracting and the situation has serious potential to bother you, it's not easy dealing with an ex-spouse, especially if it was a long lasting relationship. Honestly, if you trust your boyfriend leave it up to him to take care of this issue, yet express to him how it makes you feel too. Talking to this girl yourself is only going to cause drama and send the situation into places it doesn't need to be. Quite frankly, that's a lot of extra baggage. If your boyfriend car…

  • Re: Is This Wrong?

    Raylan Givens - - Teen Sexuality

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    Personally I don't see a problem with it, if you're not committed to either of them or filling their heads with crap, it's not an issue. You're allowed to do whatever you feel like since you're not tied down by a relationship.

  • Re: i hate my sister

    Raylan Givens - - Friends and Family

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    Vocals, express them, it will get you far. Obviously you need to be rational about the situation, you clearly don't hate your sister, that's a strong word for such a petty thing. The best thing you can do is have an honest and mature conversation with your sister, explaining to her you're getting older and you're becoming more responsible, you understand how the ball falls basically. Bring up the same points to her about her have relations around the same age, just respectfully. Having a nice co…

  • The most important thing you can do is be yourself, don't do anything out of the ordinary to reach out to this girl, don't read too much into the situation. If you're attempting to build a relationship with this girl don't rush into it over one conversation, try to establish a friendship first. Being confident about the situation will help you, just don't put your pride out there to be ran over by a train, don't expect anything, yet. After you establish key points with her and some type of found…

  • Honesty is your best route here, let her know how you feel, what you've told us, tell her. I think she will be able to respect your feelings and appreciate the fact that you're willing to accept the circumstances. Obviously it sucks that it's ending but there's not much you can do, let her know how you feel and tell her you want to spend as much time as possible with her before she leaves, in a relationship or not. Just remember to be yourself and don't let your emotions get the best of you, bec…

  • Of course girls like that are going to be really chill, the best thing you can do is fade away from that situation. They have nothing serious to offer you at this point in their life, all it would bring is complications.

  • Quote from Dayved: “At least you get to see his true colors.. mm prob jealousy at work.” That's not fair, we've all been jealous at some time or another, obviously it alters the way you act meaning you're not going to be yourself, I don't think it makes you show your true colors. Sometimes it's hard to lose someone you care for and you act out in strange ways, clearly he's unhappy and doesn't know how to handle the situation. I'm not siding with the guy here but we all know how jealousy works.

  • It's all about personal preference. Personally, I believe that speaking of such serious matters in a short time period is a little unorthodox, live your current relationship in the moment and treat it for what it truly is. Worrying about those types of things during such an early stage could ruin your relationship. Personally I think you should have a conversation with him, allow him to know how you feel on the matter, that things are going a little too fast for you and you'd like to slow them d…