Well Alpguy, let me ask you a questions? - Would you rather: [LIST=1] 1. Ask now and get rejected/embarrassed and get experience and learn from it. And then try again. 2. Wait a few years dealing with the annoyance and pain, and then get rejected/embarrassed then get experience and learn from it. Awhile everyone else is already experienced with this matter. [/LIST] Obvious answer is #1. Get some confidence in yourself and realise that you are going to have to do it sooner or later. Just get it o…
Next time, try dating the person for several weeks and flirt with them, this usually eliminates the Friend Zone all together. It is also a standard for most people. But to mend your situation, try talking to her in person, maybe she will see it in a different way.
Quote from Linda: “I think you may just be liking the attention you're getting from the other guy. Maybe you're not getting attention like that from your boyfriend anymore, so when someone else says it to you, its flattering.” This exactly. Just back off from him a bit and see what happens. Start talking or chatting with your boyfriend more and see if you get the same effect.
Danny, you need to have more confidence in yourself and stop overanalysising everything that comes out of her mouth. Just keep friends with her and show her what you are really like, flirt with her, and you will get quite far. It is worth an attempt, eh? Good luck!
But he IS NOT mature. You have to realise this. Until he gets mature, you are going to have to have patience or you should stick up and put an end to his immature times.
Well, if it is that obvious that she will never have feelings for him again, I would just say to ignore it and just keep helping her keep her head up. Have confidence in yourself and show that you are the better person and that she should love you.
Well ladymuch, I guess nothing will come of it since you do not want to make the first move. I wish you luck moving on from what could have been a great relationship but you failed to make the first move due to your ignorant attitude. Good luck and Take Care. (PS Make First Move)
Quote from Batgirl: “He's also a red-blooded male and most of us know that I could almost hate anything physical and sexual. I just don't want to waste his time...” Why would you hate that? Stop being embarrassed about yourself. Anyway, if he said yes and you said that he knew you quite well, then I am quite sure he knows the consequences of being with you. Plus, being a teenager is one point in life where you get to start experience all things that deal with relationships. It is a great place t…
With that money saved, either put it towards college or use it with your boyfriend to go out and explore the world, before you get caught with a child and never have free time again.
Quote from TextilesGirl: “i've already said i'd be fine with it. because i'd know i'd be the one with him. she's not one of my friends. he is.” I can almost guarantee you would not be fine with it. Easy to say, hard to do.
It is not a problem. I know lots which would take it as a compliment. Also, they know you do not have a ED. Chances are, if she did not move, then she was perfectly fine with it.
Go to his or your bedroom, while making out, push him hard onto the bed and start taking off his pants and tell him to shut up and enjoy. Be aggressive and he'll love you.