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I think the best thing to do here is to try and sort everything out - not just for him, but for you as well. Get back on your feet, then try and talk to him again and see if you can sort things with him out.

It does sound like they only want the best for you, although it might not seem like it now. Just try and talk to them, and let them know how you're feeling about all the things you're stuck doing.

That sounds like pretty bad depression - you need to talk to someone. Please try and get help. Suicide is permanent, and it's never the answer. Things will get better if you really want them to.

Like the others have said, there are plenty of ways to get better, and to get back on your feet - don't give up!

Don't listen to them! Personally, I'd kill to have naturally pale skin. I know you've heard this a lot, and it's got a rap as the thing parents tell their kids when they don't want to tell them the truth, but they're probably just jealous - you sound very pretty. Either that, or they have some random grudge against you, which makes them idiots. People who hate someone for no reason have no life at all. Don't let them get to you.

It sounds to me like your 'what ifs' spiral out of control more so than most people's. I can't exactly say I know what you're going through, but my brother suffers from anxiety and this sounds similar to what he's experienced. He got help through going to a psychologist, and getting a prescription for some anti-anxiety medicine. I'm not saying that I'm sure you have it, and I don't know if you need the meds, but I think it might be a good idea to be examined for anxiety if you get a chance to.

I think the only thing to do if you want this to improve is to talk to your parents. Explain how you feel, and tell them that you think that they're being unreasonable. Let them know that you're mature and capable of making your own decisions, but would also appreciate their opinions as long as they're just that - opinions.

I think you're already figured this out, and I know it's not easy at all to quit cutting, since I've been there, but cutting solves nothing. It doesn't help, in the long run - it only makes you more depressed. I'd suggest that you keep talking to someone, like you have been doing, but maybe you could try talking to them about what's stressing you out and how you feel about yourself, instead of just the problem with cutting (?). About your classes - why don't you try talking to a guidance counsel…

Since I've never had a pregnancy scare, I can't really give you any advice in that area, but I have to say that suicide is never the right answer. I promise you that it will get better, and if you just talk to someone, it gets a huge load off your shoulders. Good for you for deciding not to get back together with your ex-boyfriend, as well; that doesn't seem at all like a healthy relationship if he's hounding you for answers and you don't think it would work out for other reasons. I know it migh…

Everyone that has posted here so far (except maybe the posts about the religion, haha) is exactly right. Suicide is never the answer, and it affects everyone, even if you might think that no one cares. Get help. Talk to someone. No matter what you do, never give up.

Almost always, the best idea is to just talk to someone. What you're doing is dangerous, and I promise that nothing good with come of it in the end. I agree with Molly - it would also be a good idea to try and move on. At this point, keeping your thoughts on your original girlfriend is just hurting you even more. I know it's hard to get over someone that really mattered to you, especially when you think that it's your fault you're not with them anymore, but it will be worth it, I promise. Hang i…

More people would care than you might think - with depression, you might start to feel like nobody cares, but that's not true at all. Everyone is affected by suicide. Hang in there - you might want to talk to someone about how you're feeling. Good luck!

I think the best option here is to talk to someone about what you're going through, especially if you feel like you have no control over your actions. Be safe.

Please, talk to someone. That's what most people in this thread have said, because it's true. Suicide isn't a good way to escape from your problems - sure, you don't have to deal with them anymore, but it's nowhere near worth it. Remember, there are no second chances if you succeed in killing yourself. You're worth so much more than just a tragic death. Hang in there, and be sure to ask for help.

I think that if someone doesn't believe in god, it's unlikely that they're going to want to read any of those books. And even if they did, I highly doubt their mind would be changed by reading that. If you feel really strongly about something, like religion, I wouldn't say you'd exactly keep an open mind. I'm not saying all atheists/agnostics/whatever are like that, but some are.

This goes with the "Gay guys want to sleep with every guy with a pulse" one. My grade went on a camping trip kind of thing a few years back, and my gay best friend was stuck in a cabin with this super homophobic kid. The kid was like: "OH NO! I'm in a cabin with HIM! I'm going to get raped in my sleep, I just know it!" Totally pissed me off. <_<

I'd say just leave it alone and move on. The age doesn't matter so much as the fact that she has a boyfriend and two children. It sounds like a bad idea.

I agree with Jasmine - ask him to hangout just with you. That might help take away some of the nervousness. Good luck!

I agree, I think it would be best to just move on if she has a boyfriend and is happy with him. Sorry. =\

Face to face is best. :] The "my friend really likes one of her friends" bit sounds cute as well. Good luck!