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I think maybe you need to take it a little easy on her. You said it yourself, her last boyfriend messed her up. I don't know the whole story but maybe there's a reason for all of these things she's saying and doing. Maybe what she said at first is true, maybe she isn't ready for a new relationship yet. From what you wrote I think she's not ready to be with anyone right now, but at the same time really likes you. This would be incredibly hard for any of us, meeting a person you like at a point wh…

Quote from Cynic17: “ If you dumb this down a bit, I think there are two types of guys, those who comprise, flee and avoid conflicts and those who are opposites of that. Let's say the first is called beta and the latter is called alpha. Most people are between the two extreme ends. And being 'alpha' is seen as more attractive. attractive.” So your definition of an alpha/attractive male is one who seeks conflicts?

I ask you this: You love your girlfriend, she loves you. Why should it matter what some immature guys think?

Great! So it seems I was too late, but I will post this anyway: There could be like 50 million reasons why someone isn't answering their phone, it doesn't mean that anything bad is going to/has happened.

Ask for her phone number? Then you can text her or call her sometimes when you're not together, and maybe easier find a way to ask her to go somewhere with you. (Alone)

I don't think you should tell her because: 1. She already broke up with him. 2. You don't know if it's really true. Also I suggest you wait a little, so she can put her ex behind her, and then ask her out.

I'm sure you're fine with being single and that's great for you, but I've been single all my life (except for 1 week) and I have begun to long to be with someone. I do take initiative and flirt (though I'm not very good at it), but I guess I just haven't met the right girl yet

Flip a coin???? Are you guys serious? If he should at all flip a coin it should be to see wether he's relieved or unhappy about the result, not to make the actual decision. I can only say like the others: Follow your heart. You could try to reverse the question: Wich one would you be most sad not to be with? Sometimes reverse psychology helps in situations like these.

I dont think it has to take long. I mean you like him and he likes you. The only thing left to do is phrase the actual question... just ask him to be your boyfriend the next time you see him, simple as that.

In the event that someone out there is curious as to how this went: (And because I hope to feel better once I have written this.) I did not "make a move". I just talked to her in a normal friendly way... BUT She now kind of refuses to talk to me, responds with one syllible words whenever I say anything, and never says anything by her own initiative. To me this seems really wierd because when we are in a group she seems to laugh (Not in a bad way) everytime I open my mouth, but that will be her p…

Quote from Bass: “woMAN UP and forget about him. I know its going to be hard, but your emotional well being is more important than him.” How is HE supposed to do that? (Him being a guy and not a woman)

Maybe he's just too shy to reply when you say hi. Try to ask him something so that he has to answer?

Ok I care too much about this to stay away. Honestly I don't think you should put too much meaning into stuff like replying with short messages. She could have been busy with something and therefore not able to write a long reply. I'ts also entirely possible that she just thinks of you as "Some guy from school." but then your mission is to change that, it's still infinitely better than "A random guy I don't know". P.S. Thank Maddi for bringing me back.

If I didn't like her I would (like all the other guys) tell her that I just wanted to remain friends. (Worst thing about this is that I hate it when girls say that, but can't think of anything better.) If I liked her I would obviously tell her that, and even though I'm pretty nervous when it comes to girls, if she had told me that she liked me nervousness (Is that a word?) would not be an issue. I want to add a third option: If I hadn't thought of her in that way ever before. Then I would tell h…

I'm going to break my absence to say two things: 1st: Your problem IS a real problem shylonelyguy. Other people have seen psychologists about similar issues. 2nd: Stop fighting! It will not solve anything

Quote from coolchrisVV2: “Mike. her two year relationship was broken when you two did the dirty.” Likely so but not for certain. I agree that before doing anything you should think this through very carefully. She has to be worth the risk, the feelings of guilt and the fear of her cheating on you. Personally I couldn't do it, but neither could I have been with her in the first place with the knowledge of her having a boyfriend.

If it really isn't going to work out then I think you should end it now. Then just stay her friend and try to help her through her "tough times".

I wouldn't say leave it alone alltogether. I mean yes 6 years is a big difference, but my grandparents have 11 years between them, the first time they met was when my grandma was 11 and my grandpa was 22. Of course back then there was nothing between them, but when my granma was like 20 I think and my granpa was 31 they started to like eachother... today they have 2 children and 3 grandchildren, and still love eachother. I think you should tell him that you like him but he's gonna have to wait f…

It's true that many couples are not "in love" in your meaning of the word, but people have different oppinions of what the word means... To some it's a very serious thing and means stuff like: "I would give my life to save his/hers." To others it's just an everyday-word and means stuff like: "I want to spend a lot of time with him/her." And to others it has an entirely different meaning altogether. I myself try to use the same words that the thread author uses. (But I won't promise I haven't mad…

To whoever gave me a lot of reputation: If you see this I thank you, but since you didn't write your name I can't do it personally.