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First off, your "good" guy friend is an asshole. 9/10 friendships last wayyyyy longer than a relationship! He's not a "good" friend, puttin you off to the side and dissing you is not cool what so ever. I have a bestfriend, and at times I get jealous because we barely talk, but at the end of the day thats his girlfriend. You have to realize that, of course she's gonna come first. I tell my bestfriend all the time, my friendship with you is forever and yes I'm gonna be here before and after all yo…

Okay I've known this guy for almost 2 years(anniversary is monday). We were bestfriends. So 7 months ago around the beginning of July we started to talk more than friends and actually catch feelings for each other. We talked everyday said we loved each other, missed each other, kissed. But we never actually went out because I was scared that if we did that it would mess up our friend relationship in the end. But he always wanted to be with me. I'm 14 we barely see each other. Within those 7 mont…

I'm a shy person. And I've been talking to this dude for 7 months and yesterday we got into an arguement about us not ever having anything to talk about blah blah. So he what should I say next...i'm lost. this is the conversation so far. He's in the red. "Hi" "Hello." "What are you doing?" "Nothing I have a headache so I'm laying down. You?" "haha, nothing. Just chilling with my friends outside...but I'm about to get in the bed in a minute too." "Wow your crazy. It's soooo cold outside, I was ab…

Well mine happened Summer '08 when I was in Chicago visting my dad and wife(and all the others!). So I was staying at my Stepmoms house alone while my dad and her were gone somewhere. It was just me and my two little brothers. I was cleaning up and he came in to "help". :wink:. So I was sweeping and I went into the kitchen to dump the trash and I just see the light go off...and he starts kissing me...kinda off gaurd and nasty because he put his tounge in my mouth too. BOY WAS THAT NASTY! yuck! I…

For the last month I haven't got to spend time with my "friend" (ugh well i'll call him a boyfriend cuz thats what he feels like) ALONE. The last time we spent together and it was alone was when we went to the beach at like 2am. But the first part of our date we went to his house and watched a movie BUT his brother was sleeping on the couch and kept coughing very LOUD! So like for the past month everytime I've seen him or talked to him he's either been drunk or high and also he's been with his f…

Okay If she hooked up with your friend why are you still talking to her? Maybe you shouldn't have gotten wasted, and maybe you could have been spending time with her and she wouldn't have hooked up with your friend. But who knows why she's acting bitchy. Maybe she likes your friend now.

Dear Jay, In the last 6 months I've fallen without a doubt hard for you. But your just breaking my heart day by day and there's so much I can take. I love you, I really do. We've been friends for what 2 years? Not only just friends, but bestfriends. You said it yourself that If we ever dated we would be quote on quote "the perfect COUPLE". So why arent we? Or the better question would be what have I done in the last 2 months that made you change your mind and not want to be with me anymore. I'm …

I'm really confused and heart broken at this point and I don't know what to do because I've been talking to this guy for 2 years. I actually met him on myspace and he dated my bestfriend. Then they broke up. Me and her are no longer bestfriends. Anyway, me and him started back talking a year later which was recently over the summer. Long story short since August we've did everything from kissing, me sneaking out with him, going on a date. So I'm 14 right and he's 17. My mom is like the most prot…

Okay so yesterday I get home, I'm thinking about that text he sent me(posted in PT.1). And you know the part that says "I would love to date you if I had the chance..." I kinda got confused about that because I didn't know exactly what he meant. The thing that crossed my mind was "GIRLFRIEND" I don't know why, I honestly dont. But the fact that, that was the first thing to come to mind scared me. So I go to his myspace page, now ever since him and his ex-girlfriend broke up he had another girl o…

Me and this guy we have been friends for almost two years. We are good friends; the best of friends. We hang out we do nothing but laugh. But, the only thing is I'm scared to date him because I don't know what the outcome will be. If we were to break up, me, I probably couldn't bring myself to talk to him. I talk to none of my ex's. For me I feel like "the past is the past why go back?" I really care about him. But I just don't want to mess up our bestfriend relationship. Last night, out of nowh…

Quote from Giggity: “So you went out with a guy who was cheating on his girlfriend and was shocked when he cheated on you? Really?” What? Maybe you need to read it AGAIN! Because I never said I went out with him. We've been friends for that long. I can't help that since we have been talking for so long that he started to like me more than a friend. And wtf? huh? You made no sense at all. Please read again before responding. ---------- Post added at 02:42 PM ---------- Previous post was at 02:36 …

Quote from Bektas: “Love sucks, Join the club.. Did he really reply, "Yeah why?" Thats awful.” Yes and Oh em gee it is? Why?

I can't believe I was so stupid to believe anything that came out of his idiotic mouth! Ugh. Anyway, I'll start from the beginning. So for a year and 8 months, I've been talking to this boy. He has a girlfriend. I never actually liked him LIKE THAT until over the summer in June when I was in chicago for 5 weeks. We talked EVERYDAY. I started to fall for him, and we started to tell each other "I love you" When I came back from Chicago, he wanted to meet up with me. With the mom I have I didn't ev…

I will be the first to say YOUR EX KNEW WHAT SHE DOING WHEN SHE SAID THAT! lol Honestly, to me it sounds like Kira is just a rebound, which I'm pretty sure she thinks the same because she walked off! If you feel like Kira is only a rebound(and I know you'll never actually admit it), end it NOW, it's still early, that way no one gets hurt.

...yeah doesn't sound right does it? lol My bestfriend comes to me for advice, I can help him on ANYTHING...but that?..that was rather confusing I didn't know what to say. Him and his girlfriend have been having problems since about last week i think. His girlfriends ex-bestfriend told him that she was cheating on him...and guess what?...like any other guy he believed her. I told him that "her not liking your girlfriend could be all the more reason she would tell you a lie!" I MADE him call her …

I agree with the THRID and SEVENTH one. They couldn't have said it better.

Omg, this beyond long! lol Okay I'll read it now. Let's see how long it takes me. lol

Have you ever had such strong feelings for someone that you just can't control them? That's how I am. I just can't stop thinking about him. I know my feelings are returned...but, *sign* he's 'in love' with his girlfriend. I know, I know I've posted before and people have told me that him "loving me" doesn't compete with "in love". When I'm with him it just seems like we can talk about anything. He's a....non shy person and when he gets around me he barely talks. Me on the other hand I'm shy, and…

Yeah I get what your saying. But, it's kind of different for me, for the simple fact he never actually said that he was going to break up with his girlfriend. And I was kind of thinking...like a month and half ago he texted me and said "me and my girlfriend broke up" and I said "why" he told me then I asked him "Well, do you want to get back with her?" He's like "Hmm...idk" and what do you know..they got back together..like alll the times they "broke up"...Now let's just say they break up..like …

Quote from Nickturtle1337: “Hes Pulling what i read once, as the MAN SPIDER WEB Men are like, spiders when it comes to girls. They build a big web, and catch a bunch of girls on it. They will usually have one in the Center, aka their Girlfriend, and all the other girls on the outer edge. Now, if he doesn't speak to any of those girls for awhile, they will fall off the web. So in an attempt keep as meny girls available as possible, hes constantly working towards every girl he can, even if he alre…