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Ah, family consumer science- the new progressive term for "home-economics". You don't necessarily need an intro like "I think you're in my class" to ask someone to sit with you at lunch. If she's in 2 periods with you, she probably knows you exist. If you need an opener, why not start by remarking on something funny that happened in one of those two classes?

That was totally her period. When she said "I'm on my period" was the giveaway. And most girls reduce the amount of sex they've had if they're lying about, not increase it, so if she said she's not a virgin, she's not. Virgin blood is generally not as much as you described, btw.

^This. Couldn't say it any better.

It sounds like both of you like each other, but are both afraid to make the first move. She's totally giving you good signs, so go for it. Kiss her on the forehead during one of those long goodbye hugs, then if she looks up into your eyes, give her a proper kiss.

He's probably feeling insecure about his body too. Everyone does. But I think you'll both be more interested in discovering each other that neither one will notice all the little things you obsess over. He'll be happy to be doing stuff with you, not worrying about the freckle on your arm that you don't like or whatever. Once you've done something and seen that he doesn't care about whatever you're insecure about, you'll feel much better and be more confident.

Good plan. Not lying in the first place would have been better, but maybe she'll say she'll help get you un-rusty. Might show you a few things.

Quote from YorkshireFox: “You people disgust me! Nah but it makes me laugh how crafty you all seem to be. Personally I would never try this for fear of being exposed but there was this really funny story going around our school: Basically it was about the 6th former who got expelled for standing up in class and wanking openly. I vaguely remember my mate running into the form room going: "Mark just jizzed on fucking desk!"” If you're going to get kicked out of school, why not go out with a bang?

Hug/kiss

I think she's bluffing. Either that, or she'll lose. No contract, no proof, cash payment... Tell her her lawsuit will fail when she gets hit for non-payment of taxes.

It sounds like you're not sure how to respond to intimacy because you've never had any in your life. Not sexual intimacy, but shows of affection and deep connections with people. You have some walls up, and only you can tear them down. It might help to not worry about how you're "supposed" to react. Do what comes naturally, relax, and let yourself be happy.

He's totally indicating that he's into you. Show that you're into him too!

Some people stay friends after they break up because they realize they're supposed to just be friends. Others start as friends and realize they're supposed to be together. Still others part ways for good. It sounds like if you like her that much that you'll be driven mad with anxiety, jealousy, etc. if you don't try for more, so keep working on her!

All the things you describe seem like the perfect reasons to move on, especially since you won't be seeing him much anymore. Cut and run.

Quote from Jenna: “Teenage guys are usually more direct than girls are, that's a really important thing to remember. If a guy is going out of his way to spend a lot of time with you for no obvious reason, then the chances are extremely good that he likes you. There are things that you can watch for here; specifically, pay attention to how he's acting when he's not around you. Does he spend a lot of time hanging around other girls? Does he treat other girls the same way he treats you? (and though…

That sounds like a job for a professional counselor. It sounds like there's some void in your life that you're trying to fill with a child. You could also volunteer at orphanages or something like that to get your "fix", but before you go getting pregnant, please consider some help.

^ That guy is a moron who posted stupid crap in every thread. What an ass.

Gooey's right. Avoid that guy like the plague. No matter how nice it was before, it sounds like he was laying groundwork for the future. That guy is dangerous. It's sad that you have to suffer as you weren't the one to do anything wrong, but the reason your aunt hates you now is probably to keep her from having to consider her husband would do something like that. You stop missing him by remembering he violated your trust and your person, and that no close relationship before that could outweigh…

Calling your folks idiots will never end well. At the very least, they're overreacting. Do they do these things to you gratuitously? Or only when you curse at them and don't do what you say? If it's gratuitous, seek external help. If not, work on yourself to stop giving them reasons. What they're doing is wrong, but it sounds like something you can control.

You won't get as uncomfortable around new people if you refuse to let their perceptions determine your self-worth. Friends are nice, and you're blessed with two good ones. Quality over quantity. Don't measure yourself by how many "friends" who won't remember you 5 years from now or that you can't turn to for help you have. Anastasia had some good points, but if it takes a while to find more, don't sweat it.

That's really sad! Racism against any race is an awful thing. Many today think that only whites are capable of being racist, but that's just not the case. If you're accused of being a "race traitor" for being what you are and talking how you talk, why not ask them why they're being family traitors or humanity traitors for not accepting you based on something you couldn't control- your parents. Nobody can pick their parents. Please keep being who you are and hope that they'll see that people are …