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Hey Rui, it's perfectly fine to rant. It's a great way to relieve stress and get things off your chest. Social anxiety can be a pain in the butt, I know. I have a type of social anxiety, too. I can't go to school. I had to switch to homeschooling in the end. But the thing is, no matter how bad things get, you can't give up. You have a fear of talking to people face to face. Yes, that's going to be a tough obstacle to get over, but you can do it. Or at least cope enough to get along in life. All …

Definitely talk to him if you want to. There's no reason not to. It's been 3 months, and any hard feelings are probably gone, or at least faded from before. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

Just tell your friend you are there for them, and that they can talk to you whenever they need to. Just knowing that will help them. If possible, try doing something to get their mind off of everything. Play a game, go watch a movie, or something like that. Good luck, and may your friends Grandmother rest in peace. Support Leader, ~James

As the other two have said, you really just have to get into the party. Talk to people, enjoy yourself. You can work to draw attention, but remember that there are limits. You don't want to get wasted and be running around with a lamp shade on your head XD And don't give into peer pressure. If anything, ask a friend to be with you and give you some "back up." That way if you do start to mess up, they can come and save the day. ;p Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

It's fine for you to help him and teach him. That's actually something boyfriends/girlfriends do. They get together, grow together, etc. Your expectations may just be your way of seeing if he's a suitable person to spend the rest of your life with. Or you may be getting a sort of fear of commitment, and are subconciously looking for reasons to end the relationship by raising your expectations. Again, that's only a possibility and i have no real evidence to base it off of. Just ask yourself if yo…

It could be doing a rebound thing, yes, but he may also honestly be trying to move on. Right now he's emotionally unstable, so you cannot predict what his motives are. I would say that you're doing the right thing by waiting. If anything, you can tell him that you do like him, and you do want to date, but you want to wait a week before you two do anything. That way he knows how you feel, he knows you want to be with him, and you most likely won't lose your chance to be with him. In the end, do w…

You should talk to her about how you feel. Tell her that you are trying your best not to cause any problems, and that it honestly isn't you that is causing them. Tell her that you want to work things out and prove it to her. Maybe try talking to this other guy about it, too. If she doesn't want to listen, then maybe it's best not to get involved. She obviously doesn't have full trust in you *Although for good reasons*, but that doesn't mean she should be looking away from the truth in the situat…

Prove to her that you wouldn't do that. Obviously you're already doing so by not doing it, but here are some other ideas. -Make simple promises that you can keep. "I promise I'll call you tommorow", "I promise we'll do something this weekend", or whatever other promises you know you can keep. Don't make a promise unless you can keep it though, or you can lose all your trust. -When she talks about trust or you cheating on her, be sweet. Hug her, kiss her, and tell her she's the only one in the wo…

I look for girls who have good humor. Intelligence wise, they don't have to be smart, but they have to have common sense. Looks.. As long as they aren't unhealthy *Morbidly fat or anorexic* then I have no problem with weight. Height.. I would want my girlfriend to be shorter than me XD I'm intimidated by taller girls. Oh, and someone who can deal with my randomness/awkwardness, and enjoys at least some of the things I do. And one last comment, pointing out what those kids at your school said abo…

I mean no disrespect when I say this, Liam, but I would NOT recommend that she try and get revenge or try and rub it in her sister's face. Cortnie, the best thing to do is to listen to Jenn. Talk to your sister about the situation. Explain how you feel about it all. Reassure your sister that you won't replace her with your cousin. I agree that it might be helpful to hang out with both your cousin and sister at the same time. That way no one is left out. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

At this point, it would be best to stop trying to get her to return your feelings, and just be happy that you're friends. If you're meant to be, she'll find feelings for you in time and will talk to you. Until then, keep your chin up and move on. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

If you didn't do it, you just have to be honest and stick to it. Tell her that you wouldn't do that and just hope that she trusts you. If she doesn't, then maybe she isn't as much of a friend as you think she is. If you want to try harder, maybe do some "detective" work to find out who DID call her. Or work with her to find out. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

Patrick is right. You should probably stop and talk to your boyfriend about all this. It would be bad if you tried to rebuild the communication with Mark and then find out that your boyfriend doesn't want that. Sit down, talk about it, and decide from there. Do what you're both comfortable with. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

At this point, the only thing that you can is either apologize and ask him to talk it out with you, or to move on and find better friends. If you wish to try and work things out, just go to their house sometime or contact some other way and explain that you're sorry for what you said, but what they did also offended you. Make sure he understands how you feel, and that you understand how he feels. If you wish to move on, I would suggest trying to cut all contact with your friend. That would be th…

Really, there is not complicated answer here. You just have to go for it. :tongue: Remember to stay confident and everything will be fine. =) Support Leader, ~James

You will just have to apologize and hope that they understand. If it was an honest mistake, and you truely are sorry, show it to them. Explain what happened. Express your feelings. They may not be so inviting right now, but if you can do that, they will possibly get over this whole thing. If they don't accept your apology, then you need to move on. Tell them that you've tried apologizing, and if they don't want to accept it, then fine, you'll move on and find friends who WILL trust you. Good luc…

You've pointed out that the main problem with holding friends is either that you find the wrong people, or you don't talk enough. If you keep finding the wrong type of friends, why not look in different places? As Dan said, join some groups. It's hard to find people with the same interests when you're looking through the whole world. By going to groups, instead of looking at the billions of people, you'll be looking at 5-50 people *Depending on the size of the group*. Those odds are much more fa…

Brittney is right. It would be best to just talk to your dad. Or if you write to him, be 100% honest. Tell him how things are. Explain that you're sorry for what happened, and explain your situation. He is your father, and I'm sure he misses you, as your friends have said. So don't be afraid to talk to him again. It's been a full year since you've talked to him, so odds are any bad feelings between you two are gone, or have been flushed out by the feelings of missing eachother. Be honest with yo…

Rayvon is right. You won't know until you try. She found out before, and you stayed friends then, so there shouldn't be any worries about her not wanting to be friends with you after you talk to her this time. Go for it. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

Well, first you need to realize that you need to stop backing off and just go for it. If you aren't confident about yourself, how are you suppose to ask her out? Maybe you should ask her for her number sometime. Or, if you don't want to be so straight forward, give a "Reason" for needing her number, like "Hey, can I have your number in case I need some help with the homework tonight?" In the end, it doesn't matter how you do it, as long as you get it done. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James