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Considering that she's in a relationship, I think just trying to act as normal as you can would be a good start. See how she acts, and then take it from there. Right now you're just working off of "what if"s, which doesn't offer much to go off of. If knowing that you like her does change things, then that's because she likes you and likes how you act, and changing things now could potentially change THAT. Being comfortable around her, and showing her that your feelings don't get in the way of yo…

I like the first one a lot. Cute styles.

Trust me, you're not doing it any more than I am. How HR can really think that this kid calling me a scumbag in front of another manager and another employee doesn't at the very least warrant a write-up I have no idea. I could go on for hours about the shit this kid pulls and is allowed to all in the name of being "politically correct".

If you have a class with someone then a really easy way is to study or do homework together. It's a nice way to make an excuse to hang out, and if it doesn't go well you always have something to distract you with or to help give you something to discuss. If a school function or sporting event is coming up you can always ask her to go on a date with you to it. That's something fun to do. Movies are easy as well (and just like studying, if you clam up it gives you something else to focus on as wel…

Currently I am in a position of not being allowed to fire/reprimand my worst employee because he is African American and gay. HR is afraid of any possible backlash and claims of racism, so they go the extreme and allow this kid to be a terrible employee but don't allow me to hold him accountable in any way. It's really frustrating.

It could be possible that you're just tired. You shouldn't still be high the next day, that's kind of unheard of unless it's a huge amount.

Haha, I just saw My Best Friend's Wedding again last night. Julia Roberts is supposed to be turning 30. My boyfriend is turning 30 in January. Granted, I think she looks great, but she looks no less than 40! I guess 40 is the new 30 after all.

If someone is mature enough to realize that it might be a better choice for someone else to be in charge, then I fail to see how they are not mature enough to make rational decisions if they choose to have a single beer.

There is a large difference between being happy with the choices made and with a past that you realize you cannot change, and being proud.

It's so funny, now that I'm a bit older, to watch movies and see people who are supposedly 22, 24, 29, turning 30, etc. I just look at them and think "wow, who are they kidding?!" I look at myself, I look at my friends, I would never in a million years think that these people were my peers or in my peer group. They obviously look much older than they are supposed to be playing.

1. What is your view on abortions? I think that they can be a useful choice for many people. I wish that the option did not need to exist, but that's just my fantasy world. 2. Adoptions? Same as abortion. 3. Going through and keeping the kid? I think it's a fine choice for some. Not a choice that I agree with often (especially on teen forums), but as with the other two options it's their right to make the choice. 4. Do you want to get pregnant? Some day. Definitely not for a few years. 5. If you…

Let's go whine somewhere else and not ruin a perfectly good topic, yes?

But most soldiers are in control of the general population. If you have the legal right to kill someone with no more just cause than "they didn't do what I said", then you should be in control enough to be able to choose whether or not you wish to partake in alcohol.

Sometimes it isn't always what you say that is the best advice, but saying nothing at all can be the most help. You don't always have to have all the answers, and I doubt that she expects you to either. Listening to her, and allowing her to express herself can be important and helpful. Don't be afraid to share your opinions and be honest. If you're not sure what to say then tell her that. You don't need to lie or pretend to know things that you don't know. You're her friend because you like each…

I don't think it's weird. I know a lot of guys who have more or less facial hair than their father.

Quote from Retch: “Obviously. OP is absolutely unable to get aroused by a girl he finds to be attractive, in a comfortable environment. Do you think that this is healthy - keeping in mind that a teenager is considered to be nearing the prime of sexual voracity? Do you think he should not visit some sort of medical professional? Make sure to remember that males and females are very different before you answer those questions.” In this day and age, people are so quick to jump to medical profession…

It's not. In many situations it is perfectly ok, healthy, and normal to have a low sex drive. Whether it is ok or not PURELY depends on WHY the person has a low sex drive.

Quote from Retch: “It's wrong? Actually, no, It's not. Check these sources (among millions of others, including your doctor): Psychological Problems Related to Men with no Sex Drive No Sex Drive - Sexuality & Sexual Problems” It is true that a low sex drive could be due to depression, PTSD, or other things that could be wrong, but we also do not have enough information to ASSUME that that is the case. It can be very normal to have a low sex drive as well.

If you cannot trust someone to have control over their own body, then why would we put them in control of other people's bodies?

I'm not really sure how we chose it. We slept together, but we both knew that we didn't want to just sleep around, that we wanted something more. He's only been in a few serious relationships, so he was quite weary. After a couple of weeks of hanging out he had this funny conversation with his friend about whether or not he wants to be in a relationship at all. His friend asked him what him and I do together: "We sleep, eat, and have sex." His friend then told him: "Well...that's what a relation…