As much as i understood ur situation ur friend think they lost cause and have no talent, i say as a friend you should try to help them see what you see about them , i mean every one have talent of something special you do i do everyone does... i say , u should keep going and trying to help em to try pick their chooise HF and good day
depends what kind of boy friend you look for... there is a lot of peoples around the world depends what you look for , black , white , asian , depends also in religions... browse your friend and pick one HF