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There's no harm in asking him out. He follows you around and flirts with you, so I'd assume he likes you. And he's not exactly a close friend, now is he? So I don't see any reason why you shouldn't. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

I would say that right now, it's undetermined whether or not he likes you. I would just go with the flow of things right now. Act as friends, and see if he gives you more signs when you hang out with him. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

Hey Brittney, I'm sure you're worried, and you have every right to be. But right now, you've got to stay strong for your mother, okay? If she was bleeding, but she's no longer on her period, she may have a urinary tract infection. However, you did mention she had a lump in her ovaries? There are just too many possibilities to say for sure what it could be. I agree with Anna. You should talk to your mom and convince her to go to the hospital to get it checked. It's better being safe than sorry. I…

I'm sure Steve and your Dather would both be very proud of you. Sometimes it's hard to push along in life, but as long as we keep going, things eventually get better. Happy birthday and may they rest in peace. =) Support Leader, ~James

Gabe, please take a minute or two to read this. If you still wish to continue through with your plans, then I won't stop you, but first read what I have to say. Life can be really tough sometimes, and you'll wonder if it's worth it or not. Sometimes things will seem terrible, and you don't know if you can pull through it. But here's the truth; Things WILL get better. Things can only get so bad before they get better. The only time things will get worse and stay that way is if you commit suicide.…

Bebop is absolutely right. You need to just be confident about yourself. You'll find that the only thing stopping you from being as social is yourself. To start a convo with someone, just talk about something school related first. Something you both did, like a test in a certain class. Maybe something like "I don't know how I did on that test in Algebra today, but hopefully I passed. How do you think you did?" That will open up a chance for a conversation. Now that you've got a conversation star…

Usually kissing on the lips is a sign of affection, more than just friends. I would talk to her about it. Ask her how she feels about you, and tell her how you feel about her. Worst case is she says she doesn't return your feelings, and things will be awkward for a few days. =P Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

It sounds like she does like you, and you obviously like her. She may be a bit confused with her emotions, or she may feel the same way as you are feeling about her; worried that you're just using her, or you're mad at her. Honestly, I agree with Sharkbait. At this point, you should just tell her how you feel. Either she'll admit she has the same feelings, things will be the same, or your feelings are right and the end result is the same as what it would be if you didn't do anything. =P Go for i…

Generally speaking, large age differences aren't a big deal. It is, however, when you are younger. If it's just a crush that you're talking about, and nothing is going on, there's really no "age limit" to it, as long as nothing happens. However, if you meant dating, it can be a big deal. A 10 year old should NOT be dating someone who's like 18+, no matter what the circumstances. At 10 years old, one is not old enough to judge what's right or wrong, at least not near the capabilities of an 18 yea…

Austin is right in saying that the guy may deal with the problem, depending on how he feels about you and the other girl. However, I would like to point out that you aren't "officially" dating yet, and that may be why the girl is still trying to get with the guy. Why don't you ask your friend if he wants to date? That may solve this problem, and from the looks of it, it's what should already have been done. ;P Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

Give the guy a few more days to ask you out. If he doesn't, say something like "Are we going to make it official?" or something like that. Or you could simply ask him out yourself. It used to be "strange" for a girl to ask the guy out, but now-a-days it's becoming more and more common. So that shouldn't deter you any. Take care. =) Support Leader, ~James

People have sex in plenty of different things. Just do what you feel comfortable with. If your girlfriend/boyfriend doesn't mind, then what does it matter? It's not like anyone's going to be watching, and I don't think you'll be going around telling people. =P Be safe and have fun. =) Support Leader, ~James

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First off, welcome to the forums. This is intended to be a teen forum, but there have been other adults who have came here for advice before. I don't know how well we can help, but we'll do our best. I think that your best bet is to just go out to the bar, or anywhere else that you enjoy going to and talking to people. Maybe talk to people at work, too. More than that, I'm not sure about what to say. Just try and talk more. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

You were never really "on" the hook, were you? You said you didn't like her, right? Anyways, girls are complicated, as are boys. You may never know how she really feels, but you can guess. I would just.. let it go. You don't have to know if she likes you or not, especially since you don't return the feelings. =P Just continue on with your life. Support Leader, ~James

Emma, you're a good sister. =) I think the best thing to do is talk to your mom, like Poppi said. If he's actually being bullied, then it needs to be stopped. In the mean time, until something's done, just try being there for him. I wouldn't talk about bullying or anything, but if he needs help with homework or something, you could help. Oh, and something to recommend to your mom, if the bullying is a reoccuring thing.. Karate or some other sort or martial art. Bullies tend to pick a person and …

She's your mother, and you do live in her house, so she has the ultimate say in the end. She may be having you help pay for the bills because you do live there, and she's trying to simulate you living on your own (Paying for rent, bills, etc.) As for your 'curfew', again, it is her house, and you have to understand that there are plenty of reasons as to why she wouldn't want you out that late. She may worry, but there's also a possibility that it's because for you to be out, she can't lock the d…

This is a very common thing, having social groups that are based off of races. It's because you have things in common with other asians because you yourself are an asian. The best way to break the racial barrier is to just talk to other people. Talk to some white people, see if you can find someone with the same interests as you. Friendship is blind; race doesn't matter as long as you are actually friends. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

Just continue talking to her as you've been, and then when you think you're on good enough terms, ask for her number. Maybe say something like "talk would be much easier if we were on the phone. Do you want to?" About her having her drivers license. It may seem a bit weird, but honestly, it shouldn't matter too much if she's worth it. You could even use it as a way to flirt. "Well, since you're driving us there, why not let me buy you dinner?" *Or whatever you're going out to do. If it's a movie…

Just be a good boyfriend. You shouldn't have to "prove" anything, but of course she should be able to trust you. If she's someone you want to be with, then be nice to her. You don't have to get her a gift or do something extremely special. Just show her that you won't do anything that ISN'T trustworthy. A little time and patience, and things should be fine. =) Support Leader, ~James