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Quote from theletters: “i think you can get a uti technically if you don't piss after cumming. so yeah its probably best to go anyways ” Has anyone done any trials on this? I can see the theory: semen contains fructose which could be a growth medium for bacteria. But, for that to happen, bacteria have to get in there and normally the urethra would be sterile. Then, even if you don't pee immediately, you will before too long. The longest time without would be if you went to sleep and then peed fi…

Quote from naturelover-VT: “from a medical journal "One conservative option is to hang weights from the penis. However, these weights need to be hung from the penis for around 8-12 hours a day." ” Interesting. I can see one way that could work. First, here's what I know about growth in general. Growth of the skeleton is controlled mainly by growth hormone, though sex hormones also have an effect, and happens in cycles, i.e. even before puberty there are times when you are growing faster than oth…

Quote from Gabraham247: “....Like i couldn't get them from my school, city library, barnes and noble, or online?... ” I think that is a fair point. There was a book that was actually banned in England called Spycatcher, as in they actually tried to ensure that no-one would get to read it by any means. It failed, because the market for books is global and to truly ban it would have required international cooperation. Furthermore the attempt made the news at the time and, quite predictably, people…

That point about general modesty and nudity moving in opposite directions is an interesting one. The Victorians, with considering legs to be obsene even to the point of covering legs on tables and chairs, seems pretty silly to us now but was, to a degree, in keeping with their general view that sex was a bodily function for creating children, an inconvenient reminder that we have animal bodies. But, in times since then, I wonder how much modesty has changed, or rather how much more immodest we h…

I love that quote on the original post. If you have free speech, that means people will be exposed to opposing views and it also means education should teach critical thinking to help people sort out the useful from the dross or the downright misleading. For Americans, it seems crazy to have free speech in the constitution and then be afraid of it. It is worth noting, though, that free speech doesn't entitle anyone to air their views in any particular channel whose resources are owned by someone…

I have never walked in on them or overheard them, so I don;t know exactly when, but I do have a younger brother so they must have carried on having sex after I was born.

Quote from Darian: “...This is what's so strange about it and what's bugging me - I don't have to go before, but after I blow my load, there are times where suddenly I've really got to go a few minutes later. ” Certainly I have experienced this and, by the other replies, so have others and it is quite normal. I have read one theory as to why it happens. When we haven't just ejaculated, the need to pee is brought on by stretch receptors in the bladder signalling to the brain that the bladder is g…

I noticed in my previous post that I didn't really answer the question. The name 'pubic' hair suggests hair that grows on the pubis, i.e. on the skin that covers the front upper part of the pelvis. I am not sure which way round the names are but I would guess that puberty is called puberty because that is the first place we notice hair. But sex hormones can promote hair growth in various places. In guys, it is not unusual for hair to spread out from the pubis to the tops of the thighs, the perin…

Quote from Ryanschmo: “it's always best to wait. Having sex for the sake of sex is a terrible idea. Ideally you'll want to wait until marriage. The rise in depression rates has coincided with the rise of promiscuous sex and decline in the marriage rate, and that's no mere coincidence. ” Even if the figures show a negative correlation between marriage and depression, i.e. you are more likely to be depressed if you are not married, this does not mean that having sex while not married is the cause …

Quote from Ryanschmo: “So we all know what happens to our genitals during an orgasm. But an orgasm involves the whole body, so what do you experience OUTSIDE that area? For me, my eyes close, my breathing gets quick, my head sometimes goes back, and my legs stretch all the way out. ” For me, definitely the quicker breathing, stretching my legs out and a general feeling of muscle tension. My heart rate is also quicker and sometimes I push my hips forward; if you're in someone that obviously makes…

Not any more. I did discover masturbation by lying on my front, holding my penis and then humping while keeping my hand still. Now I have switched to the more common way of moving my hand instead.

It's interesting to hear the comments about there being a switch at puberty. For me, it seemed that at puberty I was suddenly more aware of my penis in particular. That mean being less keen on being seen naked by my mum. On the other hand I was an early developer and boys in the locker room commented on, and made jokes about, the size of it and I responded by letting them see more; by walking back from the showers to where I would change without holding a towel in front and taking my time gettin…

Quote from Vic2022: “ Of course to decide a transition you have to think hard about it. I saw the doctor a bunch of times and did experimentations for her to find out if I have a dysphoria or if it is something else. She didn't rush me through, it was the opposite, she told us to take time to make these experimentations, then be sure of I felt ” Can you clarify a bit on the question of being rushed? It would seem to me that there could be a sense of urgency to start puberty blockers but that, on…

Quote from Ryanschmo: “Notice how i said i USED to ” I hope you are not feeling judged by other people questioning what you used to do. I think it would still be interesting to know why you chose to do it that way. Was it that you liked how it felt, to contain the mess or something else? Personally, I choose not to contain the mess but let the cum shoot freely onto my chest/belly. Partly that's because I don't want the need to aim into something to be a distraction from the orgasm and partly bec…

Quote from collin13: “I'm curious now. What do the puberty hormones blockers do to you? Like how do they make you feel and what do they block? ” I can't speak frpm experience on how they make people feel, but the point of taking them is that some of the changes that happen with puberty are sex-specific, permanent and quite obvious. Prior to pubery, although boys and girls have different genitals, once clothed there isn't really anything to tell the sexes apart other than hair and clothing styles…

Quote from Abatundra: “is it suppose to be thick or loose. It was thick yesterday when I came, now it's lose like water. ” Various things affect it so it can vary from one time to another just like it did for you. For me, it having been longer since I last came makes it thicker, while being highly aroused for a long time before cumming, for example by doing stop & go/edging, tends to make it thinner. Then, as we go though puberty, it gets thicker on average.

Quote from Pultost: “Yeah, at the end of the day there are two kinds of people in this world: Those with dicks and those without, regardless of how they identify. ” You can certainly divide people into those two groups but to say that this is more fundamental than, for example, whether have XY or XX chromosomes or whether we have the SRY gene etc. is not so simple because the whole process by which people become one sex or the other and how that affects their gender identity is not quite so simp…

Quote from Gabraham247: “So the female cycle is every 30 days and the male cycle (in theory) is every 24 hours. Interesting. Makes definitely don't have menses. Idk if period is the correct term either. I suppose Male Hormone Cycle makes sense. I still think Its fair to say men have periods. It's no surprise that male hormones affect males. And I the study was a very interesting read. It essentially explains why we have morning wood. ” To be pedantic, period refers to a length of time and someth…

I did ask a question that is related to this in another post: Variations in horniness by sex? but, while the response from the guys was interesting, there were too few responses from the girls to learn much there. As this question is wider that just horniness, I would say the same is true for my general mood as for horniness in that it is mostly constant. There can be odd days when I am not as enthusiastic or energetic and there are also odd days when I feel extra horny but again that is normall…

I agree with Corey's diagram. Also bear in mind that the size of the muscles that go over the shoulder, and whose name I forget, will have an effect on the width you see. It is hard to measure the skeleton specifically. As for age, I don't have any kind of note - I think it is something that happened gradually, much like growing does in general. If I was to take a guess I would say the growth would happen mostly during the general growth spurt which is also around the time of fastest change in v…