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Quote from YeahWhatever: “ What do you mean by "typical girls' attitude about men"? It wouldn't be typical if it weren't true. For every one guy that cares about a girl's feelings, there's probably about fifty that are willing to let him have her 'cause she won't go all the way on a first date.” I don't agree that it is a typical girls attitude towards men, however it is your attitude, and it's totally off base. There are atleast as many guys looking for a relationship in highschool as there are…

Haha, it seems like you wrote that to the stereotypical macho-man asshole guys, especially after reading your one for girls. Since I'm not one of those, it was quite funny, yet somewhat insulting. Nevertheless, sound advice, beneath all the fucking and pussy. :p

Ah joy, a fellow shy guy!:) Don't count on him making the first move, it took me 5 weeks to kiss my girl. If you don't want to wait that long then initiate it, he'll appreciate that. As for conversation just keep talking and eventually he'll get more comfortable around you and open up. Don't talk about kissing him, obviously he's uncomfortable with it and talking will just make him squirm. Keep the convo casual, and if you do want to talk about kissing then make it very straightforward that you …

haha, so far theres been no good answers:(. Theres no way i'm just shoving my hand down her pants, when I try to do it slowly I always get stopped, doing it faster would only be disrespectful eh. I have two more wonderings(yea made it up) though. Why would she be nervous, or if she isn't nervous why would she not let me? We've been dating 2 and a half months just so you people now.

i "lost" my first kiss at 17, and yes thats pretty damn weird.

My girlfriend started giving me handjobs maybe 2 weeks ago, but she won't let me return the favour. I mean I do what I can with kissing and boobs, but I still feel like shes doing more work and i'm having the fun. Plus it doesn't help that it takes me a long time when shes doing it, and her arm gets tired. I don't know what to do, I just feel kinda guilty, and in all honesty I wanna touch it too haha. help.

Aight so you guys were all wrong:P. I did a bit of asking around and apparently her friend was in her ear about how relationships work out better if you aren't seeing eachother constantly. Everything is better, thanks for the suggestions though.

hey i'm 17, been going out with this really awesome girl for about 7 weeks now. just recently, she told me she thought it would be better if we didn't see eachother every other day, and also said that she thought makeout sessions should be reserved for the weekend. I haven't seen her since saturday, and the first time she wanted to see me is friday(tomorrow). Today on msn it seemed like she was giving me really short answers on msn too. and we're doind a sleepover party thing saturday night, whi…

well, being fat is unhealthy, the reason you are 220lbs is because you eat too much/don't exercise enough, not because you were just made that way. sure, the media markets a very hard to acheive and potentially unhealthy image, but being fat is perhaps even less healthy. theres lots of room inbetween, its not like you are either fat or some plastic model. i suggest losing some weight, 220lbs is unhealthy and you are obviously not happy with it, so cut down on the junk food or whatever is feeding…

yea i know 6 weeks is a long time, probably more like 5, but still. but anyways, i'm way past that now. so the general concensus is to ask first? it seems kinda weird to ask tho, especially knowing that girls don't want you to ask if you can kiss them... maybe if i have to ask i should just wait a bit instead? i mean i want this, but it can wait a bit if thats a better way to go:confused:...feedback please.

history- me and my girlfriend have been dating around 6 weeks now, but our first kiss was only three days ago. since then the physical side has advanced pretty damn fast. question: if she lets me rub her outside her pants(for a pretty long time), sounding pleasured, does this mean i'm clear to go under the pants? should i wait a bit, or just go for it and see if she blocks me?

I wouldn't become to fixated on this one girl too much, I know you may like her now, but after I lost the weight I found I wasn't interested in the same girls i was before. I don't really know why, I just sorta forgot about them for the most part. People will be alot nicer to you as a thin person, and your eyes will be opened to many people who maybe don't seem the friendliest right now. Your perspective will change alot, and since you know that you can actually have the people you wanted, you s…

Man, you just described me in grade 11. Never had a girlfriend and i was so nervous and shy around girls. I weighed just under 230lbs and i was so unhappy with the situation I was in. One day I just decided I'd had enough and I wanted a girl bad, so I started a diet. Every time I went to eat something bad/or too much i always made the decsision in my mind,"hot girl, or this food". It worked so well, obviously hot girl won every time and for probably a 2 month stretch I was loosing 5 lbs a week. …

Update: the party never happened, cause her exams were postponed. I was at her house today for a Saw marathon and i just couldn't do it. I'm feeling so frustrated at myself right now i can't even explain it. Everytime i look at her when shes talking, i have this huge urge to kiss her but i just freeze up and don't do it. this isn't like me either, i'm the person who just goes for something most of the time(although not when it comes to girls). I'm so pissed that i'm freaking, it's just eating at…

Well it's been 3 weeks and a day for me so far, and we mostly watch movies at home, went to see two movies, and went to a party and on a walk together. Haven't kissed her yet, planning on that tonight though.

say something. 16 is a lot different from 11.

aight thanks guys, so it's agreed that it won't matter to her that much if we're a bit drunk? like i know she won't reject it or anything, but i made her wait so long so i feel like i owe it to her to make it good/"special", cause its not like i'm just kissing some girl anymore, i really like her...whatever... idk.

thanks for the feedback guys. This would be my first kiss, and i would guess maybe hers as well as she is shy, but i'm not sure. Yesterday we were watching a dating show and three guys in a row on it were virgins, 2 were 18 1 19, and she said "wow how the hell did they find so many virgins" and i was just like "what"?!(in my head, i actually just grunted in agreement). so i really don't know at all.:confused: p.s. sex is not on the table at all right now, ill get past the kiss first and then wor…

I'm 17 and me and my gf have been going out for almost a month now. Thing is, i still haven't kissed her. At first i was just really nervous around her but now i'm more comfortable with her, but i'm still real freaked about the kiss. I think it's to the point where i've left it way to long and its built itself into a big wall i can't get past. We're going to a little party/hangout thing, and some liquid courage would help me alot. However, would she see it as a cop out if I kissed her for the fi…

aight well i have a gf, and we've been going out for a few weeks now, almost a month of "seeing" eachother i guess, and i have yet to kiss her because i'm too nervous. It's at the point where i'm afraid that if i don't do it soon she might get bored and not want to date me any more. I am also 17 btw, so you're not alone.