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I think it comes down to personal choice, and your judgement of who you give it to. If you're sensible, and careful, then you normally can make some good friends even better, by being able to communicate more often. If you're silly, and give it to anyone, you're soon going to have a nightmare of prank calls and abusive messages. If you keep your head, and are selective, it should be something to your advantage

This is a tricky one now. Because he has said he likes you, and has sort of asked you out, while already still dating her, you don't know now how much of what he's saying is actually true or exaggerated to try and build a story as to why he's wanting to date you. Nightmare for you =] Another thing that worries me is, the fact he said that to you while being with her. How would you feel if you were with him? Because you know what they say, if they're capable of doing that to someone else, they're…

Hi Ben, I think the only issue that you will have is stated on your post....well like 4months ago i broke up with my girlfriend...Because it means you broke up with her, so her feelings for you didn't change. Because of that, she may feel hurt and still quite sensitive about it, which is a shame, as I am sure you were both really good friends before! All you can do, really, is talk to her about it, and see how she feels about being friends again. I take your point about you're totally over her, …

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Well, my solution is simple. If he has nothing to hide, then if he does go over there to babysit, you go with him. There's no reason why you shouldn't, and if he's with you, then he should be proud to take you anywhere. If he can't take you, then that is a clear message he shouldn't be going in the first place. You're pregnant and you need him around you, and in your life now more than ever. And you need that level of committment from him. He is equally responsible for this, and it's not a time …

Hi Meghan, I think the first thing that hits out at me is the fact that he does lie. How is that going to lead to a secure relationship? I mean, if he keeps lying to you, which he seems to have done a few times, you are going to find it hard to trust him. Every time he goes out, or is back late, you're going to question in your mind 'Is he telling the truth or not?' and that is probably going to drive you insane. He admitted to asking that girl for a 3some, does that sound like someone who is ha…

Hi Nicky, There is a lot of sickness going around in the world at the moment, and what he's saying does make sense. The one thing that struck me is, if he was cheating or thinking about ending things, he probably would just go quiet, as his guilt would stop him from talking to you. The fact that he's messaging you, and telling you he's sick is telling me he cares about you, and doesn't want you to worry. That doesn't mean you're wrong to always keep an eye on things, because you have been hurt b…

If you are on a home phone, and someone calls you, then the person making the call always pays the charges. You won't pay anything at all, unless you call them, or they reverse charge it. The only time it's different is if you're on a mobile phone and it's on roaming. But a home phone, no charges for taking a call

Hi Lisa, I think you need to remember that when you break up with someone, they're going to be hurt. You can't really avoid that, because they are not going to want to break up. So, the best way of achieving what you want is probably to break up with him, and then make sure you stress why you're doing it, and the reasons. If you want to be friends, I am guessing he's not a totally bad person, so make sure he knows that, and that will make it much easier. Then, when you have done it, give him som…

Hi Emely, I think you do need to be a little careful with this guy. It's not a good sign that he was asking about your friend, and wanting to know if she liked him or not. If he's asking you out, why would he be bothered about what your friend thought of him? That does worry me a little. I think you do need to also be a little wary of him wanting to be with you just to get closer to your friend, which is something that some guys would do. You need to make sure he's with you for the right reason,…

Hey, Firstly, welcome to the forum =] I hope you get some good advice here. That is a tricky situation to be in, and I can understand how you must be hurting quite badly at the moment. As much as it may hurt to read, you can't force someone to want you in that way, and I know it's hard, but it's sadly true. I think most people have been in this situation, where you have feelings for someone and they don't feel the same way - and deep down, you know you could make them happy, and you could be goo…

Hi Chris, I totally understand where you're coming from, the subject of my first posts on this site was about this subject actually. I have liked someone for years, and there's no way anything would happen between us, and it was driving me insane at the time, because I hated the thought of never being with them. The best advice I can give you is the try and stop thinking/believing that if you hang out with her, she will change her mind and your 'dream' will come true. I know we all want to cling…

I think it's a case, usually, of just using your best judgement and it usually will stand out. The common signs would be that he is rushing you or trying to pressure you into doing things, even if you say you don't want to. Another thing that sometimes happens is he will ignore you a lot of the time, and only 'fuss' over you when it suits him. Possibly will talk about, or infer sexual things quite a lot, and will get moody or disinterested if you don't want to do anything. Not every guy is like …

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If it's your laptop, you should be able to sort this out yourself. Can you not boot up, even in safe mode, and do a virus check? Do you have a decent firewall and some sort of protection on there? How do you know it's a virus? How many anti virus programs do you have running on your laptop now? If you have more than 1 running at any point, that is probably causing your laptop to randomly restart. So delete apart from one of them, only have 1. And then it will stop restarting. As a last resort, m…

As you say, he put on 80 lbs before you met him, so you met him the way he is now. So that tells me that you must be attracted to him, and his personality must be good as well. So, that's a really good start. If your family like him as well, that's an even better start! So, you just need to help him lose that extra weight now. As Chris said, if he eats healthy and does some exercise, it should start coming off. Rather than saying you want him to lose weight, you could say you're going to HELP HI…

Excellent =] I am glad you have managed to get this straightened out. I think we both know he would be really mad if you had been doing the same thing, so it's good he's realised that, and is going to do something about it. I am glad I was able to help you a little, and remember, we're always here if you need any more advice x

Wow, well, if he told you to shut up because he was talking to that girl, then I think you're doing the right thing. You don't deserve to be spoken to like that, I am 100% sure you can do much better than him, and so, I am confident you will be doing what you need to do. I think your mum had a good point. You got with him because you were feeling sad, alone, and you wantede - needed someone to make you feel better. It's totally understandable. But now, you're getting stronger, and realising that…

Hi Lisa, Firstly, I am really sorry to hear about your dad. I know nothing I can say will change what happened, and I can understand how you must feel, every day, and miss him. I haven't gone through losing my dad, but I have lost both of my grandma's within a year of each other, and I used to live with one of them, and also lost a sister, so I have lost peolpe who are close to me. Time is a gread healer, and no matter what you think now, I promise that in a short while, things will get easier. …

I think you guys need a better plan. OK, so he's busy with school and hocky, I understand that, but you obviously really miss him when you don't see him, so you need to think of a system where it's going to help you miss him a little less, but it won't take up too much of his time. For example, can he not call you quickly for a few minutes before a hocky game? Or, if he's doing school work, just a 5 minute call before he starts or when he finishes? If you both can do something like that, at leas…