Popular is not a word I used, but yes, living for yourself and not for a baby is one of the merits. Do tell as to why it would be fine to have a child instead of doing something with your life, aside from leech from those around you. An unborn baby has no worth.
We were nade via evolution and atom's, it's way more plausable and proovable than some form of deity, who i might add, is a terrible one at that, ever if he did exist i'd spit on his alter.
Don't expect any long term relationship while at school, every woman has their own ideal man as every man has an ideal woman, but they just don't happen. Looking for a relationship is a bad move anyway, what's the rush or reason? end of the day, only one thing comes after love and that's heartache, so you won't be missing out on much.