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Communication is one of the major componants of a relationship. Without it, the relationship will inevitably end. You need to talk to him about everything. Explain how you feel. The only thing that worries me is that he said that it wasn't you, and that it was him. That's a key break-up excuse. People have used that all the time, and usually it means that they want to break up and move on. Let's hope that isn't the case here, and that he actually meant what he said. :tongue: So.. Just talk to hi…

Yeah, you should definitely talk to him about it. Tell him that you really like him and want to take it a step further and officially become boyfriend and girlfriend. :tongue: good luck! =) Support Leader, ~James

You need to think about if they truely are your friends or not, and if they are worth being friends with. It's only natural that you would want to spend time with your boyfriend, and you are trying to work things out with your boyfriend and your friends by spending time with both. These friends of yours.. Do you really think that they are people you should hang around with? You aren't someone who does drugs or anything, and they do. They also seem to be less understanding than you. Consider whet…

The original problem that you posted didn't seem to be that big of a deal. You could probably have talked it out. But he had emailed you saying that he couldn't give two shits? That might be a more complicated problem now. I would still recommend you try and talk to him, if you see the friendship as something you want to keep. But be on guard, because he may try and say things to hurt you, as he already has through the email. Good luck, I hope things work out. =) Support Leader, ~James

As Erik said, you'll find that everyone has a time when they feel that they're falling behind their friends in life. Heck, I constantly feel that way. =P But you just have to continue because if you get caught up on the thought, ultimately you really are going to fall behind everyone. Push forward. =) Support Leader, ~James

You loved him. If you truely love someone, even if you leave them and move on, a part of you will always remember and love the person. So hearing that he had moved on and found someone and is now engaged still took you off guard. Maybe it's also because your boyfriend is in Afghanistan right now and you don't know how things will end (Whether he'll come back and you two get married, or if you two break up and move on). Either way, it's just something you'll need to push through. Your situation w…

You should talk to your brother about it. Show him that you're concerned. Listen to what he has to say, too, because he may have some reason for having it. Beyond that, there isn't much you can do unless you wish to take a risk of getting your brother in trouble. *Which may be worth it if you're really afraid of him being hurt by smoking*. If you're willing to take the chance of him getting in trouble, talk to your parents. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

Well, I don't think anyone can put you in rehab except your legal parent/guardian *If you're under 18*, or the police/doctors. Still, maybe it'd be best if you do go into Rehab, if this drug issue is a problem. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

Chera is right. Just try and get to know her. Talk about things you like, find out what she likes. Then talk about those. Anything that comes to mind. And as for trust, it just needs to be built back up. Show her that she can trust you by letting her confide in you, and be there for her. And don't rush anything. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

It's human nature to want to have a mate. And relationships are more than just sex. While sex can be a significant part of a relationship, it's also important to have a friendship, to care for eachother. While you may not always get along with your significant other, you should for the most part. The arguements are just ways of getting over problems. Arguements are part of life. When you find the right person for you, you'll find that the arguements are not a big deal, and that you just enjoy be…

Yeah, something like chocolates, flowers, or a teddy of some sort. Maybe of her favorite animal? =P Have fun! Support Leader, ~James

Usually when a girl says they just want to be friends, that's a no, and it's almost IMPOSSIBLE to change that. There's always a slim chance, but it's better to just move on and find someone else. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

This is really just some friend drama or "highschool drama." While it may seem like a big deal right now, it's not. =P Just talk to your friend about it. Apologize for leaving, but explain that it was to hang out with your family. About your friend saying to stop spreading lies... While it may be true, next time, try not to talk about something like that? There really is no need to tell people that your family hates your friend, unless they ask or something. =P I hope you can sort things out wit…

As Jack said, it would be best to find some time to talk to your mom. Express to her your concerns, but also keep your mind open to what your mother has to say, too. Your parents may have seperated for good reasons, and while it's not something you may like, it happened. Maybe try opening up more to your mom's boyfriends? You may find that they aren't as bad as you think they are. =P Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

It's reasonable that your concerned for your friend. You've helped her so much and yet she continues to get herself into trouble. As others have stated, it's best to let her go through this and wait for her to come to you. Getting into her problems now most likely won't be accepted. Just wait it out and be there for her when she needs you. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

You did nothing wrong by not giving him a hug or kiss. You didn't want to do something, and you stood by what you chose. While it may have been the last time you would have the chance to do that, you didn't know. No one could have predicted that his untimely death would occur. Don't let the guilt get to you, because it wasn't your fault, and you did nothing wrong. Move forward in life, I'm sure Kenny would want you to. =) Support Leader, ~James

Yeah. If he's going beyond your comfort zone, and you don't like it, then you need to tell him and set some boundries. If he doesn't listen to those boundries, then he's probably not a friend, but more of a player. Set the boundries and see what happens. Good luck. =) Support Leader, ~James

*Nods* Emma's right. Just talk to him and see if he'll change. If not, you just have to decide if that's something you can put up with :tongue: Good luck =) Support Leader, ~James

...He said he thinks you two are going to break up, and he had no problem with it? o_o; That right there is enough for me to tell you that you should end it with him. He obviously isn't in the relationship. Both people need to try, and he's not. Stay strong and don't go back to him, at least not until he's changed for sure. Support Leader, ~James

Talk to your friend about it, but really, there isn't much that can be done. She's dating this guy, and that means that she likes him(Or I would at least hope so). Boyfriends and girlfriends hang out and spend time together, and you'll need to just accept that. Try and get on good terms with him, because that's probably the best thing to do in that situation. I hope things work out. =) Support Leader, ~James Edit: I just realized there was another post. Sorry I didn't reply there instead, hahah.