*groan* I would not sleep with a guy who: 1. Types so horridly. 2. Is so desperate. 3. Considers himself confident when drunk. You're not confident. You're just an asshole.
Just talk and find a position comfortable for you both. ANd realise that when one of you is giving a LOT of pleasure to the other, the other is probably going to stop reciprocating when they are close to climax.