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Hello I think that you have already done everything that you could have done. You've done the right things and it seems like you have things worked out. You know that she is on a social networking site, and you know that she went to that particular place, so you can go there again occasionally to see if she's there. There's not a lot else you could do. Also, keep an eye out for the two friends - they can give you information too. So far so good xx Much love dude ~Anya x

Hello The letter would most definitely be enough evidence - however, there would need to be proof that he wrote it. I don't think this would take a lot though. They can just look at it and consider whether it's his or not. He can confess to having written it. He could have signed it which is a binding contract. They can check his handwriting to see whether it is indeed his or not - the letter is enough evidence. Now, I will make this very clear - it doesn't matter that it is very late, it doesn'…

Hello What is point of living? To fulfil purpose. Every person has a purpose. For some, it is to help others. Others, to become great writers. To be a logical whiz. To make masterpieces of art. To be the world's greatest dog trainer. To juggle twenty balls at once. To have a family. To have children. To see amazing sights in the world. To become great philosophers. There are a billion purposes...you need to find them. For some people, merely searching for a purpose can be a life well spent. At t…

Yo dude Okay, let's stick to reality here; you have low self-esteem and you are not confident when talking to people, specifically girls. You feel that there's not much going for you and you're worried about what kind of future you're going to have, as well as the fact that your illness is holding you back. You have no reason at all to be made to feel this way. When us girls say we're looking for the "perfect guy", we're not on about tall, blonde hair, blue eyes, six pack, rippling muscles, whit…

Quote from Number Juan: “ facebook-40x40.jpg myspace-40x40.jpg twitter-40x40.jpg su-40x40.png You Are a Bubble Gum Bubble You are bold, daring, and totally outrageous. You love breaking rules. You are a bit of a show off, and you love to shock people with your antics. You have a wild streak, and you love to be challenged. You're dying to be dared. You are over the top, and that's what people love about you. You refuse to be normal.” I wonder if it's possible to blow bubbles through kiddy flutes.…

You Are Champagne Bubbles You are a sophisticated person, and you enjoy the most fabulous things in life. You appreciate good friends, good conversation, and of course, good wine. Some people may accuse you of being a snob, but you can't help that you have excellent taste. You love to have fun, just not the kind of fun that most other people are having.

You Are Wise You are a deliberate and thoughtful person. You try not to waste words or time. You aren't a grump, but you do take everyone and everything very seriously. Being superficial is not an option for you. You are always planning for the future. You consider the consequences of your actions carefully. You are quick to think and slow to move. You grow beautifully, and you don't like to be rushed.

Herro You don't regret what happened before now so there's no point in me going into that part. However, for you current situation, all I can say is that your friend's opinion is not in any way relevant. If you are comfortable with how things are as well as your boyfriend, then there is no problem at all, and you should not take what your friend said to heart. However, if you and your boyfriend are not comfortable with the situation, then perhaps you should re-evaluate whether you should take th…

Hello Love is many things. Love is a bond, a trust, and a comfort felt between two people that can match no other in the universe. Love is the feeling of belonging completely to the person you feel that way for, and knowing that they belong to you also. Love is giving the person the key to your soul, letting them know everything about you, knowing that they are your soul mate, and understanding who they are and how they work so perfectly with you. Love is dedicating yourself to the person, and k…

Hello It seems like you are very sincere in what you say - however, many would feel somewhat nervous about coming to you in search of a mentor, so I think that if you wish to help people, then you should go to their posts and leave advice. This will help people gain trust, and in time you will find that you are helping them. It's great that you truly want to help people and I wish there were more like you in the world. Much love from Anya x

Hello You and this guy were together for fourteen months - for this age groups, that's immense to be honest, and I commend you for keeping it going that long. And, of course, from having such a long relationship, the consequences of the break up are tough. However, don't fret! There's not some underlying issue, there's nothing wrong with you or him, and it's not going to last forever. It's a completely normal situation to be in, especially in such an emotional age group, and despite the fact tha…

Hello I'm sure that there are many, many guys out there who would find a sweet, shy girl like yourself attractive In fact, I think many of them find it quite an attraction. Now, it's not something that you yourself are doing wrong, it's merely the situations that you are in with them. So, what can you do to help yourself?? Well, first of all, you stated that you don't have many guy friends - the fact that you stated that shows me that you already known the obvious start. You need to socialise wi…

Hello You don't need to feel bad about hurting him at all - he obviously just doesn't understand how us girls feel sometimes. I myself hate talking on the phone, and I know many people who feel the same. That is completely normal, and you have nothing to feel bad about. It's okay for him to want to hear your voice as well, but nevertheless, he should not keep asking you when you have already shown that you don't feel comfortable with it. I think that the previously stated idea of leaving a voice…

Quote from rebekkah: “whatever you do don't read tess of the dubervilles. sooo boring.” Already have, and you're quite right. The beginning is so monotonous and unending. This was the compulsory book I had to read for my A level course. Killed me to read it D:

Quote from Opprobrium: “Five?? Holy shit why???I've read Under the Greenwood Tree and Two on a Tower. They were both a little dry but okay. Not something I would normally read unless I'm being forced to though.” Thank you Yeah I need to read five; over the next two years I need to read a LOT of English literature, in order to get into one of the best universities in England. It's a high goal but it's worth it Thank you!! I'll definitely look into them both. Much appreciated; Anya x

Hello TeenHutters!! Okay, I'm in need of five books, from the author Thomas Hardy. I don't know if anyone here would know, but which of his novels would you recommend? Hope someone can help me out Much love from Anya x

Hello Okay dude, obvious fact of the matter is, being in a relationship with someone is supposed to bring happiness. you've only been going out a month - you should still be in that honeymoon period at the beginning of relationships where everything is perfect - but apparently you are not that happy, and so, I think that perhaps you are right to re-evaluate whether or not this relationship is good for you as more than friends. Close friendship is special, and yes, sometimes it can turn into some…

"I would write something here that described my love for you - but unfortunately, no words could ever describe such an amazing feeling. You're my angel, my soul-mate, and the owner of the key to my heart" Much love dude From Anya x

Hello Every girl is slightly insecure to some extent; if they weren't then they would be classed as big - headed, vain and immodest. Your girlfriend will not likely admit that she is pretty, because firstly, she may genuinely believe that it is not true, and secondly, whether she believes it or not, she'd rather have you say it to her than she say it to you. She's a girl! We want to be bombarded with compliments, and if we deny them, then that just means we don't want you to stop. Why do we do t…

Hello Nicole I understand that you are in a difficult situation at the moment. It's not weird that the blood and pain make you feel better; pain releases endorphins in your brain that have an effect similar to that of drugs, sex and alcohol; stress relief. However, all of those things, including cutting, have far more negative points than positive points...the worst of which are the fact that they are addictive. Yes, self-harm is addictive, because the momentary break from the stress of life tha…