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I have a sister who is younger, we used to fight all of the time, but we seem to have called a truce at the moment ;)

Wow, you're really having a rough time of it. I am sorry all this is happening to you at the moment. It must be hard to know what to deal with first. Firstly, I am sorry about your relationship. Obviously you took the decision to end it, so it can't have been working out for you. I am sure that was the best decision to make, if you're not happy, there's no point in dragging it out for longer. So, you probably did the right thing. I am sure you feel really down at the moment, but you will slowly …

I'm really sorry to hear about your loss. I know that nothing I say to you will probably help, but please, try to remember the good times and the fun you both had. I am a firm believer that when loved one's die, they don't ever leave us. They are with us always, that voice in the back of your mind, it's those who are trying to help, steer us in the right direction. I am sure he was a good friend, and he wouldn't want you to sit around and be sad for the rest of your life. He would want you to ge…

It's common for guys to bleed a little from their penis when they have sex for the first time. There is a thin piece of skin, that attaches on to the foreskin and sometimes, you tear it during your first time. And it bleeds. So, it could have been that

I tried to this morning but couldn't keep the naked image of Angela Landsbury in my mind long enough

This is one of those topics that will always divide opinion. If the thought of it is gross, which to many it is, then it's something they will never agree with. However, it does happen, and people do sleep with their brothers or sisters. I prefer to not pass judgement, as I don't think it's for me to place any judgement on someone who gets something out of it. As others have said, it could be argued that it's a safe environment, and that you're learning and experimenting as you go along. There a…

Sometimes they work and sometimes they don't. But then again, the same can be said for normal relationships, so there's little difference. It's going to depend on trust, honesty and communication. Get prepared for it. If he's going to be 400 mile away, how are you going to keep in touch? What deals can you do to enable you to talk cheaply, or free? If you both have laptops, or pc's, you can get on Skype and talk for free. So that would be handy for you. Make sure you can both text as much as you…

As with all dates, you did the hard part by asking. And it's never easy, because you do leave yourself open to rejection, which nobody likes, and it's hard. The fact she was busy could have been genuine, so you will know by the reply to your new suggested day if it's going to work out or not. If she happens to be busy again, then maybe you need to take that as a sign she's letting you down gently. I agree, it does sound like regret in what she said, so it's a good sign.

That all sounds hopeful, so you need to take it to the next stage now. Why not ask her out, maybe to the cinema or just out for a walk, anything, but you need to act. Don't spend weeks and weeks trying to be brave, as that could be disaster, someone else might beat you to it. deep breath, call or text, and ask her out. And I am sure she will say yes. And then you're on your way :)

I think it's possible it could have been a work colleague, but why is she answering his phone, and why is she there at 1.30am? And the condoms, well if you don't use them, why does he have any? I think when you look at both those at the same time, you have to be honest to yourself and think that maybe something is going on that is not good. I suggest you sit and talk to him, as soon as you can, and ask him to be totally honest and open with you. If you can, and you know where he lives, why not s…

The key point here is that she doesn't think it would be the same if you met, or lived in the same place. And I am wondering if that's maybe a way of telling you that she loves having an online friend, but doesn't want anything more. When you're with someone, or around someone, and you get on really well, there's a danger that you might think it could lead to something else. Maybe not. But it could happen. At the moment, you have different lives, you have lots to talk about and you seem to have …

Nobody on this forum can tell you what sexuality you are. That's something you're going to have to work out for yourself. But looking at what happened, and what's gone on in the past, it does sound like you have some bisexual tendencies, even if you don't think you're a lesbian. Sexuality is quite a fluid thing, especially as we get older, and it changes for some people a few times. You say you enjoy boyfriends and the sex that goes with it, and you didn't stop what happened with your friend, so…

I think you're over-stressing about this. When you were acting straight, did you spend every day worrying about which girls can you approach? Are they straight or lesbian? No. You just noticed someone, who caught your eye, and approached them if and when you felt confident enough. And nothing has changed. You will notice people, and you will have to use your intuition and common sense, you will soon realise if it's worth progressing or not. One of the best things you can do is be open and honest…

The fact that you have said you're good friends is making me lean to the answer no. Mainly because, if she's been with or asked 4 guys out in recent times, it seems she doesn't really know what she wants out of the relationship. And that could threaten your friendship. Let's face it, when something ends, you always say you will stay friends, but it never happens, and you end up not talking. So, the question you will have to ask yourself is, is it worth losing her as a friend if it doesn't work o…

That's really well written, and I totally agree with everything you have said. Sadly, we all will have to go through break ups at some point in our lives, and whilst initially it can feel like your whole world is crashing, time is a great healer, and soon, you will be back on your feet again.

I don't know of any medications that can make you taller, sadly. I think with certain things, like height, you have to sort of be resented to the fact you can't change it. But what does it matter? I don't think you're too short, and there are millions of people shorter than you. And what does height matter anyway? It's what is inside that matters, so don't let it get you down

You can't be too tough on yourself over this. I know you made a 'promise', but sometimes, we all have weak days and you must have slipped into a weak day. I can understand you feeling really down and probably angry at yourself for slipping, but you know, tomorrow is another day. And so, you can start again tomorrow. And hopefully, you will be able to stick to it again this time. I think God has a very forgiving nature, it's not like you hurt anyone or anything, so try and keep it in perspective.…