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  • What would you do?

    jess - - Friends and Family

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    Most of my friends are my age but 1 of them is 2 years older than me so she just turned 19. Now I'll admit I'm not perfect, I smoke cigs, I have already done the drinking thing, and I have tried bud but nothing major and my friends have done it with me. Recently my oldest friend has graduated to hallucinogens and that is not my thing, I have tried to ask her to stop but she has no desire to. She brings it with her when she hangs out which I would prefer she didn't, it's not that she tries to for…

  • Help!

    jess - - Friends and Family

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    I'm one of those girls that has always gotten along better with guys than with girls but I do have 3 female friends, two I have been friends with since I was 6 and the other one has only been for the last few years. Here is the problem one of my friends likes 2 different guys and because one of them is one of my guy friends she wants me to talk to him for her. Normally I have no problem doing this but this guy has been hurt a lot in the past and the last thing I want to do is be one of the reaso…

  • Re: friends or enemies?????

    jess - - General Advice

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    Do yourself a favor, ditch your friends because they obviously don’t care for you, and only want you around as their whipping post. There is no reason you should have to feel put down or that they are better than you are. True friends don't use status over other friends, even if the status is only in their head. Hang out with people you like, you don't have to be mean to the girls you don't like but there is no need to be buddy-buddy.

  • Well at my age, you tend to get into trouble you would not get into when you are 13. My mom blames my bf for everything I do wrong, she says she is a bad influence on me and tells me repeatedly not to hang out with her. I assume that my mother must know better because I do not disown friends and she knows it. One week, I will be grounded from hanging out the next weekend I will tell mom where I'm going and she'll just look at me, she never says anything until the next time we get in trouble toge…

  • It's not something that would be wrong but have you thought about the consequences of having a male friend especially when your husband isn't in town. Any time you feel lonely you may immediately run to him, which in turn could be a major disaster for your marriage especially if the friendship develops into more because of loneliness. My thoughts would be to try and find a female friend but who says I know anything?

  • I could not even fathom what it would be like to be a vegetarian. I like so few vegetables that I will only eat certain ones, to have to eat them all day long would kill me. I’ll take red meat any day over tofu, yuck!

  • Here is my problem. I have a boyfriend and am in what until recently I though was love. We had a new guy come into class last week and something happened to me, I can’t really explain it but it was like this wave of emotion just came over me. I tried to ignore it and continue to go on with class but he kept looking at me as if he knew me or something. I swear if I wasn’t so young I would think that I had found my solumate. We have been talking everyday after school and hanging out, nothing physi…

  • Re: Problem

    jess - - Dating and Relationship Advice

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    Cessy is right, if you don't tell your parents and they find out through some other channel you are both going to be in a world of hurt and it may not even have to do with their disapproval but their hurt because neither of you felt you could go to them. Don't let something like this destroy your family and the relationship you may have with your cousin.

  • I understand what you are going through and if you want to break up with him then you need to. There are reasons he wants you around and none of them have to do with love. He is playing a control game with you and right now, he's winning, in order for him to lose you need to take back full control of your life. Leopards don't change their spots, sorry but it's true. Even if he did "CHANGE" how will you able be able to get past it in your mind. Can you forgive him for the cheating and the abuse? …

  • I think it depends, with my best friend of 10 years we have gotten into plenty of trouble together and I will defend her to the very end. With someone who is new then I might take a step back and try to figure out if there is something my parents see that I don’t, if I can find no good reason for their disapproval then I will defend as much as needed.

  • Jason Statham is gorgeous and he was absolutely incredible in snatch, lock stock, crank and both transporter films. I have to say that right now I am infatuated with Wentworth Miller, he plays Michael Scofield on Prison Break (TV show). I think he has the potential to break out on the big screen as well.

  • I have not seen the inconvenient truth yet but I heard it was supposed to really open the worlds' eyes to the irreparable damage we are causing and what it is going to have on the earth in the end. Who knows when the world will end but imo, I think it will be long after we are all dead.

  • I don't think that is the case, I'm sure that many girls have had the opportunity and didn't do it. I would not say it is a matter of dignity so much as a matter of waiting for what we feel is the right time. Opportunity arises constantly, not everyone chooses to take it.

  • Re: Problem

    jess - - Dating and Relationship Advice

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    With no blood relations between you will not need to worry if things continue to get physical. The things you are both going to need to address are your families. Although there is blood, you should discuss it with them to see how they feel, if you do not want to tell them, say it is a friends’ situation and your friend is worried how their parents will react and asked for your advice.

  • Re: Is It Ok

    jess - - Friends and Family

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    Why would you even ask that type of question? Is it ok to go fag bashing through the forum? No, so why would you do it in public where you run the risk of not only hurting others but catastrophic results for yourself and possibly the rest of your life. Do you have a conscience, if the answer to that is no than go for it, if the answer in yes then think twice before doing anything so rash and destructive.

  • No, it's not wrong to date outside your race but unfortunately you will have to take shit from society as a whole. The sooner you prepare yourselves for that the better your life will be. Never let it get you down and remember that your love is stronger than the fight you will have to endure.

  • Re: Child marriage

    jess - - Debate and Discussions

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    Most young marriages do not end well due to the fact that when you are that young you really don't know what love is. The marriage may start out great and last quite a while (in my parents’ case 23 years) but eventually someone realizes they were never in love with the other person and it usually ends in heartache. Everyone is entitled to make their own mistake but kids should not be getting married unless they have at least finished high school.

  • Re: Backstabbing best friend?

    jess - - General Advice

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    Let me be blunt here, FORGET THEM! Girls like this are not going to be long-term friends, if they were than they would be happy for you. They are not concerned with you or your happiness they only care about themselves. Their problem is that since you have a bf they are no longer the center of your universe, call it jealousy if you would like. Those are the type of friends that you will never be able to count on when it comes down to something of importance.

  • The only problem with that is Tea has more caffeine in it then coffee which is one of the reasons it works so well on migraines. Lots of caffeine consumption especially in females can cause cysts and other health problems. If you get migraines, the best thing to do is go to your doctor and you neurologist, which I have been doing since I was 12. Everyday there is a better med for it, there are also over the counter meds that will work.

  • I won't be like everyone else and tell you it's obvious because in most cases it is not that simple. If you assume she is ready for sex without talking to her about it then you can destroy the whole relationship. Hang out with her, make out and see where it goes. Have protection cause I'm sure neither of you are planning on children. Go slow and stop if she doesn't want to. Never act disappointed it makes the girl feel like shit and be respectful. Good Luck.