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I used to tell him about my day, ask him about various things : basically trying to have a different conversation than "hey how are you, wyd ?" When I don't do that, I notice he doesn't do anything, all he does is send "stickers" and now that we argued, he doesn't do that anymore. He talks to me normally, but won't try to know anything about me. This week I've been the one showing marks of affection the most and I've always been doing it, except when I'm not doing well and need some alone time (…

Hey, So I've been dating someone for 3 months now. We've not been together for a long time and things are already getting difficult. My last relationship didn't make it easier : my ex was emotionally abusive, and harassed me even after I definitely broke up with me. Now, with my current boyfriend, I still feel insecure. At first, everything was fine. He's a kind person and he tries to be understanding. But still, there are things that ended up making me more insecure : I have depression, and hav…

Hi, so I need your help with this : I've been dating this guy for over a month. I like him a lot, but the thing is, I think I'm dependant I already was in my previous relationship (my ex boyfriend emotionally abused me) and now I'm even more scared that what happened with my ex will happen with my current boyfriend.. when we're together, he's really sweet, but I can't help but notice every little change. For example, before we started dating, we used to send quite long text, because we had a lot…

Quote from naturelover-VT: “I am not a lawyer, but i would say it is not abuse. you did not say "no" and you did not object to it. But it would be a sexual compulsion. ” I don't see how it would be sexual compulsion though..

Thank you guys for all your replies, don't worry, I've already left him a few months ago, but it's just that it's still kinda hard to think about what happened, I always felt guilty forcing myself to do this with him, until I realized I was manipulated into doing this

I was wondering... Is it considered as sexual abuse if you didn't want to have sexual intercourse but still said yes, because you didn't want to hurt the other person's feelings/ruin the mood ? the relationship in itself was toxic and abusive : he yelled at me, guilt tripped me, tried to isolate me from most of my friends, acted distant almost all the time etc etc.. when we had sex, it was almost always painful, but still we did it every time we saw each other (once a week) because I thought tha…

Ok so I don't know what to do Today, I saw him bc we had to work for our group project (we are four in this group, my crush, his friend, another girl and me). We had to see each other at the work café of our school. At first it was just him, his friend and me. We sat at a table outside t, waiting for the girl to come (we all knew each other from last year btw). I was so embarrassed, at first we said nothing and I was like, looking at him, and then he looked at me so I looked away, before looking…

Well, I don't know, because we're not that close. But I texted him yesterday to ask him if he could send me a lesson that I missed bc I was sick, he replied a few hours later, telling me he would send the lesson to me tomorrow. But it's been a day now, and he still hasn't said anything, so I can't even try to continue the conversation or something ><

A little update (again) : Well we didn't talk much since I last talked here. We created a group chat to work on our project, so I also have his number now. The day before yesterday, I saw him in class. When the class was finished, I had to meet other people to prepare an oral presentation. So we had to go separate ways. I said bye to him and his friend and walked to the patio that was leading to a work cafe, where I was supposed to meet these people. The door was closed so I didn't know how to g…

Okay, thanks I'll try, even though I don't know if I'll be able to see him again by the end of the week

I think imagining him naked would make more nervous haha A little update : He got my number now. We were having a lecture yesterday afternoon and I saw him (he doesn't always come because we have the option to follow the lectures from home). When we had a break, we said hi to each other, and a little later I managed to talk to him about our group project. I told him it would be better to make a groupchat so we could discuss how we'd organize for our project. He wanted me to write his phone numbe…

I got 63 and I'm 19

Thanks for your reply I'll do my best to get closer to him during our group project. But I don't know if there's a possibility he's interested in me, because he looks like he's a pretty confident person, that's why I'm not too sure.. But I'll try to talk to him more and see if this works out anyways

Hi there, I'm 19 and would need some advice. I like a guy from my school, we were in the same class last year, but now we have only one class in common. Last year, we did talk from time to time (it was just the both of us, we weren't with other people), even though our exchanges were limited because of covid). Now when we see each other, we do talk a little bit, but I'm literally at a loss of words everytime I'm around him. I managed to ask him if we could work together for a group project (he a…