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Quote from Sean2001: “Giving the benefit of the doubt that this is not a huge wind-up, the situation described here is seriously messed up. Pre-natal paternity testing is apparently possible without risk as it compares genetic markers in the mothers blood with DNA from the possible father. I don't know how much it costs in the UK or if there are specific circumstances in which you can get it done without charge, for example on the NHS. One way of another, if the mother to be wants to keep the ba…

Quote from Sean2001: “Giving the benefit of the doubt that this is not a huge wind-up, the situation described here is seriously messed up. Pre-natal paternity testing is apparently possible without risk as it compares genetic markers in the mothers blood with DNA from the possible father. I don't know how much it costs in the UK or if there are specific circumstances in which you can get it done without charge, for example on the NHS. One way of another, if the mother to be wants to keep the ba…

Quote from collin13: “Quote from DannyYoung95: “Quote from collin13: “This is the most convoluted, messed up thread I've ever seen on TH and that's saying something!!!! I'm not following any of this, and I don't think I want to. Determine if the baby is yours. If not, move on. If so, find out what she expects and wants out of you. I guess I'm stuck on the fact that if having sex with a girl that you should be prepared to accept any consequences of contraceptive failure, if you are smart enough t…

Quote from Eilae: “Quote from BlackParadePixie: “Quote from Eilae: “ngl this a bs thread ffs ifykyk rofl ” LOL WHAT??? ” Just teasing it just seems so over the top the way he talks ” Fucking wish it was all bs trust me

Phones bout to die n I don’t have a charger with me rn (just got to training n forgot to charge my phone before I left work ffs). But I’ll try n keep u all updated the more I know/hear about it all dw, n if any of u have any ideas u think might help me, my ex or the baby plssssss let me know cos my long time friends (who know what she’s like) are just telling me to forget bout her n how she’s lying bout it all… But I can’t just “forget” bout a possible kid I have or bout a kid who’s gonna be gro…

Quote from ChrisC05: “Quote from DannyYoung95: “ ” collin13 wrote:Your first obligation is to the child whether it is or is not your child , you need to make sure it is brought into world under safe conditions. If in deed the girl and her current bf are living the way your described then you need to take every step towards ensuring the baby will be safe by calling in a well fair check on them explaining your concerns, giving the mother a chance to turn her life around before the baby is born. ” …

Quote from pahern0317: “I sure don't want to dwell on this anymore. Everyone should learn about contraception before engaging. Notice my choice of language. Then, safely using and proper disposal of contraceptives after the fact. None of us need to or want to know details. if this young girl is pregnant, that is a tragedy. A baby will be born to two young immature parents who both should have used birth control. ” said it in my last reply but ik that condoms aren’t a 100% safe way to have sex bu…

Quote from Laws: “I was bored right now so I just randomly decided to actually take time to read a lot of the above. There's something I'd like to say about this now. The way you said how you deal with sex especially regarding condoms sounded way too confident. No condom is truly perfect at its job. They're only roughly 87 – 98% effective depending on who you ask, how often and how well you use them. Not to mention that if you aren't lucky pre-cum itself can contain literal sperm on occasion. Th…

Quote from collin13: “This is the most convoluted, messed up thread I've ever seen on TH and that's saying something!!!! I'm not following any of this, and I don't think I want to. Determine if the baby is yours. If not, move on. If so, find out what she expects and wants out of you. I guess I'm stuck on the fact that if having sex with a girl that you should be prepared to accept any consequences of contraceptive failure, if you are smart enough to use them in the first place. Guess I'm lucky b…

Quote from Gabraham247: “Quote from pahern0317: “There are ways to phrase a question that describes something without using f bombs. ” Ya reading the OP was almost like reading the bathroom stall wall in a boys bathroom at a park lol. So many f-bombs and graphic description about where he cummed. It almost made me blush, and not much can make me blush. A lot of lmaos and lmfaos too in the follow ups. You'd nearly think this isnt a big deal. But actually pregnancy, and motherhood, and fatherhood,…

N then her ex came back in with his much “needed” alcohol n saw her hugging me n crying n he got her off of me n shoved me n asked wtf I’d done to make her cry, n he was getting in my face n screaming at me n the lot (baring in mind I’ve done boxing since I was 9 n he’s done drugs for about the same amount of time lmfao…). N it took e v e r y ounce of mental strength for me to not just throw 1 gd punch to his jaw n make him go night night (which id never ever do in front of my ex, especially not…

Got an update for you all btw, grab a snack, sit back, relax, n enjoy the fucked up story of my day yesterday lmfao… Went to see my ex yesterday n I took a couple pregnancy tests there with me, n I had her do it right in front of me (didn’t tell her bout me making her do a test before hand so she didnt have chance to get 1 of those fake ones that say she’s pregnant even if she isn’t yk???), n she did it literally right in front of me in the bathroom n then left it on the side for a few mins… And…

Quote from BJade: “There's just way to many problems everyone involved in this has. Cheating, lying and a complete lack of anyone grown up enough to actually look after a baby when it born. Kinda sad If she is pregnant, who ever the kids father is, she needs a proper grown up to look after her and help her deal with it. buy not sure there sounds like there is ” Told her EXACTLY this!! Like, yeah I swear a lot and things like that… But if I had the choice I’d much rather have a kid with someone w…

Quote from Laws: “Well Danny I hope the situation works out for you some way in the end. This is some pretty serious stuff. hoping for the best for ya ” lmao tell me bout it man.. Fucking sucks tbh, didn’t wanna have a kid rn yk? Want 1 in the future . Just not now ffs.. N if it is mine then ofc Imma be there for the kid n everything like that, get it whatever it needs, be there for them as much as possible etc etc etc yk? Just REALLY don’t wanna have anything to do with her no more ffssss.. Jus…

Quote from Eilae: “Quote from DannyYoung95: “Quote from Laws: “Quote from Eilae: “Why does it upset you that she cheated with a white boy? Aren’t you white? ” His bio says he's white but according to his post he's apparently not.What in the bloody heck. ” said it to some1 else but my mothers white n dad is/was black lmao, couldn’t see a mixed thing on my profile when I was setting it up real quick but I found it a sec ago n fixed it seen as ppl seem to have such a big issue with it lmfao, really…

Quote from jamesfocus: “This sounds like something on jerry springer ” lmfao yup Welcome to my crazy ass life ffs lmao

Quote from Laws: “Quote from Eilae: “Why does it upset you that she cheated with a white boy? Aren’t you white? ” His bio says he's white but according to his post he's apparently not. What in the bloody heck. ” said it to some1 else but my mothers white n dad is/was black lmao, couldn’t see a mixed thing on my profile when I was setting it up real quick but I found it a sec ago n fixed it seen as ppl seem to have such a big issue with it lmfao, really doesn’t matter at all tbh but yeah, hope ur…

Quote from Durango: “Quote from BlackParadePixie: “so wait, I don't undrrstand....if you broke up with her 3 months ago and haven't had sex with her since....there's no possible way the kid is yours... ” Well, he never actually says how far along she (allegedly) is in the pregnancy, at least nowhere that I saw in the post, unless I'm missing something here. So maybe that's why he's worried - if there's a chance she's at least 3 months along? So Danny, my advice is this: First, insist on proof th…

Quote from Eilae: “Sounds like it couldn’t be yours Why does it upset you that she cheated with a white boy? Aren’t you white? ” lmao nah my mum is but my dad isn’t/wasn’t (idfk). Couldn’t find the mixed thing in setting when doing it so I just picked white lmfao, fixed it now tho dw

Quote from Laws: “When was the last time you and her had sex? If you haven't done it since you all broke up, like BlackParadePixie said there's no way you could really be the dad, although unless she's been pregnant for months and she just now breaks the news to you. ” said it to her just now but bout a week after we split n then nothing since lmao, she’s been pregnant for lil over 3 month tho apparently. Just never told me til then lol