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Quote from firstsleep: “Well it would depend on the age of the guys you connect with. Mostly when one looks for a father figure, they tend to befriend older men in hopes they can fill that void but if you mean folks your own age then I suppose it's you trying to fufill the sort of "best friend" role a father has in a younger boys. It more depends on your outlook however on what you view them as in your connection. Emotionally connected to guys is nothing strange, it just means you feel more open…

I find myself emotionally drawn to guys. I mean, I love women, I do, and to date, I've only had sex with women. I manage to keep my emotions in males, and sexual desires in females...but it's gettin to the point where I'm tired of "managing". For those wondering why, it's because I have never identified as gay, because I'm not...I don't have a real urge to have sex with men. Plus, my family would flip out, lol. But it's like, I find myself just emotionally connected to guys, not girls...It's str…

Quote from Cj: “i fell for my best friends 5 years ago, we had a 4 year relationship, it was beautiful, we're still best friends.” Ah..I envy you...I coulda spent the rest of my life broke and homeless with my ex best friend and I woulda been the happiest person ever...but it did not end well, lol.:(

Quote from mazda3luver: “Ok, so I've known one of my best friends since about 5th grade, but it has just been since last summer that we have really started to hang out and get to know eachother. He is such an awesome person and we both love hanging out with eachother. We are both guys by the way. What is strange is how I feel around him and how he affects me. I mean, whenever I am hanging out with him or talking to him, I just feel important and happy and just love being with him. Whenever I tal…

Quote from Paramore1264: “Awh. Honestly, you don't seem Bisexual to me...” Thank you for your input. It was possibly the weirdest situation ever.

Quote from AmandaH.: “I don't think you're bi. You only find men attractive but you would never want to have sex with them like you would with women. Maybe you went through a period of being bi curious but i don't beleive you're bi. I think you're straight. but it wouldn't matter if you were, its just a label.” Thank you for that, it's nice to know some people get it...but it's not that I find men attractive, I just mean that I'm not one of those guys who can't say that a man is attractive or no…

Quote from giggity: “You might be bi-curious?” Ugh..his dumb ex-girlfriend asked me that ACCUSINGLY before...I don't think so I don't want to sleep with guys, I'm just definitely more inclined to become emotionally involved with them than a woman. But I'll have sex with a girl no problem to fulfill that need, but it still sucks not being able to connect emotionally when you are doing so physically.

Quote from adamEcstacy: “Look, don't try to conform to labels, and don't worry about them. I don't think you're bisexual, I think you're straight. Honestly, you can love people of the same gender without wanting anything sexually out of them. You're just a good person and definitely a great friend. You can care about him emotionally without going any further than that, and that's cool. You sort of remind me of "The Perks of Being a Wallflower." You match the main character pretty well, I think.”…

First, let me make one thing clear. I LOVE women. I think they are among the greatest creations on this Earth. I have had one girlfriend in my life, but we have broken up. I have been genuinely in love with 5 girls in my short lifetime (I'm 18). So I know I am at least straight. Now, I had this friend who was my number one for anything, he was basically my best friend. We don't talk anymore. Well, I met him in 7th grade and over the course of middle school we became really close. I n high school…

I have. It was really surreal because I'm 18 and outta high school, and I honestly have never drank or smoked anything..basically clean as a whistle to this day, but I started cutting myself recently..It was really strange, bu it is a total control issue for me. I can't control what's going on around me, but I can control what I do to myself. I feel a little ridiculous because I also know it's because I want attention..and I'm 18, not 8, so I feel really moronic. It gets kind of addicting, thoug…

I like so many artists and music from Coldplay to Lily Allen to Aaliyah...I'll always be stuck in the 90's though, so..