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  • Wow, you don't sound full of yourself at all.

  • Re: Transgender Question

    Swiftdragonfly - - LGBT

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    Dude, if you're sure that you're a dude, then I suggest either dressing more boyish and easing your friends and family into it, or coming out all at once. Tell some of your closest friends first, and then after they get used to it, start telling more and more people. It takes a while getting used to being called, looked at, and talked to in a new and different way and fashion. When I came out as gay, it took a while to get used to everyone knowing. I wish you luck. Coming out as transgender is s…

  • Re: accepting that you're gay

    Swiftdragonfly - - LGBT

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    It didn't take me that long to accept, just a while to get used to. Like, when I first realized it, I was like, "sweet! I'm gay!" And then after time.... "sweet, I'm gay! ... oh, people don't like me because of that... awkwaaard..."

  • So... for me, relationships don't last long. Most of the time it's because the people I date go psychotic. However because the only relationship I've ever had was with a dude for two months, I don't want to have another short dinky little relationship. But.... I dunno. This girl I'm dating is driving me up the wall. There are three things that are bugging me the most. 1. She lives fairly far away, so we communicate mostly through facebook, and for some odd reason, she feels the urge to befriend …

  • Huh. I asked because when I was younger, I had imagined marrying a woman, and today still can't imagine being with a man. It's just an interesting little thing I was thinking of a while ago. When I was younger I didn't really know about gay people... but I just assumed that there were some, but they just weren't that common and I never thought much of it. Randomness.

  • Re: am i a wierd gay?

    Swiftdragonfly - - LGBT

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    You're an individual with certain tastes. Nothin wrong with that.

  • It may just take some time for them to get used to you. I recommend trying to make polite conversation with them from time to time, not gay related, and show them over time that sexual orientation really doesn't matter, without forcing the issue. If they don't come around, just forget them.

  • Re: 14 and curious

    Swiftdragonfly - - LGBT

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    I recommend asking around your school to see if any girls are 'out' or also experimenting. Some girls use their friends to see what happens. If you really want to experiment, that is. Just observing yourself around women is a good way to figure out what your sexual orientation is. That's part of how I realized I was gay... that and not liking dudes. haha.

  • Flirted with my girlfriend over fb.

  • Age: 17 # of Relationships: 6 Longest Relationship: 2 months Shortest Relationship: 3 days

  • I believe my friend may be in an abusive relationship, but beside the constant warnings me and a friend give her, she will not pull through in breaking up with her. (I will use code names Kelly (my friend) and Sally (her girlfriend)). Sally has extreme jealous tenancies, flirts with other people (both genders, her Kelly's close friends), limits Kelly's time with her friends, Sally threatens to cut herself if Kelly leaves her, accuses my friend of certain stereotypes based solely on facebook phot…

  • Re: Fetishes??

    Swiftdragonfly - - Teen Sexuality

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    Pain, accents, and a nice rack.

  • Re: crossdressing

    Swiftdragonfly - - LGBT

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    I LOVE people that aren't afraid of cross-dressing, no matter what their gender or sexual orientation is. It's a ridiculous and stupid stereotype that men can only wear 'manly clothes' and girls can only wear dresses and 'pretty' clothing. Personally I love dressing in guyish clothing and can't classify my style as feminine or butch. If you can handle the way people will react, go for it, dude!

  • Before you knew you were gay, or even bi, did you imagine yourself marrying/having a serious relationship with someone of the opposite gender in the future? or did you always go for the same sex?

  • Re: Can you know just by kissing?

    Swiftdragonfly - - LGBT

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    Quote from Pallas: “tl;dr You gay bro?” Gay or bi... not sure if people know their sexuality by having relationships, or by having a simple make out

  • Re: I experimented with a friend..

    Swiftdragonfly - - LGBT

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    Go with the flow, man. If you're having fun, don't worry about it.

  • I am who I am, I don't care what others think. Screw being straight- flying in a rainbow sky of love and acceptance is more exciting.

  • Read yuri.

  • Can you know just by kissing?

    Swiftdragonfly - - LGBT

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    So, basically, I know I like girls. Girls are hot, I connect with them emotionally, etc. However, I'm in high school and being gay isn't exactly popular, so I figured that while none of the girls I'm interesting in are bisexual or lesbian, I might as well experiment with the other gender. Although men are generally ass holes and not my cup of tea... not all of them are too bad. Plus, since i haven't dated many, I can conclude once and for all and be COMPLETELY sure of my sexuality. While everyth…

  • Re: your first gay act

    Swiftdragonfly - - Gay

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    Girl scouts. 6th grade. Kissed her 'by accident'. Short but sweet.