I think u`re right at such situation. So don`t hesitate and don`t pay attention to them. Try to talk to the girl. She have to explaine everything them all.:)
My relations with uncles and aunts are also very hard. So I don`t care. I live without them. I have enough friends and I think I`m happy. Also I have nice relations with my parents.
My friend (girl) had a lot of scandals at home with her mother. During some weeks! She was in shock! But once during the scandal she asked her mum DO U LOVE ME AT ALL? !! And they began to talk about it.They were crying both.. So they don`t have scandals now. I think her mum understood she can ask and tell everything with other ways.
encouraging... They know-i do it, so it`s impossible to change me. But I can drink at home... They don`t like it but they don`t say about it. They don`t forbid. So I think-they allow.