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Quote from Shadow-Koumajutsu: “I'm for it. I'd never be in one because it disagrees with my personal morals, but if everyone is consenting, and it's not negatively affecting me, there's nothing wrong with it. Only a bigot would have problems with other people taking part in polyamorous relationships.” What I was saying, again! I love you.

Quote from Shadow-Koumajutsu: “Yes, I do plan on spanking my children. But there IS A DIFFERENCE between spanking and beating. Pain is the most natural - and usually most effective - way of teaching lessons on what you can and can't do. As someone else said, a dog puts its nose to a porcupine and gets poked. A child touches a hot stove and gets burnt. They learn not to do these things anymore. Plus, it's natural order for children to push their limits with their elders. If you simply send them t…

Quote from Rorei: “*Smiles proudly* Do I get a cookie? ^^” Yes, you get a cookie.

Quote from Rorei: “All right. Well, if the arguing is stopping, I suppose now would be a good time to share my dream about what my future life with children will be like... It was a cold and stormy night and I would've been soaked if not for the garage. After I carefully and diligently, as always, parked my car, I walked to the trunk and removed my catch, throwing it across my shoulder and walking inside effortlessly. This might be an unbearable task for a newbie, but I had been doing this for y…

I agree with AngelWings here, too. I do have to agree that it's your "right" to judge, I just think it's pointless to. It's not going to have an effect on anybody else.

Quote from Angelwings411: “Like I said, other people's religions are their business, not mine. They do what ever the hell they want, but I don't participate in that. And I'm sorry, but I wasn't around for the fucking crusades, so how the hell was I suppose to stop a war that happend 1000 years before my time?” I will apologize for this, I jumped to the conclusion that you were ignoring wars that had already happened because of your tone. And actually, this war in Iraq that's going on was STARTED…

Quote from omfgidc: “It was sarcasm, dear. That may be true, but there are other ways. I don't believe spanking/hitting/anything associated with hurting a child should be used as a method. Ever. No matter how many different punishments you have to try before you find one that works well enough.” Maybe. Then again, they are going to be my children. I won't full out beat them, but they will know that actions have consequences. I guess I'm going to be more Machiavellian with my children. *shrug*

Quote from omfgidc: “Amen” Because my dad made up all the times my grandpa whipped off his belt and beat him with it. Oh, and my best friend is COMPLETELY delusional that his father used to smack him around. Let's not forget my other friend, who's father has smacked her head into a table! Yep, she made that up entirely, along with her father's bipolar disorder.

Quote from Angelwings411: “If I'm not mistaken, God put us on here, giving us the free will to make our own choices. Religion has caused war? I live in America, and we seem to get along with religion and its diversities just fine. You don't see Catholics fighting the Hindus on your street do you? What other religions choose to do in other countries is there problem, but THEY are the ones abusing THEIR religion. My religion should not be abolished.” Because all religious wars are happening RIGHT …

Quote from omfgidc: “I said this where? rofl. I think it's fair that children get punished for bad behavior, and rewarded for good. That doesn't mean spanking. LOL. You really offended me. Just FYI.” I don't blindly apologize, so you're going to have to tell me how I offended you. If I'm actually sorry for it, you'll get an apology. What I was saying is that pain - even in the slightest - is often a natural teaching method for "stay away" or "don't do that again." A dog sticks its nose in a porc…

Quote from omfgidc: “So you get hurt when you do bad, and get a TREAT when you do good. Sorry, but they don't even compare in my opinion.” So...you get a reward when you do good and nothing happens when you do bad? Basically, you're teaching that nothing happens when they f*ck up and that they get bonus points for being good. Less controversial but also less effective. I'd also like to throw in for all those Christians out there that the Bible explicitly says, "Spare the rod, spoil the child." S…

But if we get rid of God, I won't have my 72 virgins to look forward after I commit mass murder and then kill myself!

I forgot to mention the Tag and red markers. Tag: Okay, it's a GAME. If the kids get their feelings hurt when playing it, just don't play it. It's called developing coping and social skills. Deal with it. Everything we do as children serves to help us as in some way. Going to school is to help prepare us and give us the skills for when we need to go out and get a job. No, this is not a new development, it's been like this since the beginning of human life. Example: Oog is a young boy in a nomadi…

I'd spank my kids. Obviously not every single day for every single offense, but a good spanking would work wonders on the bigger "no-nos" for a smaller child. Here's a story to show my reasoning: I was a brat as a child. A whiny, tantrum-throwing, screaming brat. Around Thanksgiving when I was three, I wanted to go to the toy store when my mom brought me to the mall. "Just to look!" I promised. Then I saw a toy I wanted. I threw a tantrum SO BAD that in her efforts to get me out of the mall and …

I'm totally fine with the concept. Think of it this way: In most "love triangle" situations, two corners love a third corner of this triangle. However, this is incredibly inaccurate, because it's more of a v. Rough Diagram. Johnny Fred blahV blaLizzie In a true love triangle, Johnny and Fred would also love each OTHER, therefore, all could be happy if they worked it out. But I digress. Anywho, polyamory will exist whether you think it's right or not. If you don't like it, don't participate; simp…