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I feel that I have said this many times to many people and is beginning to become my Polysporine. However, if you cannot communicate with your father without being yelled at or being called names, you have to have help or give up. If he will not support you, he is only holding you back from your future. Let go, and live your life the way you want to.

Turn it into your best birthday ever. Realize that you still have your mother, and she cares for you. Re-realize your love for each other, or, heaven forbid, find out why she is ignoring you if she is. If she feels badly about you, she probably still trusts you to change, which would be why she made the effort to make you the cake.

I feel that I am pushing on this too much, but it just keeps developing. I hope it will not be worse than this but... My mother wants to commit suicide. She said she would after the divorce is settled, openly. I do not plan to stop her, because I know what she has been going through for many, many years, and I only wish for her to be happy now. Should I be doing this? Should I support her just escaping from this horrible life? I know she will not be able to live with herself after this. I'd just…

Quote from handa711: “I've always known my family was poor, but I didn't know we're THIS poor. Almost anything valuable in our house is given to us from our relatives, even our house is not ours (we're living with my grandmother). A few days ago I overheard that my mom is in massive debts (if you can't earn money at least don't lose it! :mad:). But what make me truly sad is the fact that my father is totally indifferent about everything. He sits all day in front of the computer playing games and…

I think the obvious answer would be to hang out with your boyfriend a bit more if time allows it (with only him of course). I know the overseas thing will definitely make it tough, but just send more e-mails, MSN more, etc. Prove that you still maintain a special bond with him that you don't have with your other friends. It's tough to prove this because the conversation cannot be face to face, but try and make the effort. Unfortunately, I also agree with OnEMesSduPKiD. A long distance relationsh…

Quote from Jasmine: “I think you should do what's best for yourself. I don't think it's selfish of you to be concerned about your future. If you're not, who else is going to be? You have to make sure that you're doing what's right for you. If going into the Officer Cadet program is what you really want, and it's not just about the lack of money on your end, then go for it. Just make sure you know what it entails and that you're going to be okay with it. After all, it's your future and your life.…

Scenario: Mother and Father have constant verbal fights that can easily escalate to physical contact. Poor family. Mother refuses to believe anything Father says, automatically assuming whatever comes out of his mouth is a lie. Father says he has invested so much money in to a business for Mother, and Mother wishes to quit to get a labour job to have ready access to money. Mother is insistent to get what I assume is her revenge by aggravating the situation incessantly, and I am afraid that it wi…