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It can happen. Sometimes it takes time to realise that you're gay. Some people don't realise until they're in their late teens or twenties.

Don't worry too much about how you look. It's what's inside that matters most. But something you could do is to stand in front of the mirror and take a good look at yourself. Think about what you like about your appearance. And doing something like having your hair cut could be good too. Try a new style and see what you think. Hair is important in the way a girl looks to a lot of people. If you like the new cut then that'll make you feel better about your appearance.

Kevro and Tenris have given some good advice there. Something else you could do is listen to music. When I feel the need to cut I put Linkin Park's Numb on headphones as loud as I can on repeat until I feel a bit better. I'll then listen to some more of their songs on a lower volume. I wouldn't recommend listening to music on headphones too much but sometimes it's ok and it can help a lot. Here's the link to the song if you haven't heard it: [ame='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GfrIipujxfQ']YouT…

I would say to wait at least a year before you meet up properly. You here too often about girls who meet up with online boyfriends and it ending badly. So I'd wait longer. If in a year's time you're still serious then go ahead and have some fun together. But you can't know fully what a person's like over the internet. I love someone I've met on the internet and he's helped me a lot but we won't be meeting up anytime soon, even though we would like to. It's best to wait a bit.

This will be hard to do if you're shy but you need to actually tell him how you feel about him if you want him to be with you rather than this other girl. Or even just making an effort to talk to him more could help. Ask if he wants to have more of a relationship with you but don't force him into it or it could go wrong.

I can see her reasoning because as a parent she wants what's best for you but ignoring you isn't going to help either of you. I would suggest getting her to sit down and have a long talk about what you want to do in the future and how she can help you. If there's any more open days it would be good for you to go to them but it's your choice and your mum needs to know that. I'm sure she does want what's best for you but your views and hers on what that is are probably different and you need to di…

Quote from Saradactyl: “Hold on to that.” It's good to hear someone agree with me. A lot of the time I'll hear "Why don't you try it just once?" but I know that if I try it then the thought will always be there that I could do it again.

I haven't tried anything. I think it's easier not to get into that kind of thing if you don't even try it. I'd rather not fill my body with drugs that will just fuck up my body and my head.

12? You've got some guts to be open about it at that age. I haven't been yet. I'm too shy to actually ask anyone out. But in time I'd like to have a relationship with a girl.

It's not a choice at all. It's how you are born. The choice you have is whether or not you repress your sexuality, not whether you're straight, bi or gay. And to repress your sexuality will only cause you problems later on in life. I've seen it happen.

Quote from Divinity: “I'm right there with you. Coming out just doesn't seem worth it when homophobia is such a current issue. Atleast here in the bible belt >_>” Here it has nothing to do with religious attitudes. Most people round where I live either have no religion or are Christian but not strict about it. It's just the immaturity and close-mindedness that's the issue. And whether they mean to or not most people do treat you differently if you're not straight.

He might like you but be too embarrassed to say something. But you say you don't know if he'll keep in contact after you leave. So what have you got to lose by asking? If you don't say anything you'll probably regret it. Maybe bring the conversation round to being gay/bi and see his opinions on the subject. He might tell you right out or you might be able to guess more if he likes you.

Quote from sleeplessdays: “Um I don't swallow, but I don't think it would be an issue if I did and then we kissed. Tbh, why wouldn't you, if you expect us to swallow, why can't you?” You said it for me. I don't see anything wrong with it. It'd be a bit weird at first but not in a bad way.

Quote from Leenix: “Ends up she was playing with my heart. Bitch... Last night she said to some of my friends that she has no feelings for me. THEN WHY THE HELL EVEN KISS ME AND SPEND SO MUCH TIME WITH ME ON THE FIRST DATE? I'm gonna get back to this bitch hard.” First dates are just that, first dates. It doesn't mean you'll be spending more time with each other. Don't try and get back at her. She's not going to be going through an easy time. I doubt she really knew what she wanted the second ti…

If she was like that then it's probably best that you got it out in the open. Give her a chance to cool down and then speak to her face to face about it. It'll show her that you're sincere more than a text would.

Keeping Mum - My favourite film and brilliantly funny Monster-In-Law - Another favourite and also very funny

Everyone would be getting married for the wrong reasons. Not many people would actually wait. People would get married and divorced again all the time. That's if that happened now. If things stayed how they used to be then it'd just be normal for people and things wouldn't be a lot different to the first half of the 20th Century in that aspect.

How long ago was it? If it was a long time ago then I probably wouldn't but if it was more recently then maybe you should. If you feel the urge to again then try and talk to someone. Cutting quickly becomes a viscous circle that is hard to break so try not get caught in that circle. I never told anyone in real life. Eventually I decided I needed some help so I've been having counselling. I've been cutting myself a lot less since then. Talking really can help, even if you don't like to. Tell her …

Anything that I can identify with does it for me if I'm on the right mood. But Linkin Park's Numb is my favourite song whatever mood I'm in. It cheers me up when I'm down and other times it can make me cry. I Don't Want To Miss A Thing by Aerosmith can do that too.

Someone gave me some good advice the other day. This is what he said: And a little grey-haired advice: Go out of your way to try to get rejected. It may hurt a bit, but you'll quickly sort out who you want around you, who supports you, and who you fit with. Take a risk, it'll come quickly enough. I think he makes a good point and it's something I'm going to try. Try it with your boyfriend. Do things that he might not agree but are what YOU would do being yourself. Tell him that you don't want to…