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sounds disgusting.

just curious - how old is your boyfriend? you really shouldn't hold back your displeasure over it. you shouldn't be in a relationship constantly worried he's going to break up with you over every little thing, that's pointless. to me, it sounds like he's just your typical pre-angsty, hormonal teenage boy, and he may be right: maybe you are too young for this. if you aren't ready to do sexy stuff, say it. if you really don't want to talk dirty or have sex, you're going to have to say something to…

that sucks. whoever said the thing about the mediator sounds like your only hope, i think. bring someone into the picture, possibly someone that is more understanding that maybe can "reason" with your parents, but also someone your parents respect - do you have anyone like that? a family friend? your parents should listen to you sometimes. even if they don't trust you, they should hear you out, and you should tell them that it's their responsibility as your parent to at least let you have a voic…

well, those who are really, truly against homosexuality don't find it more forgiving either way, but yeah, i think some kind of double-standard does exist. i think it's been harder for guys to break out of the old-fashion "manly man" mold that they were expected to live up to like 50 years ago. woman seem to have an easier time of it. when a woman does things that was once considered "a man's job" (ex: run for President) she's commended and respected. but if a man does a woman's job, he's a siss…

Quote from David!: “Old joke is old.” except it's not a joke...

while masturbating isn't wrong or bad, it seems unhealthy you do it this much, especially if it makes you feel worse after. masturbation can be a great way to relieve stress and emotions, but if it's making you feel like shit, you've got a problem. are you always horny when you do it, or is it like an addiction? my advice is maybe you should try to get up and keep yourself pre-occupied when you get the urge next.

do her a favor and please dump this girl so she no longer has to put up with a player. she'll be better in the long run.

apart from quirks and fantasies, i think most girls like guys that are confident - but not arrogant. guys who can be goofy and laugh at themselves. and no mixed signals! boys that play head games suck.

the unfortunate thing is, even if you guys break up tomorrow to "save" the friendship, it's probably never going to be the same again. that's what happens when you date someone that is your friend, especially if your feelings are really that strong. you could try talking to him about it - but if he just blows it off, or shrugs it off, then he's probably not ready for the kind of relationship you want. you should say that to him, straight up. something like, "i feel like you don't want this the w…

depends on the girl. some girls are shy as hell and will avoid eye contact, but if she makes a point to avoid you that usually means something. i think, if anything, most girls that have a crush on a boy will make any attempt at all to be near them.

chances are, yes. he probably did.

yellow!

i don't see what's so bad about telling your good friends you kissed a guy though, it's only natural you would! you should have asked him why he was asking.

it'd only be stalker if you like, stood outside her window at night while she brushed her hair or something. i think everyone here is guilty of "watching" their crush, though. innocently, i mean. if i were to find out a guy i knew was doing that, i'd think it was cute, no creepy. i think it'd only be creepy if you found out what she liked and then started looking up stuff on it so you could pretend to like it and impress her. that'd be kind of weird.

i remember reading somewhere that girls attempt suicide more than boys do, but boys usually follow through with suicide more than girls do. i honestly believe (and i think this is statistically proven) that most suicide attempts are cries for attention. except, i hate it when people say "oh, she just wants an attention, she's an attention whore." what's wrong with wanting attention? you have no idea what the person is feeling or going through. i think if everyone made more of an attempt to liste…

it's hard to say. she could be shy, she could be worried what others will think, she could not want to get involved. but yeah, it kind of sounds like she likes hanging out with you when she doesn't have anything better to do. no offense. that's not worth it, anyway. i'd keep your distance if i were you, at least for the time being. if she really likes you, she'll probably make some effort to talk to you again. if not, she's probably a bitch. good luck.

haha @ "meat". that was a funny typo. seriously, though, i think it'd be pretty easy to find fat old woman. they make up like 99% of America. have fun!

the last thing you should do is ask an open forum what to write. write what you're thinking, from the heart, and all that bullshit. good luck!

i agree with Jenna! you could say, "oh, nice shirt." or something. it can be REALLY hard to "start up a conversation" with someone, especially if you're both quiet people. i think you should try to make more of an effort to pay attention to her to get a better idea of what she's like. watch her when she talks to her friends, for example - what kind of music, films, books does she like? these are always excellent conversation starters, way better than any other cheesy pick-up line, because if you…

i think the transition comes with practice, honestly. you don't want to make it seem like you are trying to force yourself on people, so try to take things one day at a time. i have this t-shirt that says "I'm shy, not anti-social (you can talk to me!)" every time i wear it i always get a laugh or two, but it's so true. i want to talk to people, too. it's probably best to try to surround yourself around people who have similar interests as you, and from what it sounds like, you've got plenty of …