all the time..but hey...its a hint that your into her and she'll take it from there....haha

You shouldn't be embarrassed :). If I'm into the guy I don't mind... at all. lol

Never happened before, but i'm sure if a girl i liked did then something might happen or not.

I remember my cousin, she's wild and very open and very daring....She flirted with me one time and i was so uncomfortable i wanted to die.

Was even worse when she was sqaushed up to me in a back of a bumpy car ride

I get a hard on almost instantly. I would think the girl would be more offended if you didn't get hard than if you did. Just my 2 cents

This always happens to me when my girlfriend leans back on my lap, or I hold her close for a while or something. It embarrasses the hell out of me and I try to awkwardly position myself so that she can't feel it >.<. It's stupid to feel like this, isn't it?

Haha that made me laugh Some really testing girl there

As a girl i like it wen i sit on their lap and can feel it, its not something to be embaressed about, more of a turn on in my case x

Its normal... especially if the girl got a nice ass...and they like it when u get hard!!

it'd only feel weird if i wasnt attracted to him but if i am, its nbd, really..

I do have a lot of girl friends (girl friends, NOT girlfriends ) and they do tend to sit on my lap every now and then. My log doesn't usually go up, probably because I already know they're my friends and that I wouldn't do anything to them, about 1/10 of the times though it does go up accidentally, they don't seem to mind it though, they may even like it

Just think about other things than her sitting on the lap.

This is plain SICK coming from a guy......gross

idk about anyone else but at my school theres some really hot girls that just go around sitting on guys laps for no reason exept (in my opinion) to gauge reaction they seam pleased when guys obvioously get hard so when they get to me i make sure not to dissapoint them

What have i missed in this past year o.O?!

well i dont know how girls feel about it so i just wear jockies/cotton boxer shorts to make sure johnny doesnt go around wanderin in unwanted places. she does feel him on her ass but his not goin in her ass, if u get what i mean. but a girls perspective would be much appriciated

Haha at some of these replies..

But yeah i definitely do when a girl sit on my laps.. It's practically like at a dance in high school where girls just do dirty dancing and i bet a lot of us guys gets hard when we dance with them..

Girls do dirty dancing O_O? Holy shit i have been missing out on a lot of things :o

Haha yeah, like grinding sorta thing? But it's banned now at my old high school lol... I am glad that i graduated sorta :P.

The problem is that I can't a girl to sit on my lap. Seriously

I remember in my old french school all the girls would like sit on everyones laps on benches because there wasn't enough benches for everyone..... But me being me nobody sat on mine