dude girls eff with guys all the time. This girl probably felt like you were being a good friend and probably didn't see you that way. She probably rebounded a little bit. I mean theres a lot of things she could be trying to do. but if i were you i wouldn't bother with this girl. just be her friend and if you cant do that stop talking to her, or better yet make a move and try to get her in the sack. But if you want a good relationship i wouldn't go with this one. If she has feelings for you and thats a big "im messing with you" sort of thing she's manipulating you in one shape or form. But if she's being truthful im sure you dont wana be apart of a love triangle.

U cant just be over girls. Dude seriously she probably thinks of u as a good friend. Dude just make a move and see what happens, but make sure she knows whats happening. Lol her ex? Not many girls would say that.

Do not waste your time with her. If you do go out with her, she will definitely still be thinking about her ex and eventually she will leave you until he heart breaks her and she gets over it.

ok thats pretty harsh tbh, but i really think that she just thinks of you as a friend, friends do play those asking games, maybe she was just trying to get to know you a bit better or maybe she needed an opening so she could talk about her feelings for her ex. on the other hand if she was leading you on and giving you signals that she likes you, then there are two possibilities, a) she likes you and is trying to make you jealous, or b) she is messing with you head, if that is the case which i highly doubt then i would try and move on from her and just be her friend. personally i think she just thinks of you as a friend, like alot of people wont talk about their feelings or problems to the people they know unless asked upon, to avoid embarrassment.
not sure if this helped in anyway.
best of luck mate.

I think the guys are right. I would never say something like that unless I was talking to someone I only saw as a friend. It does sound like she might have led you on a little but I don't think she's screwing with you (you never know with some girls, but it's highly unlikely).

You could continue to be friends with her and support her, maybe if things don't work out for her you'll get a chance. It's not something anyone can guarantee, it would depend on if you think it'd be worth it. Don't limit yourself though.

She definitely took you as a friend, good close friend, and thats probably because you sounded like a friend who is going to be there for her always and help her with her problems. And since she thought you are a good help to her problems, she started sharing things with you, like that she is interested in her Ex etc. You did misunderstand when you thought she is probably interested in you.

But nothing is over yet. She is close to you, all you have to do is to start doing something that she gets to realise that you actually like her. No dont go and directly tell her that I like you. See that the situation is that she likes someone else. If you prove that you're better than that guy, she is going out with you. She isnt dating but she is in the state of liking someone else and yet she is close with you.

All you gotta do is stop being a friend and make a move to the next level. Flirt a bit? If she shares stuff about her ex, try to make yourself look better than them. And yes you definitely need to stop being a friend. She needs to know that you want something more than friends. Walk away if she makes it completely clear that she wants nothing apart from friendship.

you waited to long to say something. There is no perfect time to initiate something with a girl. The sooner the better

She could just be playing with you. Maybe ask her why she wants to get back with him? You may have missed your chance:/ Maybe not though- you should get out of the friend zone

damn she messing with your head good i think its just crel of her
and btw i know how you feel bout that