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Kerosene · Jul 16th 2010, 2:13am

Locachick wrote:

I think that's going a little far that's just your opinion , our parents got married when we were older so in no way do I feel like a sibling to him. Would toiu say someone had a mental problem if they slept with a room mate? No you wouldn't and that is as far as our relationship went he was just someone I lived with

I'd say there was something wrong with somebody that slept with a roommate if their parents were already married,yes.

But that is just my opinion, like you said.

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Kevmo7 wrote:

hey chill out, everybody makes mistakes, she feels bad about it and surely knows it was a mistake, saying that type of shit isnt helping anybody, so chill out.

She made a thread where people are free to respond.
She should have known that mentioning that she fucked a family member would cause a little bit of a shit storm.-shrug-

ben101 · Jul 16th 2010, 2:17am

but is it helping? nope

was she asking for advise and help? yep

end of story.

Kerosene · Jul 16th 2010, 2:19am

Kevmo7 wrote:

but is it helping? nope

was she asking for advise and help? yep

end of story.

She wasn't asking for help.
She was asking to hear stories.
I shared mine and she mentioned that it was a family member that she lost her virginity to.
It's not like she had to mention it, no one beat it out of her.
She admit herself that it was a stupid mistake,I was just agreeing in a few more words.

Locachick · Jul 16th 2010, 2:20am

Shes right everyone is free to reply, I just don't think that just because the law says what I did is wrong that that makes me a horrible person

Kerosene · Jul 16th 2010, 2:22am

Locachick wrote:

Shes right everyone is free to reply, I just don't think that just because the law says what I did is wrong that that makes me a horrible person

I didn't say you were a horrible person,
just disgusting.
The law says murder is wrong.
Is a man a horrible person for murdering a child?
I like to think so.

The law says incest is wrong.
Are you a horrible person for having sex with a family member?no, but it is quite disgusting and therefore makes you a disgusting person in my eyes because IMO, it takes a disgusting person to have sex with a member of their family.

Locachick · Jul 16th 2010, 2:27am

A peice of paper does not make someone family.

Kerosene · Jul 16th 2010, 2:29am

Locachick wrote:

A peice of paper does not make someone family.

Legally, yes it does make him a family member.
That's what marriage does darling, like it or not.

Locachick · Jul 16th 2010, 2:35am

In a legal sense it does. But the people you just happen to get stuck with isn't my idea of family.

Kerosene · Jul 16th 2010, 2:36am

Locachick wrote:

In a legal sense it does. But the people you just happen to get stuck with isn't my idea of family.

What your idea of family is and what your family LEGALLY is is two different things.

So in your eyes, you may have just slept with a "roommate" but legally, you slept with a family member that you also have to live with.
Imagine how much your man must love that.

Locachick · Jul 16th 2010, 2:45am

So say if someone is 14 and they have sex with a 16 year old in my state legaly that is rape, so do you think that's discusting? Just because the law says so? And he doesn't live with me anymore he moved out before I even met my boyfriend

Kerosene · Jul 16th 2010, 2:50am

Locachick wrote:

So say if someone is 14 and they have sex with a 16 year old in my state legaly that is rape, so do you think that's discusting? Just because the law says so? And he doesn't live with me anymore he moved out before I even met my boyfriend

No, I don't consider that disgusting because where I live, the law says different and I've grown up with it and am used to it this way.
Until recently actually, a 12 year old could legally have sex but it was recently changed to 16.

Here, a 16 year old can have sex with anyone of any age as long as the older person is in no position of authority.

Now, if a parent were to have sex with their child, yes, that is disgusting.

If a police officer tried to have sex with someone under 16, yes, that is disgusting
If a teacher tried to have sex with one of their students under the age of 16, yes, that is all disgusting and not just because the law says it's wrong but because I, and any other level headed person would find it morally wrong, just like fucking a step brother.

I don't even see why you are still arguing with me.
You said yourself it was wrong and a mistake.You're just proving my point.

Locachick · Jul 16th 2010, 2:58am

It was a mistake but I don't think it means I have mental issues

Kerosene · Jul 16th 2010, 3:01am

Locachick wrote:

It was a mistake but I don't think it means I have mental issues

And that is your opinion:)

saraaah789 · Jul 16th 2010, 3:01am

It happened, but not by choice really. My current boyfriend was at my house and my ex boyfriend, who I lost my virginity too, stopped by to try and sell something to my parents for his new job. They met. It wasnt terribly awkward, but if I had a choice they never would have met.

Locachick · Jul 16th 2010, 3:11am

Well in my opinion your a jerk.

Kerosene · Jul 16th 2010, 3:13am

Locachick wrote:

Well in my opinion your a jerk.

That's fine.
I'm not the one who fucked a family member so I'm okay with that.

Locachick · Jul 16th 2010, 3:19am

Well I'm fine with that.

Kerosene · Jul 16th 2010, 3:21am

Apparently you aren't since you're referring to it as a mistake.

Just saying.

Locachick · Jul 16th 2010, 3:25am

I said it was a mistake I don't find it discusting and I accept it.

Kerosene · Jul 16th 2010, 3:26am

Locachick wrote:

I said it was a mistake I don't find it discusting and I accept it.

Awh!
Good for you.^_^

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