Is This Wrong?

Reservoir Angel · Jul 8th 2010, 9:58pm

I'll skip the details, and just ask:

I live in two different towns. Spending most of my time in one, and some of it in the other. Is it wrong to have one sex buddy in each town, without them knowing the other one exists?

v859 · Jul 8th 2010, 10:03pm

Its not something I would personally do. But I don't think it is as bad as if you were supposed to be in a committed relationship to one or the other.

Mec · Jul 8th 2010, 10:07pm

Yeah, I think if it's sorta a friends with benefits thing, then there's not really a problem.
Here's a simple way to think of it. If each of the people in these towns had a sex buddy for whenever you're in the other town, would you have a problem with it?

jude45 · Jul 8th 2010, 10:12pm

Mec wrote:

Here's a simple way to think of it. If each of the people in these towns had a sex buddy for whenever you're in the other town, would you have a problem with it?

Ooh this is good.

But if your relationship with these two is just that of "friends with benefits", then the idea is that there is no commitment, and this there shouldn't be a problem.

Reservoir Angel · Jul 8th 2010, 10:30pm

Thing is with this, currently I only have 1 fuck buddy, in the town I'm in most. a few weeks back, in the rarely-visited town, I fooled around with a friend of mine, who I really do wanna do more with, many times.

so i'm not sure if i should go for it with this friend, when i'm already regularly shagging my already-established fuck buddy.

jude45 · Jul 8th 2010, 10:32pm

You might as well shag both.

Being a friend with benefits means having no commitment. Who cares who you or this person has sex with?

Freddie354 · Jul 8th 2010, 10:33pm

Reservoir Angel wrote:

I'll skip the details, and just ask:

I live in two different towns. Spending most of my time in one, and some of it in the other. Is it wrong to have one sex buddy in each town, without them knowing the other one exists?

When you're in the 'lesser' town, do you call/email/chat with the girl from the main/first town? If so, I'd say it's probably wrong. But if it's more a "Hey, seeya next week" thing, then not so much.

Mec · Jul 8th 2010, 10:35pm

Well, its up to you. If you were in your current fuck-buddy's position, would you want to know before your fuck-buddy went and found one in another town, or would you be better off not knowing?
If the relationship between you and your fuck-buddy is strictly for sex, and there are no emotional ties toward it being an actual in-depth relationship, it shouldn't be a huge problem. Once more though, you kinda have to find out what your fuck-buddy's current view of your relationship is to know what to do.

Reservoir Angel · Jul 8th 2010, 10:50pm

Freddie354 wrote:

When you're in the 'lesser' town, do you call/email/chat with the girl from the main/first town? If so, I'd say it's probably wrong. But if it's more a "Hey, seeya next week" thing, then not so much.

Both of them are guys.

and I was mates with the 1st guy before we started fucking. and i'm mates with the other guy, but i sucked him off a few weeks ago. so me and the 2nd guy talk as mates, aswell as me and the 1st guy talk like mates...then fuck.

Mec · Jul 8th 2010, 10:56pm

Find some way to get them in the same spot and have a threesome. Problem solved.

Freddie354 · Jul 8th 2010, 11:12pm

Reservoir Angel wrote:

Both of them are guys.

and I was mates with the 1st guy before we started fucking. and i'm mates with the other guy, but i sucked him off a few weeks ago. so me and the 2nd guy talk as mates, aswell as me and the 1st guy talk like mates...then fuck.

Sorry for the assumption but doens't really change my opinion really. yeah, i imagine it's an iffy situation then.

On the other hand, you've already 'cheated', so what's one more time?

Reservoir Angel · Jul 9th 2010, 3:07pm

Mec wrote:

Find some way to get them in the same spot and have a threesome. Problem solved.

I very much approve of this idea. but in practise, it could be tricky...

Cass Cass · Jul 10th 2010, 1:12am

Hope youre using protection... lol

Reservoir Angel · Jul 10th 2010, 1:13am

Cass Cass wrote:

Hope youre using protection... lol

Of course. I'm slutty, not stupid.

Raylan Givens · Jul 10th 2010, 2:21am

Personally I don't see a problem with it, if you're not committed to either of them or filling their heads with crap, it's not an issue. You're allowed to do whatever you feel like since you're not tied down by a relationship.

TextilesGirl · Jul 12th 2010, 12:00am

different postcodes?
then it's all ok

242victim · Jul 12th 2010, 1:18am

hahaha

Nina2004 · Jul 12th 2010, 5:14pm

As long as you are happy and not raising anyone's hope, it is a fair game

Manny · Jul 12th 2010, 5:15pm

You're single right? So, no, it's not wrong.

thelank · Jul 12th 2010, 9:52pm

nope keep it up. no pun intended

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