That's one long sentence.

But it is normal for him to want to keep living like a kid...after all, you're 17 and you should be able to as well. The best thing to do is explain to him that now he has a child and it is his responsibility to help raise it as much as yours.

You definitely need to seek help from both yours and his parents because at 17, it will be quite a task raising this child alone. It is important that you do keep doing things you enjoy in life ad you are still quite young but the child comes first for now, and make sure your boyfriend understands that too.

Don't worry about your child living in a f*cked up home, just treat her with love and do the best you can and I'm sure your boyfriend will come around soon enough.

I think you need to step back and reevaluate your situation and your relationship with your boyfriend. If you're unhappy with the way things are, you need to talk about it with him. Even if you do argue, you should still fill him in on how you're feeling. Communication is very important. If you don't bring this to his attention, you won't have the chance of getting anywhere. Talk to him about it calmly and just explain how you feel about the situation.

He does have responsibilities now and he can't just ignore them and not be around for you and his child. If that's the case, then what role does he expect to play here? It's not fair to you or your daughter for him to just be on the sidelines without doing anything. If he's not willing to change, I think you need to ask yourself if you're going to continue to put up with it. It sounds like it's taking quite a toll on you and if you're constantly stressed out and worried about your relationship with him, you may not be in the right mindset to take care of your daughter properly. It's important to remember to do what's best for yourself and what's best for her.

Things are going to be tough. It's difficult raising a child even when you're older and have your life together, but it's going to be even more difficult at your age. You don't have everything together yet and it's only natural to feel overwhelmed by everything. You can't give up, though. You're dealing with some tough situations, but you have to do your best to deal with them and make the best out of them. If you have family to lean on for support, I suggest you do that. It's going to be beneficial for you and your daughter to have a strong support system.

I hope this helped. Good luck with everything.

You cant expect your boyfriend to not act like a kid at the age of 17, he still is a kid. You need to accept that you may not get the maturity out of your boyfriend that you are hoping for.

Obviously your boyfriend wasn't ready for becoming an adult, he's 17. I think you need to have a serious conversation about this with him. If he isn't willing to hear you out, then you should break things off with him. I'm sure you can find a real man who will be there for you.

wow then hes a dick if he wont take care of his daughter at 22. I understand 17 but 22?