So my girlfriend and I have been dating for 15 months and we really do love each other alot, we are neighbors and see each other everyday. So she told me about 6 weeks ago that she had been lying to me and had been partying when she really said she was doing something else. This happened about 6 times. Everything is going good now though. But I see that there are double standards in our relationship, little things. Like if we are at a movie she will text her friends, but if she is with them she wont reply at all or text me back. Than I asked where she was and she will say she couldnt text because of the movie. When shes with me she always texts her friends, but when shes with them... well you get it. I have told of this to and she aknowedges it, but doesnt seem to care. Since the entire lying thing we have agreed that she would text me atleast once an hour while shes out during the night, well what do ya know! First night and 4 hours later I get a text that she is at some guys house with her friend. And I told her what she promised me. She told me it was okay and not worry. There she goes again, breaking another promise. Im so hurt by feeling as if im being used and such. She told me she was not gonna go to parties anymore as well (this was her idea) and well where does she end up???? What should I do? I feel like there is nothing for me to do. I find myself getting high on vicodin and smoking cigarettes when these things happen. And I have never done any of that until about a week ago