I thought you were much older.

I did as well actually
Mind you, tanner thought I was 18-20 so don't listen to him

As soon as I was born I realised I never wanted children.

They are icky.

I thought you were my age (I'm 16 in two months)

amando96 wrote:

As soon as I was born I realised I never wanted children.

They are icky.

Haha, same, kids annoy me

Do some baby sitting jobs, you'll either love it, or never want to do it again

Don't forget that babies have nappies that need changing

Aw babies are cute! I like children when they are just 2.
But generally I can't really stand children, they are just vile in some ways haha.
I'm never having any that's for sure.

But fair enough to you Yea obvioulsy waayyyyy too young but at least one day you'll make a loving mother

It takes more than maturity to have a baby and I hate when a lot of girls at you age believes that's all you need. You're 14, you need to enjoy your life and have fun as much as you can. In the meantime, why don't you take up babysitting! You're around a children, and you'll learn somewhat it's like to be a parent.

17ish, I get a mature straightedge vibe from you. I have a thing for vibing people, really weird.

I know exactly how you feel, but, my best friend has a 10 month old baby, i love him to bits but watching how much her life has had to change puts me off. As Allie said, there is alot more to it than what you'd think.

wow i thought you were like 17-18, ya i agree amando, do some babysitting, you will find out if you really want kids then, i love kids, but sometimes they really annoy me, especially if i dont know them, i did some babysitting a few years ago and i realised, i would not be able to handle kids until at least im in my late 20s, it does take more than maturity, you life is pretty much put on hold. dont rush into anything is what id suggest, there is a huge difference between wanting a baby and actually having one.

I'm with you. :p I would love to have a baby but I know it would be a really bad thing to do right now. And even pregnancy would be an interesting experience... (plus, everyone seems to go gaga over pregnant people and babies haha.)

The main thing that makes me want to wait is how drastically it would change my life. If you're ever out someplace fun (the beach, a museum, even shopping or whatever), watch the families who have younger kids. It doesn't matter how well behaved they are, the parents still have to put almost all of their attention into the kids. It looks exhausting. Want to relax, tan, or read a book? "Mommy, LETS GO IN THE WATER!!!!!"

You can't want to have a kid because it's adorable...
To be honest I don't why anyone would want kids at all, like it's been said, it puts your life on hold, for about 18 years, and there are other unfortunate cases where it lasts much longer than that.

I know I kinda screwed up my parent's life, so did my brother, so I don't want a kid to ruin my life.

amando96 wrote:

it puts your life on hold, for about 18 years, and there are other unfortunate cases where it lasts much longer than that.

i have a brother ,27, still living at home.... if i have kids they are getting booted out after high school

:rofl:27, he should have a house and a family by now.