So i have no problem talking to girls or anything i hook up with them when we hang and its just like a usual thing. But then when i start to like a girl and hang out with her and get closer and when we almost get close to dating i run. I'm talking to this girl now she seems amazing but then when that happened all these other girls started to talk to me not sure why this happens but it does everytime ever since i've been single. I'm joining the marines soon anyway and will be in bootcamp next summer..Doing Delayed entry program so I can go quicker, anyway now i got this one girl in my grasps she likes me and i seem to like her to her but to me i'm not sure if i do anymore. Shes going off to college soon anyway but i don't think i'm ment to have a gf again in highschool because it doesn't work out for me. EVERYTHING changes, i usually go out at night hang with my friends picking up our lady friends and doing our thing. but recently i haven't because of her.. But i'm not sure what my problem is haha

Not sure at all haha. i just run as soon as i get close to someone. i think i'm liking being single too much or something haha or its like a fear of commitment. Runs in my family. Dad and mom are divorced. My dad has had 2 other wifes my mom hasn't had another bf since just her little friends....soo could be that

very much. My first girlfriend seriously atleast and lost my virginity she lost hers the whole shabang...1 year of relationship break up because of fighting and arguing turns out she was cheating.. She said a whole bunch of shit that she didnt mean and i dont think this jenna girls is the girl for me anyway. urghh my relationship life sucks i wish i wasnt single but i can't meet the right girl haha plenty of them talking to me just no good ones i guess

people always tell me that...yeah i still feel weird everytime i hear her name or see her and tend to talk about her like Ex: "oh yeah me and my exe used to do that" even though i've had other gfs too after her but idk. We don't talk anymore she hates me and has another bf

yeah i've been single a good 6 months just little hook ups that kinda thing! i'll read that thanks

Edit: Read it alot of those steps i took besides the memory part that never went away. I'm not sure whats keeping me from getting over her. I hang with my friends all the time i have football and i'm joining the marines in a week so those are all on my mind. I feel like every girl i try to date reminds me of her. i had another girlfriend for 6 months after kirsten and still broke up it just took longer. I've had many posts about me and kirstens bad relationships on this site.

Yeah I wasn't going to join the marines because of her but i learned to not let anyone in the way of dreams. It'll take some time it was the only time i was hurt, i've had other gf's and when we broke up it wasn't hard at all like it was with her only girl i thought i loved but i have more things to worry about. I feel bad about hurting these other girls, i try and hang with girls as friends but maybe cause i'm flirty they take it the wrong way or something the majority of them want to date me once we hang out more and more i'm not being cocky or something but i wish i could just have good friends not girls who want to be with me

alright thanks again for the great advice!

Yeah i think 4 years as a marine will fix my problem!