ok, i think its perfectly natural to still have feelings for a person just one month after a relationship, its a very slow process getting over a person, even if they were not the best of partners you still care for them and various things start coming into your head, like asking yourself about things that could have been different, but in the end, you will be a stronger and better person for going through this, and you can use these experiences to not repeat the same mistakes in future relationships, like if one person has all the control in a relationship and abuses that power then you are better off without him, i understand how you think you one minute you are fully over the person you care for and then the next minute you are right back where you started from, its the same for everyone, i think every person will have a certain song/s that remind them of the person they care for, and when you hear that song after a break up its soo tough to listen to, but just give it time, try and stop looking at his facebook as it will just drive you insane, and slowly but surely you will get over him. i hope this helped

It really just takes time. If you had strong feelings for him, getting over him is not exactly easy. You just have to pick yourself up and get on with things. It's hard, but it does get easier and as long as you're willing to move on and let go, you'll reach that point where you're thinking about him constantly or even wanting to know what's going on with him. Just try to get your mind off of him by doing other things, such as going out and having a good time with friends. If you have him added on Facebook, I suggest you delete him. It may help with the moving on process. Also, it might help to think about the negative things about him. If he didn't treat you right, you can remind yourself that it's not something you want to go back to. Keep looking forward. He's not the only guy out there. It hurts right now, but it won't feel this way forever.

I've been in the same position as you. Sometimes when you have really strong feelings for someone, they take a while to go away. Just give it time, and hopefully you'll find someone else that you can have those feelings for.

i'm having the same kind of problem that you are. my friends are always there to comfort me, which i'm really thankful for and they are helping me realize that it takes time to move on. it will be difficult but you need to. he's not the only guy in the world, you'll find someone better!