How young is too young?

Otosaki · Aug 11th 2010, 4:50am

I'm 15 and I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now, and I don't mean to be a naive little girl and say that I love him, but I truly believe I do. We haven't so much as had a fight, and are really happy with each other. Hes 17, but I'm his first girlfriend and he is my first boyfriend, and we're been getting more and more close to the sex point all the time.

I told him I might not be ready for a while and he respects that, but at the same time I want it myself. Is 15 too young? I know people say it's best to wait, but I just feel so comfortable with him and I don't consider myself to be stupid or irrational when it comes to stuff like this.

Is age what really matters?

username #76 · Aug 11th 2010, 4:52am

Think of it this way - If you have any doubts/questions, you're not ready.

SMOKE. · Aug 11th 2010, 4:52am

age doesn't matter, whether your actually ready does, but 15 isn't too young to answer your question. I lost it at 15

username #76 · Aug 11th 2010, 4:53am

dusk wrote:

age doesn't matter, whether your actually ready does, but 15 isn't too young to answer your question. I lost it at 15

Did she get preggo

SMOKE. · Aug 11th 2010, 4:54am

JohnDoe wrote:

Did she get preggo

nope

SuperXinsanity · Aug 11th 2010, 4:56am

Otosaki wrote:

Is age what really matters?

No.

You just have to find it out yourself

People can't really tell you what to do.

username #76 · Aug 11th 2010, 4:57am

dusk wrote:

nope

Nice.

Did you use protection? If so, thats why

Otosaki · Aug 11th 2010, 4:58am

The thing is, I am ready. The only reason I'm hesitating is not because I'm not sure if I trust him, or if I'm ready for the commitment, it's more based on how my family would view it, if they would be disappointed in me because I was so young. I am religious, but in my own way, and I fully understand sex is not a crime, but would you look down on a 15 year old giving it to her boyfriend of only a bit more then half a year?

username #76 · Aug 11th 2010, 4:58am

Otosaki wrote:

The thing is, I am ready. The only reason I'm hesitating is not because I'm not sure if I trust him, or if I'm ready for the commitment, it's more based on how my family would view it, if they would be disappointed in me because I was so young. I am religious, but in my own way, and I fully understand sex is not a crime, but would you look down on a 15 year old giving it to her boyfriend of only a bit more then half a year?

Then you're not ready.

SMOKE. · Aug 11th 2010, 5:01am

JohnDoe wrote:

Nice.
Did you use protection? If so, thats why

lmao, actually not all the time, its called pulling out bro
WARNING: you might not be as skilled as you think
so don't rely on pulling out kids
EDIT: Johndoe is right, and no it doesn't matter the time frame
in which you nail the guy it matters if your ready

username #76 · Aug 11th 2010, 5:02am

dusk wrote:

lmao, actually not all the time, its called pulling out bro
WARNING: you might not be as skilled as you think
so don't rely on pulling out kids

I read pulling out doesn't always work as even a drop could be enough.

Otosaki · Aug 11th 2010, 5:04am

dusk wrote:

lmao, actually not all the time, its called pulling out bro
WARNING: you might not be as skilled as you think
so don't rely on pulling out kids

Is it that much to put on a condom? Sometimes I question society.

SuperXinsanity · Aug 11th 2010, 5:06am

In my honest opinion the 10 seconds it might take you to put the condom on is worth avoiding 20+ years with money problems and other issues

username #76 · Aug 11th 2010, 5:07am

Otosaki wrote:

Is it that much to put on a condom? Sometimes I question society.

For some people, it's whether to have fun or be safe.

Otosaki · Aug 11th 2010, 5:09am

Obviously I'm not experienced (hah, the point of this thread) but a condom doesn't take away the pleasure. I think that's a psychological thing, the few seconds it takes to put it on won't destroy the mood in such a way that sex is not as fun.

SMOKE. · Aug 11th 2010, 5:10am

Otosaki wrote:

Is it that much to put on a condom? Sometimes I question society.

If there were condoms there, I would have used them, but I was in a backwoods middle of nowhere town with my girl for another two days with none, what else would we do?

Otosaki wrote:

Obviously I'm not experienced (hah, the point of this thread) but a condom doesn't take away the pleasure. I think that's a psychological thing, the few seconds it takes to put it on won't destroy the mood in such a way that sex is not as fun.

I actually am experienced, yes condoms do take away pleasure, yes it is less fun when you have to put a condom on

username #76 · Aug 11th 2010, 5:28am

Otosaki;2764806[B wrote:

][/B]Obviously I'm not experienced (hah, the point of this thread) but a condom doesn't take away the pleasure. I think that's a psychological thing, the few seconds it takes to put it on won't destroy the mood in such a way that sex is not as fun.

SH, but I can imagine it taking the pleasure away from me. Think about it; a piece of w/e condoms are made out of separating myself from the girl.

Otosaki · Aug 11th 2010, 5:35am

Latex or another type of plastic if you're allergic.
It's a thin layer that add more pleasure for the girl if it's ribbed, and I doubt that such a little thing could take away such pleasure. If it did, someone would come up with someway to make this a different way, because otherwise what's the point of having sex if it's not for pleasure nor to get pregnant?

username #76 · Aug 11th 2010, 5:52am

Otosaki wrote:

Latex or another type of plastic if you're allergic.
It's a thin layer that add more pleasure for the girl if it's ribbed, and I doubt that such a little thing could take away such pleasure. If it did, someone would come up with someway to make this a different way, because otherwise what's the point of having sex if it's not for pleasure nor to get pregnant?

Well there ARE male b/c pills... but they're still experimental lol

SMOKE. · Aug 11th 2010, 6:00am

Otosaki wrote:

Latex or another type of plastic if you're allergic.
It's a thin layer that add more pleasure for the girl if it's ribbed, and I doubt that such a little thing could take away such pleasure. If it did, someone would come up with someway to make this a different way, because otherwise what's the point of having sex if it's not for pleasure nor to get pregnant?

condoms are never better... some are better than other condoms, never better than no condom, but it feels good with a condom too.

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