Generally I'm very positive, I look at the highs of situations as opposed to the lows, and I laugh at pretty much anything and everything, but I'm getting sick of being the one that takes everything.
Work/college.
I've worked EVERY day this summer holiday, apart from Sunday just gone, and the day I went to see Prodigy, yet I get called lazy, and get moaned by my mum (more to come) when I'm home 'cause I can never be bothered to tidy my room and petty shit like that.
I can't decide whether to stay at college or just try for full-time at work ( I work at Tesco ) as the money's so good, but both work and college are likely to affect my decision on when to restart my Army career (I dropped out of training a couple years back), and I'm also getting nagged at by my mum about that.
Basically where I'm re-enlisting, it's taking a lot longer than if I were to normally join, but apparently it's me not hassling the careers advisor enough, even though it's the MOD processing my application and out of his control.
Home.
Forgive me for seeming like some stereotypical, melodramatic whine-bag teenager, but I hate it here. All my mum does is talk to me either like shit, or in a tone of total indifference. No matter what it is. I tell her about college, she gets impatient with me and says she doesn't care. I tell her about work, she gets impatient with me and says I'm to start paying rent when I hit 19 (fair enough as I earn more than her even around college but it's the way she says it), I tell her about the Army application she gets impatient and tells me to make my fucking mind up. She puts no pressure on my brothers at all about life-decisions, or makes them do anything really, just lets them both mong it on the Xbox all day despite the eldest of the 2 about to be starting his last year of school. Also, her boyfriend now lives here and I fucking hate the bastard, as he was my dad's best friend before my parents split.
I wanna move to my dad's, but can't without a car an I just failed my driving test, but I'm saving and saving money for a car and hoping I pass next time!
Friends.
I get ripped the piss out of ALL the time, which by the rules of banter, I wouldn't care about if I had the confidence to respond. I just sit there and take it, and the one time I bit back, I get fucking screwed at. On Sat night I promised I'd stop calling my mate fat, but a few hours later he popped a fat joke at me, so, naturally I responded in the same way. This resulted in a massive argument that lasted the distance accross town. Like I said to him, don't give what you can't fucking take.
My social life is shite, unless there's a local even (like on Saturday) I usually only go out with one friend and my cousin every now and then in my mate's car but other than that it's pretty much me and my cousin going to my dad's when we're both not working.
Girls.
Basically, I have NO self-confidence. I find it hard to talk to girls I like, let alone ask them out, and it's another thing I get made fun of for. I blame my ex, but so far have found no soloution to it, and I know blaming won't solve anything.
I haven't got laid since May 2008, and it is seriously effecting my stress levels. Not to say I just wanna girl to bone her and chuck her, I do wanna proper girlfriend, but you have regular sex for 2 years then suddenly go this long without it and tell me it ain't a fucking shock to your system. But obviously, I can't get laid, or a girlfriend without some self-confidence so I'm pissing against the wind anyway.
Random.
I'm also struggling to find ANY talents in myself? I've lost interest in drawing, and I can't fit in any sports other than my running for my Army training. There's not an awful lot I feel I'm very good at.
Sorry for the depressing rant, as I say, I try to be quite positive, but there's only so much bullshit I can bottle up. I really do feel I'm gonna hurt someone soon. Which reminds me, I also get made fun of for the way I kicked in the last person to truely piss me off, even though none of my friends but one were there, and he doesn't make fun anyway.
Work/college.
I've worked EVERY day this summer holiday, apart from Sunday just gone, and the day I went to see Prodigy, yet I get called lazy, and get moaned by my mum (more to come) when I'm home 'cause I can never be bothered to tidy my room and petty shit like that.
I can't decide whether to stay at college or just try for full-time at work ( I work at Tesco ) as the money's so good, but both work and college are likely to affect my decision on when to restart my Army career (I dropped out of training a couple years back), and I'm also getting nagged at by my mum about that.
Basically where I'm re-enlisting, it's taking a lot longer than if I were to normally join, but apparently it's me not hassling the careers advisor enough, even though it's the MOD processing my application and out of his control.
Home.
Forgive me for seeming like some stereotypical, melodramatic whine-bag teenager, but I hate it here. All my mum does is talk to me either like shit, or in a tone of total indifference. No matter what it is. I tell her about college, she gets impatient with me and says she doesn't care. I tell her about work, she gets impatient with me and says I'm to start paying rent when I hit 19 (fair enough as I earn more than her even around college but it's the way she says it), I tell her about the Army application she gets impatient and tells me to make my fucking mind up. She puts no pressure on my brothers at all about life-decisions, or makes them do anything really, just lets them both mong it on the Xbox all day despite the eldest of the 2 about to be starting his last year of school. Also, her boyfriend now lives here and I fucking hate the bastard, as he was my dad's best friend before my parents split.
I wanna move to my dad's, but can't without a car an I just failed my driving test, but I'm saving and saving money for a car and hoping I pass next time!
Friends.
I get ripped the piss out of ALL the time, which by the rules of banter, I wouldn't care about if I had the confidence to respond. I just sit there and take it, and the one time I bit back, I get fucking screwed at. On Sat night I promised I'd stop calling my mate fat, but a few hours later he popped a fat joke at me, so, naturally I responded in the same way. This resulted in a massive argument that lasted the distance accross town. Like I said to him, don't give what you can't fucking take.
My social life is shite, unless there's a local even (like on Saturday) I usually only go out with one friend and my cousin every now and then in my mate's car but other than that it's pretty much me and my cousin going to my dad's when we're both not working.
Girls.
Basically, I have NO self-confidence. I find it hard to talk to girls I like, let alone ask them out, and it's another thing I get made fun of for. I blame my ex, but so far have found no soloution to it, and I know blaming won't solve anything.
I haven't got laid since May 2008, and it is seriously effecting my stress levels. Not to say I just wanna girl to bone her and chuck her, I do wanna proper girlfriend, but you have regular sex for 2 years then suddenly go this long without it and tell me it ain't a fucking shock to your system. But obviously, I can't get laid, or a girlfriend without some self-confidence so I'm pissing against the wind anyway.
Random.
I'm also struggling to find ANY talents in myself? I've lost interest in drawing, and I can't fit in any sports other than my running for my Army training. There's not an awful lot I feel I'm very good at.
Sorry for the depressing rant, as I say, I try to be quite positive, but there's only so much bullshit I can bottle up. I really do feel I'm gonna hurt someone soon. Which reminds me, I also get made fun of for the way I kicked in the last person to truely piss me off, even though none of my friends but one were there, and he doesn't make fun anyway.
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