That was her question not if the act was rape.

I think her question was solved earlier, anyways.

Ah yes, so it was Klose.... Both questions are answered then

what rape!!! its not a rape...its normal for girls to say "no " becoz they sense feeling of afraid and pain.. and to feel guilty is very common after losing virginity. "TOOTSIE" main question was she is still feeling pain!!! girls come up and give replies...according to me ..really pain for such long time is not normal.. and plz dont feel guilty..now u cant change anything..just relax..tht was ur first time. ok..no need to tell mom ..ask ur any friend and try to consult a doc if pain doesnt disappear in coming few days..plz about tht pain is increasing or decreasing..or throbbing type of pain or blunt..just relax ur are not rapped u have enjyoed sex.ok..have a nice ..

lmfao what was the point of the condom if he spat on it... well other then getting pregnant of course but then again if he was spitting on the condom you mine as well just went bareback and told him to pull out before he came.. you should get tested for ALL kinds and types of STIs.

So you were basically raped? I suppose it hurts yeah, if he didn't listen to your NO then he wasn't really gentle with you probably.

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Yeah some people are just sick like that....

I'd say it's normal. My gf HATED me for this, because the pain didn't get away for days...

Give the guy a fucking break christ. If she was giggling while he was doing it he probably had no idea she didn't want it. No does not always mean no.

LOL
some people on here are really stupid

no is no
it doesn't matter how it's said
giggling can be a sign of nerves

REGARDLESS
if an eighteen year old tries it on with a fifteen year old, and she says no (regardless of whether she laughed or not) it's rape.

The Boob Lady wrote:

LOL
some people on here are really stupid

no is no
it doesn't matter how it's said
giggling can be a sign of nerves

REGARDLESS
if an eighteen year old tries it on with a fifteen year old, and she says no (regardless of whether she laughed or not) it's rape.

Hmm, must of missed that. 18 on 15 is rape.

Doesn't matter if he cuddled with you or not. If you didn't want ot when you started, it's not consentual.

uum, yeah it is normal, i had really bad pain in my thighs for days.
hope you're okay!

Exactly!

Its not rape if you did it twice.

lol and you cuddled afterwards? wtf this isnt rape, sounds like you just had first time jitters

women always cry rape at the most pathitic stuff its like the only powerful card they can hold, and it makes me sick how the laws flex in there favour so easily.

i guess we have more rapists than i imagined

Ya thats rape...Im Sorry Girl Im here if you wanna talk

Um, if you kept saying no it's considered sexual assault...

Besides that, if you're vag is sore you were probably too dry (which is probably due to the fact that you didn't want it....). Also, when you have sex for the first time your hymen is torn; therefore, it tends to be a bit sore down there for a while.
Don't have sex with this guy again if he doesn't respect that NO MEANS NO. wait until YOU are ready and if you're sore after that time make sure to buy some lube for the future.

I don't like the word rape.... I prefer 'Surprise sex'.

But in any case, you need to make sure that if this happens, you say no like NO!
Like no with an exclamation mark no.

i dont know about this, you should have made him stop hun. if you didnt wana do it you shouldnt have let him force it on you.

how old was her?

wow well i don't know what to say it is pretty messed up. i don't think this would be considered rape. by the retarded law yes it would be but the law is f***ed up.

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Kevmo7 wrote:

Its not rape if you did it twice.

lol and you cuddled afterwards? wtf this isnt rape, sounds like you just had first time jitters

women always cry rape at the most pathitic stuff its like the only powerful card they can hold, and it makes me sick how the laws flex in there favour so easily.

I totally agree!!!!