ivaiva wrote:

Q is why swallowing is better?

Æxitosus wrote:

1. do you receive BJs? now and then, yes
2. do you ejaculate in her mouth? do you ask for that, or she asks, or it just happens spontaneous? one time she asked for it and ive shot in her mouth ever since
3. does she swallow? do you expect her to swallow or even ask her to do that? she swallows, and if she didnt i wouldnt have expected her to ask for me to ejaculate in her mouth
4. why? why does it feel better if semen is already in her and you alreday had an orgasm? its nothing physical, its just the thought of something from you in her, i guess.

FOR GUYS WHO THINK SEMEN IS GROSS:

5. why do you think that? just because it came out of my penis
6. do you ask your GF to swallow? do you ask just one night stands (if so do you do that because you think they are more "dirty")? i don't do one night stands, i have been talking about my grilfriend the whole time
7. why do you ask or expect from GF to swallow if you think semen is something gross? because she doesnt think its gross
8. do you feel less of your GF after? i try not to kiss her for a good 20 minutes, or ill have her eat a few crackers. besides that, no difference
9. do you kiss after? ...kinda just answered that
10. do you ever feel bad after? the first time i did but she apparently liked it so not anymore

If you have something to add please do, because I'd really like to understand this phenomenon.
just try swallowing once, if you don't like it then don't do it again. And one night sands are a good way to get mouth herpes unless you know the person well enough. and its not a "phenomenon". UFO's and northern lights are "phenomenons". a blowjob is an act of pleasure or...something like that

ivaiva wrote:

So you think your penis is gross or what? But you still want her to have it in her, like you said? Why is not good enough for you but is for her?
I swallow, it's not a problem to me, idk why do you think it is.
By phenomenon I didn't mean BJs, but guys repulsed by their own penises and semen (but still wanting something so gross and disguisting (to them) in mouth of woman they love - I think it's weird and would like to understand that point of view).

Raoul_Foil_Duke wrote:

It's not so much about caring whether they swallow after you've already had an orgasm. Those who intend to swallow generally let you finish while you're still in her mouth. Those who don't intend to swallow might pull off and finish you with their hand. Think about it. You've just been getting a great feeling and all of a sudden at the crucial moment it stops and is replaced with something less good making the whole thing less pleasurable. Granted, she could "spit" and I wouldn't care whether she spit or swallowed. It's about finishing while still in her mouth that makes the difference. Getting up and running for somewhere to spit might look a little awkward though. Besides, guys feel either a letdown or a type of guilt after cumming. It's reassuring to see a swallow. Makes you believe she actually enjoyed it somewhat, even if she didn't. Better than making you think she hated it as she runs to a sink.

ivaiva wrote:

Tnx for your explanation, I relly hopet to get some explanation like this. That was a purpose of my questions. I would be happy if other guys would try to explain it too!