So... for me, relationships don't last long. Most of the time it's because the people I date go psychotic. However because the only relationship I've ever had was with a dude for two months, I don't want to have another short dinky little relationship. But.... I dunno. This girl I'm dating is driving me up the wall.
There are three things that are bugging me the most. 1. She lives fairly far away, so we communicate mostly through facebook, and for some odd reason, she feels the urge to befriend all of my friends and tell them that I'm the coolest person ever. Even people I don't know. (My friend's, girlfriend's, friend that I'm not even friends with for example) 2. ... she keeps saying I'm awesome. And cute. OVER AND OVER AGAIN. And it's kind of hard to continue or start a conversation after "you're so cute!" "I LOVE YOUR SMILE." "you're so awesome" 3. We went on a date, and the main thing we talked about was her fucked up relationship that ended a few months ago. She's 15, and apparently she was in a 2 year long relationship and got reeeeally serious... o0 Aaaand other random things of her past that freaked me out.
Plus just... little things she'll say will make be do a double take. Like, "Dude, you actually said that?"
I feel bad that I most of my relationships never work out, and that unlike most other high school students, (I'm 17 and a senior) I've never fallen in love. (I really don't mind it that much, but people like to point it out whenever the topic of relationships come up... it's just kind of annoying. It seems like a pleasant experience to fall in love and be loved back...) It's all especially difficult being gay.... should I wait it out and see what happens? Maybe she'll cool down after a while? We've been dating for about 2 1/2 weeks and I don't want another short relationship, but this seems so be going nowhere.
I only dated her because she is one of the few people that have shown interest in me in the past year... I guess I'd hoped that I would, in turn, start to like her as much as she liked me.
There are three things that are bugging me the most. 1. She lives fairly far away, so we communicate mostly through facebook, and for some odd reason, she feels the urge to befriend all of my friends and tell them that I'm the coolest person ever. Even people I don't know. (My friend's, girlfriend's, friend that I'm not even friends with for example) 2. ... she keeps saying I'm awesome. And cute. OVER AND OVER AGAIN. And it's kind of hard to continue or start a conversation after "you're so cute!" "I LOVE YOUR SMILE." "you're so awesome" 3. We went on a date, and the main thing we talked about was her fucked up relationship that ended a few months ago. She's 15, and apparently she was in a 2 year long relationship and got reeeeally serious... o0 Aaaand other random things of her past that freaked me out.
Plus just... little things she'll say will make be do a double take. Like, "Dude, you actually said that?"
I feel bad that I most of my relationships never work out, and that unlike most other high school students, (I'm 17 and a senior) I've never fallen in love. (I really don't mind it that much, but people like to point it out whenever the topic of relationships come up... it's just kind of annoying. It seems like a pleasant experience to fall in love and be loved back...) It's all especially difficult being gay.... should I wait it out and see what happens? Maybe she'll cool down after a while? We've been dating for about 2 1/2 weeks and I don't want another short relationship, but this seems so be going nowhere.
I only dated her because she is one of the few people that have shown interest in me in the past year... I guess I'd hoped that I would, in turn, start to like her as much as she liked me.
